What is the most important place to go on a blind date in the countryside?

When you go on a blind date in the countryside, what are the most important points to look at?

View the roles. Judge a boy's character by observing his words and actions and getting to know familiar people. Much of his character can be seen in his words and deeds. When dating, it depends on whether the boy is short-tempered, filial to his elders, and has a bad personality.

Look at the character. Boys should have independent personalities. He should have his own thoughts and ideas in case something goes wrong.

He should not follow the advice of others and go with the flow. We must be decisive and clean. The most important thing is not to be a "horse bag man" who is only here, obedient, and willing to be obedient.

Look at the home environment.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of the whole family. Therefore, when dating, in addition to the boy himself, his family should learn more about the character and reputation of the family, whether they are filial to their elders, whether their relatives are treated harmoniously, whether they live in harmony with their neighbors.

What do girls pay the most attention to when they go on a blind date.

It doesn't look handsome, but it looks good.

Most women are deceived by their first feelings, and when looking for a partner, there is often a problem of judging others by their appearance. While women don't expect the men they find to be stunning and handsome, at least they don't have an appearance that seriously affects the appearance of the city!

Size and height are also a big plus.

The height of a boy is one of the criteria that women attach great importance to when choosing a mate. In the eyes of women, men are generally about meters tall. They shouldn't be obese and shouldn't be young enough to have a big belly. As a result, muscular men with burly bodies tend to be the object of women's attention.

A certain connotation is cultivated.

Nowadays, boys no longer demand that "ungifted women are moral." Women with academic qualifications tend to be the best women that men dream of. At the same time, women also demand that men have the basic knowledge, appropriate academic qualifications and self-control that attract them.

Gentlemanly manners.

Whether a person is well-educated in public is definitely an important indicator of whether he is mature or not. In public, he should give a good impression of being knowledgeable, reasonable, and well-educated. He should be dignified in his words and deeds, treat others appropriately, and avoid being unreasonable and out of shape in public.

Be tolerant, don't be careful.

A woman's dream lover should be able to walk out of the hall into the kitchen, exercise self-restraint, dress appropriately and politely in public; He can use his inner ability to cook a good dish, take care of every detail, and endure his princess illness.

Appearance is the first point, no matter at any time, and no matter what people say, looking at people should not only look at the face, but as far as rural blind dates are concerned, appearance is always the first, and it is also the most important point for both men and women. So, first impressions are especially important. The appearance here includes how the face looks, what the figure is, and what the height is.

These are among the first impressions.

The most important thing is the other party's family background, the other party's three views, whether the other party has brothers and sisters, the other party's assets, and the other party's character.

The most important thing about blind dates in the countryside is whether you are in good health and whether you can work? Can you have children?

In recent years, rural blind dates have become more and more common, which can be explained from the following aspects:

1.There are many single young people. Due to the development of modernization and urbanization, many young people have left the countryside for the city in pursuit of a better life, which has led to an increase in the number of single young people in rural areas.

2.Media pluralism. With the development of science and technology, the emergence of new tools such as the Internet and WeChat, coupled with traditional media such as newspaper advertisements and introductions of relatives and friends, the channels of blind date have become more diverse, and the ways of rural blind date have become more diverse.

3.Social Ideas Tradition. In some rural areas, the concept of family is still strong, and many parents believe that the marriage relationship of their children plays a crucial role in the fate of the family, so they are more inclined to use the traditional way of blind date to find their children's partners.

In general, the reason why rural blind dates are becoming more common is due to the combined influence of multiple reasons.

Now I am very concerned about Hu Duo, college students either don't have a good job, or don't have a girlfriend, and some have broken up. Because of the strong concept of rural areas, I thought it was not small, so I urged a blind date, and I just graduated and went to the company to know whom. Most of them are now introduced by relatives and friends, and some matchmakers have specially introduced you to college graduates.

If it's not suitable, it's poor, if you don't feel it, it's ugly, love at first sight is good-looking, and if you think about it, you're rich, and that's the reality! The main reason for the rural areas of Kailao is that the family conditions are good or bad!!

The reasons for the difficulty of blind dates in rural areas may be as follows:

1: The ratio of men and women is out of balance, resulting in a prominent contradiction between supply and demand.

2: The exodus of rural women to urban or coastal areas creates vacancies for marriageable women.

3: Influenced by traditional concepts and family responsibilities, rural males rarely travel far to their homeland or cross regions in search of withered elephants.

4: Rural men are passively selected in the selection of postures and bury puppets, and are slaughtered by others, facing problems such as sky-high bride prices and wives running away from the family.

5: Rural women are overly picky or materialistic in choosing a mate, asking for a bride price and not working.

6: The uneven development of the rural economy has led to a widening gap between rich and poor rural areas.

There are more men and fewer women, and women are too demanding.

Yes, I personally think that around the Spring Festival is the peak period of blind dates, and there are other reasons. The peak of blind dates around the Spring Festival is mainly because they are busy with work and have no time to go on a blind date, but there is plenty of time to go home and rest during the Chinese New Year, so they choose to go on a blind date around the Lunar New Year.

1. Usually not at home: As long as you don't go to school in rural areas, you basically go out to work, and there is no one at home all year round. When the Chinese New Year arrives, migrant workers in rural areas will come back. At this time, they will ask relatives and friends to see if there is a suitable one. Significance.

The second is to understand the basic situation of the hometown: the interpersonal network in the rural areas is intricate and complex, and there are many people who do not know each other. As long as you tell the adults in the family about the village, your parents will basically know the surname.

In this way, the two families can be regarded as the right family, and they don't have to worry about the children suffering from ignorance after marriage.

3. Unwilling for their children to marry far away: No parents want their daughters to marry far away. It's for the sake of parents.

If the children do not get married, they will be very worried. If the children do get married, they don't want to. As a result, most female parents do not want their daughters to marry far away.

Therefore, if you go home for the New Year, you will not be too far away. There is another reason, that is, I am afraid that my daughter will suffer a loss after she gets married.

If the parents are in a hurry, the pace is very fast.

Besides, the people in ten miles and eight villages basically know Yu Li a little, so many processes will be saved.

The Chinese New Year is also the only time when rural people gather the most, and everyone will go back to their rural hometowns for the New Year, so the annual blind date season has kicked off.

1. It has become an indisputable fact that it is difficult to get married in rural areas, higher and higher bride price, and some additional conditions, which make many ordinary rural families unbearable, and more men and fewer women are also the main reasons for this situation. Although there are occasional cases like this, the small number is negligible, and young men in rural areas still have to find Jianma's daughter-in-law in rural areas, and the ratio of men and women has been unbalanced.

2. A handsome and tall guy: The first thing about a blind date is appearance, and if you look good, can you spend money? Yes, good-looking is indeed a kind of capital infiltration brother, especially in the current situation of more men and fewer women, it is a situation of survival of the fittest, which looks more handsome and outstanding, tall guys, it is difficult to beat singles, if the family conditions are better, sometimes they will pick a special one, and naturally it is also a fragrant bait when going on a blind date, which is very popular and loved, and it is easy to succeed on a blind date.

Three views are very positive and ambitious guys: the current pace of life is much faster than in the past, especially for the future considerations, compared with the past is obviously different, three views are very positive guys, but also have lofty ambitions and ideals, not confined to the present, more open-minded, is easy to be favored by girls, from the blind date in a short time, you can see the clues of this person's temperament, although not a complete understanding, but words and manners can reveal a lot of traces.