What should I do if I believe the Buddha s words and break up my daughter s marriage?

You. Is it a belief in Buddhism? And to break up the daughter's marriage, this is not right.

Even if you have this kind of thought, don't interfere with your daughter's marriage, and if your daughter's marriage is okay in other ways, don't believe these things. Because the daughter's happy marriage is the big thing.

Your daughter is doing well, why should you believe in those who break up her happiness, if she is not happy in the future, she will hate you for the rest of her life, so do everything to consider the consequences before doing it, people of this age don't do things that they regret.

As long as the daughters love each other, their marriage must not be broken up, and no one has the right to stop others from knowing and loving each other.

Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, their marriage and they are in charge of their own affairs, everything is just as it is.

Love someone and give him freedom, and if he comes back, then he is destined to be yours. If he doesn't come back, then he'll never belong to you. The love that belongs to you will not make you miserable and regretful.

And the person who really loves you will not let you suffer from gains and losses. Don't stand on tiptoe to love someone, because there is always someone who is here for you.

People should live in reality, not in the will of the Buddha. The marriage of a daughter should not be decided by the Buddha.

I'd rather demolish a temple than destroy a marriage, right, what happened to break up my daughter's marriage, there are many unfortunate marriages in life that are caused by parental interference, and there are many daughters who commit suicide in madness.

Don't interfere too much with your children, they are not children anymore.

The Buddha said that everything is karma, everything is cause and effect, good is rewarded, evil is rewarded, dao is not not not reported, and the time has not yet come. Therefore, we should go with the flow and not force it. If the heart is not moved, then cause and effect will not be born, and if you lose your horse, you will know whether it is a blessing, what should come will always come, and what should go will always go, so why bother yourself.

Amitabha, it stands to reason that it shouldn't, but parents all over the world are for the good of their children!

Parents always say, "I'm for your good." But in the end, it is the children who are hurt, and someone makes the decision for you, and you have to bear the consequences.

Bear the evil causes, the natural evil consequences in the future, this has nothing to do with whether or not to worship the Bodhisattva.

When I was young, I never dared to contradict my parents, my mother also broke up me and my object like you, that would be a good girl who did not disobey her parents, it was very painful at first, and then she always quarreled after marrying someone she was satisfied with, in fact, I couldn't forget that I was dissatisfied with my husband, and then I had a child, and the family atmosphere was not good for the child, and I began to contradict my parents when I was unhappy after marriage, and now I realized how selfish my mother was when she got married for the sake of profit, and even despicable. So when I was 50 years old, I began to hate her more and more, I don't want to see her, since I don't care about my daughter's happiness and only think about getting benefits from my daughter, then there is no need to meet, you raised me, I will give you money and give you benefits.

Regret can't get back the facts,!

Many times, don't make decisions lightly and hope that your children will get out of the confusion.

Find their happiness.

What right do you have to break up your daughter's marriage? Can you give your daughter a lifetime of happiness? If you are optimistic about people, if your son-in-law is a scumbag, you should dismantle it, if your son-in-law is good enough for your daughter, why do you have to break it up?

Remote? Age? Economy?

Or what? I think love is a man, no matter when and where you have money, you can spoil your daughter like your own child, cherish and love her, and feel sorry for her! If you break up because of other objective factors, it proves that there is something wrong with your thinking.

Karma, indescribable! If you make such a bad wish, you will have a bad marriage in the future, and you will be alone.

Silly girl, I'd rather tear down ten temples than break a marriage, after he got married, he said that he still likes you, do you even believe this nonsense, there is no fragrance of wild flowers in the house, I advise you, if you really come together, it won't last long, if you don't believe it, just try it, wait and see.

One morning, I received a phone call from a friend of mine, who mentioned that her husband had a lot of wrongs, and she shed tears while talking. When she finished complaining, I said to her: 'It doesn't matter if others are right or not, you have to do it right first.

Have we taken care of the children? Have we served our father-in-law and mother-in-law well? As soon as she said that, her emotions eased.

I went on to say, 'If we don't do our part, then we are not qualified to speak of sir, we are just like him.' Because her child is only one year old, I encourage her to take care of herself first and not to get emotionally swirled, which will get worse and worse.

When I finished speaking, she said, 'Teacher Cai, why are you talking differently from my other girlfriends?' Because she's already beaten ** to the other girlfriends first.

And she said, 'I asked my friend, what is my husband doing like this?' They all said that extraordinary times require extraordinary means.

It's strange to ask people who you want to ask questions, to find people who might agree with you. In fact, anyone knows what is right in their hearts, but they are afraid to face that fact, and those who often speak out to her, he does not dare to ask, and asks those who will conform to his own words, which may not necessarily help him.

So, we advise people to be cautious and follow her emotions and say, 'Then divorce your husband!' Later, she really divorced and regretted it, and she would never let you go for the rest of her life.

As the saying goes: 'It is better to tear down ten bridges than to break a marriage.' If you break someone's marriage, it will also affect his children, and the impact will be huge.

Therefore, be cautious in your words and don't give random ideas to others. The most important thing is that we suggest that others should grasp a core, so that he can find his own faults and let him reflect on them from time to time. When we guide others in this way, their intellect will be raised, because only intellect and virtue can transform the realm.

Can emotional comfort be transformed? When pigs fly. Our guidance is to let him see his own part first, and when he puts his mind on the scales, he will grow and change.

When he is able to cultivate himself, the family will naturally be transformed, and he will move towards the road of 'cultivating Qi and ruling peace'.

In fact, what doesn't exist is yours is yours Where to ask for marriage doesn't exist He's married, even if he still likes you, don't destroy it, let them solve it themselves.

In this way, if you can't say in the face of the Buddha, not only will you not get help, but you may also have retribution. Even if you want to dismantle the upper position, you should also use the method to heal, there are many ways to get the upper position, and formulate a plan according to the analysis of the situation. Specializing in solving marital and emotional problems.

It is said that it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage. What's more, making such a vow in front of the Buddha will damage yin virtue.

First of all, the Erawan Buddha is not a Buddha, also known as Brahma.

Then, feelings for this kind of thing, you'd better go with the flow.

Don't do this kind of thing, I'd rather demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage.

Why do you want to make such a wish?

This wish will definitely not come true, how can a Buddha help you do evil things?

Tang Seng Xu Shaohua version of Tang Seng.

First of all, you have to distinguish the relationship between "life" and "luck".

Life is with life

The essential character of Chen Bazi: dao extrovert and introvert.

Fortune is your version. After the influence of the environment in which you live and grow, the same life will have different fortunes.

Fortune tellers can only calculate people's lives, and this can also be concluded by observing a person for a long time.

Your girlfriend may be a relatively self-conscious woman who wants to live a little more freely and uninhibitedly, and this is understandable. Your family is simply thinking from your point of view, after all, they are thinking about you. But two people live by mutual understanding and tolerance.

Your girlfriend has shortcomings, but she must also have advantages, remind your family to look at her strengths more, it is a bit ridiculous to rely on the words of a fortune teller alone.

No one in the world is born with anyone who is compatible or mutually restrictive, they all understand each other in the process of life, tolerate each other, change each other, and then slowly become harmonious. These elders are all from the past, and they should know best.

And you can use these as the basis for an in-depth talk with them, and tell them some of your insights about life and life. When you get married, you are an independent man with responsibility, and there are many things that they can't afford for you. They worry about you so much, the main thing is that they feel that you have not grown up and are not capable of taking on the responsibilities of a family, but the more you do this, the slower and more deformed your growth will become.

Having said all that, I hope it can help you.

Don't be reluctant, don't be re

Unless you have the momentum to dominate the world.

If fortune telling is still credible, then everyone is a scientist, so find a good girl to live a good life.

You can patiently listen to the reasons for the parents' objections, and then the daughter will put her own ideas in the table, and everyone will sit together, argue, analyze, and see whose opinion is right, and then act according to whose opinion.

The first answer you have to express is that you are first for his good, and the second is you. You have to show your attitude that you will not interfere in his marriage, choose, just provide a suggestion. Thirdly, you can make an analysis from his point of view, a plan for the future.

Fourth, you first have to talk to him about what he thinks of this boyfriend. Fifth, then you have to talk about how you feel after you came into contact with this boy. 

If your parents are against it, then you should communicate with your parents and say that you have found someone you like.

What your parents couldn't convince you of at that time, you proved with your life.

If my parents are against it, I think this marriage can be reconsidered.

If the opposition is strong, it means that it is really inappropriate.

As long as your girlfriend has you in her heart, you don't have to be careful, it has long been the era of marriage freedom, of course, the future mother-in-law's ideological work is not one or two ideological work can be completed, this mainly depends on your girlfriend and his father to do it first, try to let the father-in-law and girlfriend go hand in hand, your father-in-law as long as there is a little bit of relaxation, because he says a word that is not conducive to you can at least top you a hundred good words, of course, if you help you speak, you don't need to say that you also know. Maybe they will give you some restraints (or threaten you, such as not allowing you to continue to socialize, you can't agree, let alone they won't let you associate and sneak together, which is not conducive to future ideological work), and you should be a test of your feelings. After a long time, they know that you can't agree if you don't agree.

It's really not good, you both went to get a marriage certificate together, and you did it at the banquet on the fixed day. The woman did it at the banquet, they wouldn't want their daughter.

You must not involve both of your parents in the ideological work, because there is a possibility that they will say something angry that the other person will not accept. Especially the matchmaker, when the conversation is completed, it is the other party's good words, and if the negotiation fails, it is the fuse...

My wife and I once came over with a lot of hard work, and I wanted to talk about our ups and downs for your reference, but the reward you gave was pitiful, which made people feel that you didn't care if someone could work hard to help you in this publication (5 points for marriage events?). I don't know if I can adopt it, I replied that you are not for this 5-point reward), so I will only talk about a little opinion in my heart, I hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Fortune telling. This one really is. It's not true Buddhism, it's not the Buddha who wants to tear you down, it's people.

It is recommended to take a look at the scriptures preached by Master Jingkong, and the four teachings of Fan,**.

It's the 21st century, the freedom to fall in love, the freedom to marry, and if there were still living Buddhas, the whole world would be at peace.

The key is that your mother is simple, spend money to find someone to pretend to be a living Buddha, one day your mother and your father go out, shouting that the person pointed at your father and said to your mother You are destined to fight each other, you must not share the candle, otherwise the incense will not continue

Empty-handed hoes, riding buffaloes on foot, people crossing the bridge, the bridge does not flow.

Don't deal with things in one form, don't look at things from one angle, change to another form, change to another angle, the result is often different.

To put it in layman's terms: you live your life with the person you love, not with the mother of the person you love.

How can the essence of the Dharma be like this... Although there are 3,000 Dharmas, there is no such thing, and if so, isn't it obsessed with the mind? Just do what you think is right.

First of all, you must take a serious look at your friends, because marriage cannot be sloppy, and the basis of your relationship is not a momentary impulse, it should be a lifelong love. If that's the case, then I'm sure you'll end up together and grow old together, no matter what hardships you encounter. As for what you said about the living Buddha, I don't know what to say.

Your love can only depend on yourself.

Those living Buddhas are all fake, don't believe it.

When there is no enlightenment, it is reincarnation in karma, so there is a fate, but the fate can be changed, so that it can be reincarnated.

Real people don't show their faces, and they don't show real people. Is the person who showed you a real person? Is it a revelation?

In fact, there is no need to worry, maybe fate has not arrived, and when the opportunity is ripe, it will definitely come to fruition.