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Offering tribute is voluntary, and generally fruits are OK, meat and vegetables are OK.
You don't need to draw a circle on the grave, but the address must be written, otherwise you won't receive it!!
The others are small coins Just burn ingots This is big money Use ready-made --- to send money table Wen ingots At night, you can burn it after 5 o'clock At the intersection, draw a circle, open in the southwest direction, and draw an "x" in the middle
The first --- to burn the address is to send a few copies of the money form.
After burning ingots, don't write the name of the living person, just write the relatives to send it.
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You can go at any time, and you can go on weekdays. Tribute to vegetarian stuff, fruits, vegetarian food! Don't put meat on the fish, because in the Buddhist scriptures record, the Jizo Sutra.
It is said that in fact, when a person dies, he is not necessarily a ghost! Sometimes not only can the offerings not be eaten, but the offerings of meat and other things will harm the relatives, and if you can't eat them, the sin karma is his! So try to be vegetarian!
It is good to burn incense and paper to remember your loved ones. The most important thing is to really help him, such as reciting sutras and dedication, burning the pestle and mantra wheel, and so on, and doing things that are beneficial to him. Look, Life TV.
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For the tomb to worship the ancestors, there are some folk customs, there are no fixed requirements for offerings, some places have, some places do not, but generally speaking, it is necessary to burn paper and incense when going to the grave, which is a kind of respect and respect for the ancestors. It is advisable to decide on the specific method according to the local customs and the requirements of the family.
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Any incense can be used, you know, these are just forms, and they don't matter. It's the heart that matters! Respect, sincerity and sincerity are the most important, and the so-called "sincerity is spirituality" is what it means.
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Gratitude is a traditional Chinese virtue and a necessary quality for Chinese, and having gratitude can make people more successful in life. In many areas, during the Chinese New Year, they will go to the grave to thank their ancestors, tell their ancestors that their descendants are living well, and ask their ancestors to continue to bless future generations in the coming year. Although there is a difference between going to the grave during the New Year and sweeping the tomb during the Qingming Festival, there are some things that are also necessary.
Incense, candles, wine, meatSnacks fruits
When worshipping ancestors during the Chinese New Year, the offerings will be prepared with fresh fruits and snacks, and the fruits should be selected to be large and ruddy in color, and then put in bowls and placed in front of the ancestors' tombstones, and the number of these snacks and fruits is still required. Generally, it is three times the speed, and the number of plating is also particular. It must not be an even number, if it is a double number, it proves that there is still a dead one, so the number of plating will generally have.
After the offerings such as water and fruit are set up, the relatives of the deceased can start to burn paper to commemorate their loved ones.
What should I pay attention to when going to the grave
After preparing the things you need to go to the grave, you should also be careful about your dress, and it is best to wear some red for the people who go with you, so that it can play a role in warding off evil spirits and will not incur unclean things. You can choose a red underwear, red socks, or a red hat. For people with weak numerology, it is best not to go to the cemetery alone, and it is better to ask someone who is in good health to accompany you.
Especially if you need to be buried together or relocated, it is best to take some protective measures in advance. When burning paper, you should have a serious expression, don't laugh and play, and you must insist on watching the paper burn before leaving, which can not only prevent fire, but also prevent the wind from blowing the paper out and being picked up by other passers-by, which makes the elderly unhappy. A pregnant woman cannot go to the grave with her, and it will have a bad impact on the luck of the pregnant woman.
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Dead money, one of the dead coins used for the enjoyment of the deceased during Chinese folk sacrifices and funerals and tomb sweeping, is also known as paper money, dark paper, dark banknotes, dark coins, gold paper, silver paper, and Yin paper.
Wait a minute. Generally, the white paper is cut into the shape of copper coins, and then it is either thrown in the field cemetery, or incinerated to the deceased.
1. Big burning paper, nine k white paper, smashed on four lines of round coins, five pieces per line;
Second, the underworld banknote, which is imitated after the world has foreign money bills, on the words "Heaven Bank", "Hades Bank", "Difu Yin Cao Bank" and so on, and there is the capital city.
The pattern, most of which are huge faces, is printed on the back of the Buddhist "Mantra of Death."
3. Fake foreign money, with hard paper as the heart, wrapped in silver foil, pressed with the silver dollar that was in circulation at that time.
the same pattern;
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This is a folk custom that can be regarded as superstition, or mere psychological comfort. Because people do not understand death, they make up a lot of imaginary stories, and the three burning paper money originated from the custom of worshipping ancestors in the primitive period of the Chinese.
The primitive custom of ancestor worship was to mourn the deceased of the ancestors and pray for the ancestors to bless the family. Tradition has the notion that "death is like life", and when a person dies, he should be served as he was alive, so there is a practice of giving money for him to enjoy. At first, it was buried with real money, but later due to tomb robbery, it was changed to fake money from pottery or other materials, and finally it was changed to burning paper money.
Since the gods are often cultivated by mortals, the custom of burning gold paper to the gods evolved from burning paper to the ancestors, which means burning it for them to enjoy.
According to folk custom, the name of the deceased is recited (or silently in the heart) while burning, so that the deceased can receive it.
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First make offerings, and then burn the paper to call the deceased to collect the paper.
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It is usually best to put 3 fruits in the grave, and you can put seasonal fruits from all over the world, such as pineapples, pears, oranges, etc.
The tributes to the grave are generally singular, for example, fruits are three or five kinds of fruits, and the number of fruits is also singular, and three or five are placed. However, it can also be placed according to the different customs of each place. Although the sacrificial tribute to the ancestors could not be eaten, it still had to be carefully selected, which was an expression of respect for the ancestors.
As long as there is a sincere filial piety, even if you use relatively simple tributes, it is still very complete. However, there are some that cannot be used as sacrifices, such as beef, dog meat, bitter gourd, winter melon, etc., which are usually replaced by vegetarian food, fruits, snacks, dried fruits, etc.
There are three forms of ancestor worship: dry smile.
The more common way, that is, at the ancestral burial place (usually in the cemetery of the village), is commonly called"Go to the grave", the time is mainly death days and traditional major festivals (except Mid-Autumn Festival), such as Chinese New Year's Eve, Qingming, Midyear Festival (July 15), October 1, June 1, etc.
Family sacrifice: that is, not to go to the grave, or at the same time as the tomb, to write the tablet or pedigree map of the direct ancestor in the main hall or"Family Temple", the whole family or the whole clan sacrifices together, and the sacrifice at home is called"Please do the house"The ceremony was very solemn. The sacrificial score in our village is presided over by the old man with the highest rank in the family, and it is usually carried out at the same time as the renewal of the score during the Chinese New Year.
In recent decades, cremation has become common in cemeteries, and grave visits are also carried out in cemeteries.
Haruka: It's also called"Please"Due to bad weather, they can't go out, or they can't go to the cemetery to worship in person, so they set up sacrifices at home or nearby, and hold incense to invite the ancestors to enjoy the sacrifice in the direction of the ancestral cemetery in their hometown.
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The elderly usually need some offerings and items to pay tribute to their deceased relatives to show their grief and remembrance. It may vary from region to region and culture, but the following items are generally required:
Flowers: Expressing remembrance and respect for the deceased, usually white chrysanthemums or white carnations, etc.
Incense candles: used to offer incense and burn paper to express respect and longing for the deceased.
Incense money: used to burn paper and incense, to express filial piety and respect for the deceased.
Paper money and paper products: It is usually some paper products of daily necessities and gold and silver utensils, which are used to worship and worship the deceased, and express blessings and remembrances to the deceased.
Food: In some areas, it is also necessary to offer some favorite foods of the deceased to show their thoughts and nostalgia.
In short, the items that the elderly need to go to the grave in 100 days are mainly some sacrifices and items, including flowers, incense candles, incense money, paper money and paper products, food, etc., to express nostalgia and respect for the deceased.
Legend has it that after the death of a person to suffer a crime, the Lord of Yama will be punished according to the mistakes of the deceased during his lifetime, but the Lord of Yama likes girls, but also likes flowers, if the daughter burns flowers for her parents when burning five or seven, the deceased will suffer less, and the Lord of Yama will be happy to see the flowers will reduce the punishment. Burn five seven girls to prepare to send five pots of flowers, for example, you can choose light pink, light yellow, red, big pink, purple five pots of flowers according to the color; or send the flowers that the ancestors liked before their deaths; In addition, it is essential to burn incense before sending flowers (burning flowers), if you have a heart, it is recommended that you can go to the phaseless copper stove to customize one-to-one prayer incense, this incense is made of natural flowers and wood, and can also be customized according to your wishes or the flowers that your ancestors liked, which can not only express your sincerity and filial piety, but also let the Lord of Yama who loves flowers feel your respect, and avoid the suffering of punishment for the ancestors, so it is very necessary to ask for a good incense.
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