Isn t it too simple or too kind?

Loving someone is beyond our control, it makes us crazy and embarrassed; Let us be happy but miserable.

Sometimes we quietly avoid it for the sake of love, but when we break off contact, we can't break that feeling. Although love can't be touched or seen, it is a kind of thing that haunts people's dreams, and truly loving someone is actually uncontrollable.

When you really fall in love with someone, you always can't help but want to care about him.

Feelings are an uncontrollable kind of magical thing, and this irrational existence applies to all people, as long as you are in love.

The so-called love is to have such a person who can easily control your emotions: one moment makes you cry, the next moment makes you laugh. When you truly love someone, that person will dominate your heart for the rest of your life.

If you love someone, then it also means caring for them and giving them sincerely. You can't help but care about whether the person is eating well, whether he is staying up late, and so on.

He cares about what you care about and is willing to change it for you. and those who do not love you will ignore you. Life is so short, it is not easy to meet someone who really loves you, and for the rest of your life, please cherish him.

If you really love someone, you can't just forget it.

I really love you, I closed my eyes, thinking I could forget, but the tears that flowed didn't deceive me. ”

It's not terrible to fall in love with someone, it's scary to be out of control; It's not terrible to break up, but I'm afraid that I can't let it go all the time. Even though they have been separated for many years, they still think about it unconsciously in the dead of night.

If you really love someone, if you are in your heart, even if you don't mention it again for the rest of your life, but in the depths of your heart, you will feel a faint pain every time you think about it. The people you meet are in love, but not necessarily together. How much love, in the end, only the back of the turn is left.

A love, from the beginning to the end, the first meeting, is always the most beautiful scenery. In the past, I always thought that the past would eventually settle in my heart and no longer remember, but I really fell in love with someone, I couldn't control it, and I always had memories of the past in an inadvertent moment.

Love is always elusive, don't think you can control it. Love is an emotion that is difficult to let go, and it is also the most intoxicating and obsessive emotion.

I should regret losing my boyfriend for ten years. After all, two people have been together for so long, you have experienced a run-in period, and you have experienced a seven-year itch, logically speaking, the two of you should be able to get along well, but now they have broken up, if it is because of some trivial things to break up, then I will definitely regret it, but if it is because of the principle of breaking up, then I will definitely not regret it, because this is a character problem, this has touched my bottom line, no matter how long the relationship is, as long as it touches my bottom line, Then we'll see you again. It's just that I feel that my boyfriend who has been dating for ten years left suddenly, it may be very unaccustomed, and I may feel sorry for this relationship, and more importantly, I think that this relationship did not come to fruition in the end, wasting my youth, if I have other boyfriends in the past ten years, maybe there will be a good ending, so at this time I should hate myself, why didn't I find out that the other party was not suitable for me early, why didn't I leave him earlier, It's about being abandoned until now.

Sometimes girls are very sad, when you take your heart to her but find that he is holding a knife at you, when you want to continue to develop with him, he walks away without looking back, when you want to forgive him, he rejects you, and continues to find his true love, in the end only you lose your precious things, and the other party leaves unscathed, so sometimes girls must not be too stupid, when loving each other, you must keep a little leeway, to keep your last dignity. When you break up with your boyfriend, you may find that you will never devote yourself to the next relationship, you no longer have so much energy to get to know someone carefully, and you may have died.

It means that if you don't think about problems, you don't think about them, and if you are too kind, you can't achieve great things if you are too soft-hearted.

Summary. Hello, people should be simple and kind, which means: to be simple and thorough, to be kind in the heart, no matter who to treat anyone and everything to be sincere, so as to gain the love and love of others.

Hello, people should be simple and kind, which means: to be simple and to be thorough, to be kind to the heart, no matter who or anything to be sincere, so that you can get the love and love of others.

This sentence mainly makes people simple and kind, so that people will gain a better life in the world.

To be so kind that you are willing to sacrifice your own interests to fulfill others is a foolish and unaware act.

People must understand that being too kind and tolerant to others is a kind of cruelty to themselves, and in this world, kindness is not necessarily rewarded, sometimes you try your best to help someone, but in the end you get the other party's ruthless betrayal.

People who are too kind always don't care about returns, they are always willing to give, they will feel that they should make the world full of love, not indifference and resentment, so they will suffer losses, and it is not a big deal.

But in fact, in most cases, your behavior is just self-moving, and it is meaningless.

You said you wanted takeout, and my colleague asked you to order one for him by the way, and then forgot to transfer it to you.

You think that on weekdays, everyone looks up and doesn't look down, and if you don't give the takeaway money of ten or twenty yuan, forget it, and only by being harmonious can you make money, and make more money.

But what you didn't expect was that colleagues actually formed a habit of going back and forth, and every time they said that they would transfer money to you next time, but the result was that there was no follow-up.

Sooner or later, you will understand that most people who are too kind are not rewarded, because people are good and are bullied by dogs, if you let people an inch, others will improve a foot, and this kind of concession is endless for you.

Your kindness is often used as an excuse for others to bully you, because you are a good person, so you will do the chores anyway, and you will not get angry with them.

They see your pleasing personality, so they expect you to dare not offend people or say what you really think in your heart.

So, my dear you, you are born as a human being, you can be kind, but your kindness must have a degree, and you must not be overly kind and consume your own love for this world.

At any time, leave a bottom line for yourself to ensure that you are not hurt in this world.

It's a two-sided thing.

People who are too kind are easy to be bullied In fact, you might as well be kind with some edge at the same time, real kindness is not easy to bully, but equal, you use your sincerity to help others, and you are respected, not bullied. Don't let the bullying of others swallow up your own goodness, more often, choose to protect your own goodness, like water, while "benefiting all things", you must also retain your own edges and corners.

Say "no" to bullying kindness. Kindness is to fight back, and blindly letting others eat the dividends of their kindness will only make some people gain an inch. Therefore, don't let your kindness become a weakness, and use your bravery to put on armor for kindness.

Gu Jia is exactly like this, when he knows about this incident, he can quickly withdraw his kindness to unworthy people, and sometimes he can bravely say "no", which is also a kind of weighty kindness.

Learn to use your edge in a targeted manner. It has been said that when dealing with life, we must avoid too much unreasonable edge and be kind to others. We know that kindness can only be given to those who truly respect themselves, and when it is time to leak the edge, we must let others know our bottom line.

It is true that it is foolish not to reject the goodness of others, but more often, we must learn to be free to let go, and at the same time provide convenience to others, we must also know how to let others know their own principles.

People are like this, don't be too easy to be kind, this kindness should be attached to the people who deserve it, not to the kind people who oppress you. Kindness is dividing people, and when we help others, we must make ourselves worthy. Sometimes you have to keep some of your edges and corners, don't blindly invest your time and energy, and appropriate rejection is sometimes a kind of kindness.

To be more supportive of kindness, to make your fickleness taller and sharper, which is good for others and for yourself.

<> "Kindness, it's actually very simple.

1.Kindness is actually very simple, if you can't support it when you see someone's wall falling, then not pushing it is also a kind of kindness.

2.Seeing people drinking porridge, you are eating meat, if you don't want to give it up, then don't you smack your mouth, it is also a kind of kindness.

3.Seeing people sad and sleepy, if you don't want to comfort them, then unhappiness is also a kind of kindness.

Kindness is the greatest virtue of being a person, but kindness also depends on the object, the occasion, and the principle, that is to say, your kindness must be a little sharp, and to some people, some people, can not be too kind, otherwise, you will put yourself in a very embarrassing situation, easy to hurt. Specifically, as a person, in the following three aspects, I advise you not to be too "kind", otherwise, it will be easy to be let down!

1. When taking a step back is a cliff, don't be too "kind".

As the saying goes, take a step back and open the sky, this sentence is naturally full of wisdom and reasonable, but everything can not be generalized, sometimes, you will be forced to have no way back, take a step back is a cliff, not the sea and the sky, at this time, will you be kind to sacrifice yourself to fulfill others? For example, take a step back, your bottom line will be broken, and for example, take a step back, your own struggle and efforts will be wasted, and there is no possibility of turning over, will you choose to retreat kindly? Definitely not!

If your interests are calculated and violated, but you don't know how to resist, and you are treated as a weak and bullying "soft persimmon" by others, then, no matter how kind you are, others may not appreciate it, but may hurt you doubly, and your kindness will be let down. You must know that many times, you only have to fight, as long as you show your toughness, then, your kindness will be more valuable and will be more recognized, because, in this highly competitive society, kindness also needs capital and strength.

As a person, you should understand that not many people will put themselves in your shoes to feel your kindness, so when you realize that if you take a step back is not the sea and the sky, but is likely to be a cliff, I advise you not to be too "kind".

Second, in the face of fierce and even cruel competition, don't be too "kind".

Life in the world, if you want to live well, if you want to mix up, you can't do without competition, in the case of limited resources, you have to fight with others, this kind of competition is not harmonious many times, but fierce and even cruel, if you are too kind, so that the woman is benevolent, then, in the competition, you can only be a loser.

In the face of competition, you can follow the principle of fairness, you can also pursue cooperation and win-win, in the case of the overall situation has been decided, you can also let the opponent go, but in the process of competition, do not have the "kindness" of the woman's benevolence, otherwise, kindness will become an Achilles heel, attacked and used. For example, at the critical moment of competition, the opponent uses bitter meat tricks, uses pretending to be pitiful to win your sympathy, or paralyzes your fighting spirit, you don't notice it for a while, and you have the kindness of a woman, then, once the opponent seizes the opportunity, it will completely kick you out.

Some people may ask, then, are people with good natures not suitable for competition, and can they only be reduced to weakness and losers? Of course not, in the face of competition, kind people do not need to become bad, they only need to make their kindness a little sharp, exercise their logical thinking and judgment ability, and use reason and wisdom to guide their actions, then, they can still become strong in the competition.

I believe that most people are born with a good nature, and kindness is too precious in this world. So I still think that good will be rewarded. But everything is too much, of course, kindness is the same, and kindness is also divided into people.

It was originally a well-intentioned act to give up seats to the old, young, sick and disabled on the bus, but now on the bus or subway, some uncles and aunts danced square dances to live and live, but as soon as they arrived on the bus, they used "must give up their seats to the elderly" to morally kidnap others, and once they were rejected, they spoke badly to each other, as happened in this news, not only did they speak badly, but even caused danger to their lives. Being too kind will instead promote the "natural" hearts of this type of people, and it is precisely because others have given them too much kindness that they have nothing to fear, and once a vicious incident occurs, they can only make up for it.

Therefore, it is necessary for people to maintain a basic good heart, we often say that as long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world, this is the important meaning of the existence of kindness, to strangers or people around sometimes a small act of kindness, may change a person's life, but if too kind, it will backfire, and promote the unhealthy trend of some evil people.