It is recommended to pay attention to the leftover men in rural areas, why are there more and more l

It is recommended to pay attention to the matter of leftover men in rural areas, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and it has to be said that there are indeed more and more older leftover men in rural areas, and there are many reasons for more and more older leftover men, and we all know that it is not just about getting married in the city nowBride priceIn recent years, with the improvement of our country's economic level and the improvement of people's vision, the bride price for the countryside is also very high, and the bride price of tens of thousands of yuan, hundreds of thousands or even hundreds of thousands of yuan at every turn is also very common, but marriage is not only as simple as the bride price, but also to invite the whole village and relatives on both sides to set up a banquet extravagantly and wastefully to declare their marital sovereignty, which is unacceptable to another older leftover man.

A lot of men, in order to get married, do whatever it takes out their parents' pension money to spend is very surprising to everyone, I have to say that there is also a heavy concept of raising children to prevent old age in the past, we all know that a long time ago, our country implemented family planning, which led to a lot of people for men and women. It is precisely for this reason that there are many people who like little boys and men are unequal before, we all know that when we lived in the countryside in the past, men were laborers, and women only needed to take care of the family at home, so men were very competitive existence, which also led to a factor of inequality between men and women.

But now the disadvantages are also highlighted, we all know that if the ratio of men and women is unbalanced, then it will lead to the woman's family conditions for the man are getting higher and higher, as long as the ability itself is a little poor, and the family is not very good boy is likely to become an older leftover man, we also hope to be able to put an end to this phenomenon, because only by eliminating this phenomenon can our motherland develop better, but also hope that everyone can achieve equality between men and women, rather than choosing to love their wives very much.

The last point is. For farmers, once they start a family, they are basically women at home, and men basically have to go out to work or work at home, so it also leads to the low income and instability of the work in the countryside. The salary of technical talents is actually not very low, take the construction team in the countryside as an example, you can get 200 or even 300 yuan a day, this salary is also very considerable, but this job is not decent, so there are a lot of people who are prejudiced against this job, resulting in the emergence of so many older leftover men, we also hope to eliminate this prejudice, because there is no high or cheap work, everyone can succeed.

Because due to the influence of patriarchal thinking, the birth rate of men is much larger than that of women, and the current bride price is particularly high, so there are more and more men left.

Because now more and more women have a sense of independence, they are no longer dependent on men, so there are more and more people who don't want to get married, so there are more and more men left.

Nowadays, there are more and more surplus men in society, and the main reason is economic factors, because many girls will use money as a measure when choosing marriage.

Nowadays, girls are becoming more and more demanding, they must have a house and a car, if the family conditions in the countryside are not very good, it is difficult to meet the requirements of girls, and some boys have not sweet enough mouths

There are many men left in the countryside, there are many women left in the big cities, and the products of social development, it is useless to pay attention, maybe there will be more and more people who do not get married in the future, and leave it to time to solve.

Because women are very independent nowadays, not only independent in thought, economy and life, but also very independent in choosing a mate, women have become very understandable.

No one can understand how miserable the leftover men are

At present, it has become an indisputable social fact that it is difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner, and some people say: "It is difficult for young people in rural areas to find a partner, and it is difficult to go to the blue sky," although it is a bit exaggerated, but it does reflect this relatively serious social phenomenon. Some time ago, a single beauty in Zhumadian area of Henan Province sent a letter to return to the village for the New Year, and on the first day of returning to the village, she went on a blind date with 20 young men.

There is also news that Pizhou City, which is under the jurisdiction of Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, held a county-wide blind date meeting, and it is said that 100 unmarried men came, but only 20 unmarried women came to the scene. In many villages, bachelors in their thirties can be seen everywhere, and before 2000, men and children in their thirties can drag oil bottles. What are the reasons for the difficulty of young men in rural areas in choosing a mate?

Some people say that it is mainly caused by the imbalance between men and women, which seems to have become a consensus, but the ratio of men to women is actually about 100:107, but the actual situation is more serious, and this is not as simple as a simple imbalance between men and women. In my opinion, the deeper reason lies in rural single men.

The first reason: "not financially independent, difficult to bear the responsibility of supporting the family," the current rural single young people are mainly post-90s, most of them grew up under the careful care of their parents, did not go through any hardships, and the education level is not high, most of them have a junior high school education, plus there is no technology, so they can only do odd jobs or enter the factory to do factory work, but even if they work, it is often difficult to calm down, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, so they have not learned technology, which leads to economic independence, full of gnawing the old family.

1. Originally, there were more men and fewer women in rural areas, and the imbalance in the sex ratio of the population was a major reason. This is an objective reality caused by social causes.

2. Due to the unbalanced economic development of rural families and the polarization of poverty and wealth, there are many older leftover male families that are in the range of poor people, and the families are poor, lack of bride price money for marriage, lack of money to buy a house and a car, and empty family savings, which are the main reasons for the destruction of these rural older surplus stools. This is the cause of the imbalance in the economic development of rural households.

3. Due to the elderly leftover men in rural areas, everyone has their own shortcomings, such as lack of character, eccentricity of character, lack of body, poor health, lack of family, etc., which makes it difficult for these older leftover men in rural areas to marry wives. This is due to the reasons of these older leftover men in rural areas.

4. Many young women in rural areas saw the huge difference between rural areas and cities, as well as the shortcomings of rural areas, so they yearned for urban life, so they went to Bi Raid City to marry, resulting in an oversupply of young men in rural areas.

5. Due to the popularization of higher education, the degree of education received by rural young women has generally increased, and with the improvement of their own cultural quality and cultivation, they have gradually distanced themselves from rural male young men with low education level and low quality, which has also caused it difficult for young men to find a partner.

Young men in rural areas may face difficulties in finding a partner in the following areas:

1.Teenage exodus: Due to the appeal of modern city life, many young women choose to leave the countryside and move to the city in search of better life opportunities. This has led to an imbalance in the ratio of men and women in rural areas, making it more difficult for rural men to find a partner. Cong Shou quietly.

2.Traditional ideas: In some rural areas, especially in some poorer and remote areas, there are still traditional ideas, such as the inferiority of men over women, the man's requirement for women to have a family background, etc., which will also cause difficulties for rural men to find a partner.

3.Limited range of communication: Social circles in rural areas are often much smaller than in urban areas, which also limits the chances of rural men finding suitable partners. Comparatively speaking, the social circle of the city is more open, and there are more opportunities for men and women to socialize.

4.Constraints on living conditions: In rural areas, some young women tend to place more importance on living conditions, such as housing, transportation, education, etc. However, some rural men find it difficult to provide ideal living conditions due to their relatively poor economic conditions, which also makes it more difficult to find a partner.

In order to solve these difficulties, rural men can improve their chances of finding a partner by expanding their social circles, changing traditional concepts, and improving their own conditions. At the same time, it can also improve the plight of rural men in finding a partner by promoting the development of economic slag in rural areas, improving the level of education, and strengthening community construction.