I believe that everything that the Buddha arranged for me is good for me, but I really don t know ho

The first question, causal fate is very wonderful, the so-called day and night dreams, and the Buddha fate, will naturally have a good impression of Buddhism, want to believe, that is, there is a Buddha fate, this thing is not strange, just believe, do not need to listen to others say some gods and ghosts, he is the protector, is able to give you spiritual comfort, is the afterlife, is the refuge in times of sorrow, is the education of life, is the philosophy of persuasion, is the road to goodness and beauty, is an ordinary and extraordinary life, It is a place of nirvana that returns to serenity and silence.

The second question, your experience is not the arrangement of the Buddha, the Buddha is not God, Buddhism never believes that there is an omnipotent God, Buddhism talks about cause and effect, everything has a cause, no living beings are equal, and what you encounter is the cause planted in the past, since your boyfriend betrayed, then he will naturally plant his cause, you leave him may be his fruit, and you may be because of kindness, so you will not be entrusted to non-people, you will not be fooled, or let it be, and casual fate is free, you want to continue to be with others, just look everywhere, If you don't want to leave him, there's nothing bad about making a decision, is it really necessary to judge this lawsuit until you are already married and have children?

Your fate is arranged by yourself, not by Buddhas or gods. If the seed is the cause, the result is the effect. Life is like a dream, just follow the fate, don't force it.

It's not about being negative, it's about keeping a calm mind in the face of good and bad times. If your boyfriend betrays, it's because you planted that cause in your past life. So don't complain, it's you who can't run, and you can't tie the rope if it's not you.

The Buddha is not God, your present life is "arranged" by your past life, and your future life is "arranged" by your present life.

Buddha is Buddha, love is love, not a fight.

Buddha can help you get rid of the pain of falling out of love, but it can't help you keep your boyfriend's ......Buddha is not an expert in love, nor is he a street aunt.

You should start welcoming a new period of life with a new mood now Don't be sad, don't be anxious, what is yours is yours, it's not that it's useless to get along with you for years.

It is not the Buddha who arranges your life, but your own heart.

We are all ordinary people, since many things can't be thought through, then don't think about it, don't drill the horns God will take care of you, everything will naturally be arranged, and treat everything with sincerity and respect.

At the same time, it is recommended that you read "Qi Family Governing the Country, Female Virtue is Essential" This is the vernacular version of Chen Jingyu's teacher, the original text is the "Female Ring" written by Ban Zhao in the Western Han Dynasty, Ban Zhao is also a woman, you can experience the realm of sages and how to treat marriage and family.

I highly recommend you read this book! I believe it will be enlightening.

The Buddha doesn't arrange it, everything is its own cause and effect.

Everything is arranged for the best, accept what cannot be changed, change what you can. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke pointed out that a calm attitude is the beginning of good luck.

The Buddha didn't say this, the Buddha just said that everything is impermanent, everything is changing.

Everything is arranged for the best, which is not at all in line with the four Dharma seals of Buddhism, and it is not at all in line with the concept of Buddhism.

Everything is the best arrangement, is it also the best arrangement for someone to rob you and kill you? No, it's karma, it's the impermanence of life.

Some people in Buddhism say that everything is the best arrangement, which is problematic in itself, and as for people who are not in Buddhism saying this, it is actually just a psychological game, and it does not have any substantial help in life, for example, if someone beats you hard and insults you, can you still say that this is the best arrangement at that time? So I'm happy?

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny.

It's not easy to want people to last for a long time.

If you are separated from each other's pain, love can be restarted, but people's youth is only a few years, don't stay until dusk, sit alone under the dry lamp, tears flowing!

Look at the sea, the blue sky, the grassland, all the vast places to go, your mood will be relaxed, and love will be let go.

To give yourself a chance is to give each other redemption.

Believe in yourself and don't become dependent on others.

Dogs will jump over the wall if they are in a hurry, and people will be extreme when they are forced to do things, don't mind, because you have love in your heart, so you will regret it.

Let go and give each other space.

It is not a good thing for a man to beat a woman, remember, a woman does not easily trample on self-esteem, that is precious, beautiful.

Be a beautiful woman.

I bless you. I'm a woman too!

First, chant Nam Mu Amitabha. When people live in the world, they will definitely encounter all kinds of suffering, what causes they plant, and what results they reap. If you are an ordinary person, you will make mistakes, so the Buddha will not abandon you and will not abandon anyone.

Secondly, knowing that you have done something wrong and knowing that you can correct your mistakes will definitely have a good return.

Again, I suggest that you think carefully about what happened between you and your husband, correct what you did wrong, and communicate with your husband more, because if the two people do not exchange ideas with each other, there will be no common language. Tell your husband what you think and get his understanding. Don't be resentful and complaining, be cheerful and peaceful.

I hope you can convince your husband to quit those unsightly movies, **, which have an impact on the physical and mental state, and you believe in Buddhism, you should know what kind of repercussions you will get from planting this kind of cause, and you should persuade him to give up this bad habit.

At the same time, I personally suggest that you can recite the name of Jizo Bodhisattva more often, so that you can have a happy family life. You can take a look at the "Jizo Bodhisattva Honwish Sutra" and you can understand a lot of the true meaning of life from it.

Starting from your own life, often sighing on the pain of life, reciting Buddhist scriptures and Buddha names, you can get peace of mind, the important thing to learn Buddhism is to regulate yourself according to the law, and see what is wrong with yourself.

In fact, the relationship with her husband is in line with fate, whether it is more or less, there will be no reunion if you force it, don't deliberately force anything, do everything according to fate.

Finally, I hope that you and your husband will have a harmonious relationship and less disputes. There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

Hello. You believe in Buddhism because you want to find a belief for yourself, not to let yourself be spiritually empty, but you also need to really understand the purpose of faith, just don't beat your husband, let him beat himself, do you think that then the Buddha will say that you didn't hit someone, wrong, everyone makes mistakes in fact, he himself knows, he can forgive himself, why don't you forgive him, only moving can change a person, do you believe it? If you let him do what you want, you are already wrong, you are sad, and he is sad.

The Buddha was even more sad. If there is still something from the past, don't think about it, and be kind to it. Pray.

The Buddha is in our hearts.

Q: I'm miserable and I really don't want to do this!! What am I going to do? A: Then don't do it!

Q: I believe in Buddhism, but I make repeated mistakes, what should the Buddha do? Answer: There is no Buddha in the world!

Q: Abandon me? Answer: There is no Buddha in the world!

Question: I know it's wrong, but is it better to repent and repent, and there will be no more in the future? A: Yes!

Q: Then my husband is starting to be bad again, and I want him to do it again, isn't that a vicious circle? Answer: Convince him with reason!

Personal opinion: Human beings are animals, just advanced animals, I hate the people who create all kinds of advanced Buddhas, I think, it is better to live as freely as animals, I don't think anything is wrong, what is right.

Compassion is to give happiness, and compassion is to remove suffering. And you are hurting each other, how can you say that you are compassionate??

Buddha means enlightenment, and I hope you can use your wisdom to solve this matter well. If you can't stand the violence, stay away. You are reluctant to stay away, so you can only continue to endure it.

Don't fight back, but purify his heart with your heart.

The Buddha will forgive you, and everybody will have things they don't want to do but don't have to do.

Impulsiveness is the devil and I believe that the heavens will bless you.

Take refuge as soon as possible, and then repent, take vows, and chant every day.

Other than that, there is no other way.

Read and recite the Mahayana scriptures a lot. Read and recite one part first, and then go deeper into the next one.

Convinced of the Buddha's teaching, your problems will be solved by yourself.

Amitabha I'm the same as you I did I want to have a good temper But looking at people's false faces I didn't resist my actions but my heart rebelled Amitabha Buddha Buddha made me out of the world Amitabha Buddha I really want to change Amitabha.

It's okay to take your time, believe in Buddhism, and slowly improve it (* Hee-hee.

What's the matter, that's it.

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Lyrics: Swift Flying Song.

Composer, Singer, Backing Vocals: Wang Yuanyuan.

Mixing: Group Ke.

What's wrong with me, I spoke astringently.

Unlike when I was a child, I was naïve and toothless.

What's wrong with me, I'm blushing.

Didn't I fall in love with it in my heart?

You're downstairs and I'm pretending to be elegant.

Love is such a flower that can't bloom.

I looked at the sky in the distance, the empty glow.

Day after day, summer vacation.

The dreamy spring and summer is over with a smile.

Miraculously, fate came quietly.

Maybe it's the green taste.

It's good to leave you at a loss of sight.

Maybe it's this subtlety.

Let you please wholeheartedly.

Maybe one day on a whim.

I'm going to stick to you, and I'm going to mess around with crazy limbs and imitations.

Maybe make you giggle silly.

I'll give you a hug.

What's wrong with me, I spoke astringently.

Unlike when I was a child, I was naïve and toothless.

What's wrong with me, I'm blushing.

Didn't I fall in love with it in my heart?

You're downstairs and I'm pretending to be elegant.

Love is such a flower that can't bloom.

I looked at the sky in the distance, the empty glow.

Day after day, summer vacation.

The dreamy spring and summer are over with a smile.

Miraculously, fate came quietly.

Maybe it's the green taste.

It's good to leave you at a loss of sight.

Maybe it's this subtlety.

Let you please wholeheartedly.

Maybe one day on a whim.

I'm going to stick to you and go crazy together.

Maybe make you giggle silly.

I'll give you a hug.

Maybe it's the green taste.

It's good to leave you at a loss of sight.

Maybe it's this subtlety.

Let you please wholeheartedly.

Maybe one day on a whim.

I'm going to stick to you and go crazy together.

Maybe make you giggle silly.

I'll give you a hug.

Both the good and the bad things that happen in your life are arranged, everything that is destined from the moment you are born.

In large ways, there has been a distinction between male and female since the beginning of a human being. Men are also destined to work hard for the family, they need to take responsibility for their family, but also to protect the family, and work hard to earn money to subsidize the family and make family life more perfect.

And women should teach their husbands and children at home, arrange all the trivial matters at home, respect the elderly, take care of the affairs at home in an orderly manner, and become the warmest support behind men.

When you encounter something unhappy, don't complain, you have to have the right attitude towards things, so that you don't become very miserable. You have to believe that there are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't have to force it. Be open to people and things, and don't care too much, the more you care, the more painful it will be.

So you should adjust your mentality and look at this problem in a different way, maybe you will have a different harvest, everything is the best arrangement, God will open another window for you when he closes a door for you.

When something happy happens, you should be grateful. After all, the luck that happens to you won't happen a second time. Whether it's meeting someone or something you like, you should be grateful to fate for allowing you to meet.

You have to believe that everything is predestined in the dark. It's better to accept it than to say it down. Pain, pleasure, or blandness are all gifts that fate gives us.

We use this phrase on many occasions to express our feelings. For example, when we get some luck, such as when we meet love, such as when we achieve some results, ......But this sentence is only a manifestation of our subjective will, and sometimes it does not correspond to objective things.

There is a mother who has always hoped that her daughter can get married and have children around the age of 25, but her daughter has never found a person she likes, and in the eyes of her mother, a hundred suitable objects have floated in front of her, all of which have been rejected by her daughter. When the next "suitable" object appeared, the mother comforted her daughter: Just him, the conditions are suitable in all aspects, and I feel that you two have a special fate at a glance, we have to believe in God's arrangement, and its arrangement is the best.

But is there any objective basis for this? If your daughter doesn't like this man and pulls them together, she will not be happy in marriage, and even lead to divorce, will you still say "everything is the best arrangement" at that time?

Everything is the best arrangement", which is an excuse for the immature status quo, and in many cases a pretext for cowardice and lack of progress. We have so many opportunities, why leave everything to a force that we can't control to arrange for us? When we can play a subjective role, we give our country to others, and we may have 10,000 regrets and unwillingness in our later lives.

So, don't be overjoyed by the saying "everything is for the best".

And when we are doing something, if we put in enough effort and the results are not very satisfactory to us, then we can comfort ourselves with the phrase "everything is the best arrangement" and let ourselves not fall into infinite confusion. Only by setting the right mentality can we strive for the "best arrangement" with our own efforts.

We must believe that in the chess game of life, only by being serious and working hard can we grasp more initiative. When we are in a desperate situation, we can also take "everything is the best arrangement" as the motivation, turn disadvantages into advantages, work hard, and achieve greater results. "Everything is arranged for the best", but you should not easily give up the right to self-arrangement.