Personal emotional issues, am I doing this to my girlfriend? Please tell the truth, and don t be afr

Your ideas are seriously wrong, corrupted by the feudal dregs of the past.

However, it can still be changed slowly, and the boyfriend should be a little more friendly to the woman, not controlling.

In turn, girlfriends should be considerate of their boyfriends.

It's all mutual, I think your girlfriend is very good.

If I were a man, I would cherish it!

To be honest, there will definitely be problems if it goes on like this, the most important thing between the two sides is mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual tolerance, I hope you can understand!

Emotions are built by both parties, and it is normal to respect each other, respect other people's choices, and occasionally quarrel.

My attitude towards your ideas and practices is criticism!! You're doing it macho, and it might work in the old society, but don't forget about the equality of men and women in today's society......

You should give her the freedom to do what she is interested in. It is recommended to travel together

Definitely not! Know how to cherish what you have...

No, give some freedom.

Why can't I listen to my words when I encounter emotional problems, I think it's because I have set my thoughts in my heart, and I have preconceived ideas, because it is someone I have loved, someone who has loved with sincerity, no matter what, you will believe in your choice... In the eyes of outsiders, he is really bad, but in your opinion, he is better than others, he has a shining point on his body that only you can see, you would rather believe that those feelings that have been left are not willing to let go, because you really worked hard to manage this relationship, paid so much sincerity but no result, and those who were beautiful in your past, that is something that really existed, even if it has changed now, but he still exists, you can't bear your sincerity, and you can't bear those good feelings, However, the past is always in the past, and those are memories. He does really exist, but he only stays in the memories, and it is really not easy to let go of his hand and come out of the memories.

Because to give up those beautiful things and accept the change of reality is equivalent to saying that you have to give up the sincerity and those good feelings that you have worked so hard to manage your feelings. But time can change a lot of things, and it may not be so easy to let go now, but once you change your state of mind, then everything will be different. Pain will turn into memories, good memories, and maybe I will think with emotion, I am really grateful to be able to experience such a relationship and let myself grow.

That's how life will be more meaningful! I don't know what kind of relationship you've been through, maybe my answer doesn't touch your heart, but I've had that before, pain, struggle, and even regret... However, now I am really grateful to the person who gave me such a painstaking relationship, because I will have such good memories with him, it turns out that I once liked someone with such a heart, and the memories created by my heart so seriously are worth cherishing!

People may experience many kinds of love in their lives, but don't let love become a kind of hurt, seeing the landlord say this, then I also want to be honest.

I admit it's the limitation of my male mind.

I don't want any points either.

But I want to tell you -- maybe you look at and understand the problem of determinism and free will, which you may not be interested in, but the question you're talking about is something that a lot of philosophers have discussed, in short, you're a woman, so you don't understand what men think, so men don't understand you.

What we want to hear may have been subconsciously decided.

What is right? Being right is just what we think is right.

In some senses, we think he's right, but he's not necessarily right, so whether a person likes to choose a bad word or a beautiful lie is decided from the beginning, and as you live and go through every minute and every second of time, I want more people to think the same way as you.

Nor can it be said that why flip a coin, because the moment the coin leaves your hand, you know the outcome you want. In the same way, whoever you want to believe is what you really think.

Haven't you heard such a saying? People in love have the lowest IQ, and during the relationship, because the other party only loves each other, it's like if you buy a doll you like, and others say that you bought the wrong one, and the quality is not good. You must have a torch in your heart.

No one likes to hear bad words, this is people's first reaction when they hear things they don't like, and it depends on themselves to go through this hurdle, otherwise they can't see what others say.

Because you and your lover can only be combined if you have a tacit understanding, So, the other party is equal to your right palm, and if your right hand is injured, will you be happy, others will definitely say that you should take care of the injury.

I don't think you can't listen to the words that are contrary to your ears, first understand your situation, and then say something that can solve your problem, no matter how bad it is, you can listen to it, as long as everyone is not a fool, as long as it is the right thing, I am afraid that you will not understand, right, if you listen to it, the problem is solved? In fact, it doesn't matter what you listen to, the important thing is to solve your emotional problems!

Let's be honest. Affection you divide it into 3 age stages for young people. Middle aged.

Older people to see. There will be different results. The question is.

Two people must know how to get along. So. Everybody has different feelings.

Feelings are also the most complex of people's whole thinking. There is no solution. Where there is love, there is fear.

There is no love, the world is peaceful.

No one knows what will happen if they don't go to the end, so they want to fight, ignore the "advice", and if they succeed, they will be happy; If you fail, you will remember the "advice". But after all, it's your own way, whether it's "advice" or "beautiful words", happy and sad, since you dare to go down, don't regret it, you can have the courage to stand up if you fail.

I don't think I can't listen to it, it's just that more often I just want to have this feeling, or I know very well that love is devalued, and I have to ask for a result for the sake of what I once paid, there is a kind of stupidity that doesn't shed tears if you don't see the coffin!

Keep it to yourself....You've answered all your own questions...Objectivity is also very correct....I generally agree....I would like to add one thing briefly....People have their own subjective consciousness....Ideology? worldview....There are many differences in values and so on...Therefore, there are differences in the way things are externally organized...Not everyone can have a good mindset and mind like you...It's not like a computer....Give it any instructions....What will be the result.

People always have to face reality. Speaking nice things may end up hurting even more. If you don't want to talk about it, just stay quietly for a while, find something else to get busy, and let time heal the scars.

Hehe, people are like this, they don't die until they reach the Yellow River, and they don't shed tears when they don't see the coffin... But, sadly, where in this world is there a regret pill to buy?! The cause of what you sow, you have to bear the fruit of it...

Especially feelings, who can do it easily, time is the best medicine for all pains, and no matter how heart-rending the pain, time can be good... Let time tell ...

Don't say who's right and who's wrong, that's how it is in love, no one is right or wrong, don't say that the other party is wrong at this time, you can tell him what is right, let him think about it differently. Take your time.

There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song in life that can never be sung. People may experience many kinds of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt.

Maybe that's a common problem for most people, but there are exceptions! I believe that rational love still exists!

If there is right, there will be wrong, if there is love, there will be hate, whether you fight or give up, the key is not to regret it, think about everything, and deal with it rationally!

No matter what the problem is, calm down to solve it, if you are always in pain, thinking about the past, you will never be able to extricate yourself, don't believe that time will dilute everything.

Most people prefer to listen to good words, but it's best to precipitate when you encounter problems! And then make a decision!

Some things are actually very simple to say, but they are difficult to do, because people are emotional creatures with flesh and blood!

She has her own family and has children of her own. I guess what you should do is bless her! Instead of finding a way to be with her.

Do you know how serious the consequences can be if you do that? At that time, it is not only one person who will be hurt, but the most important thing is that the psychological damage to the child will be great. Be sensible!

Bless her, and bless you!

Giving up is sometimes the best option.

What you should be thinking about now is your job and whether you have what it takes on to be a father. And not feelings.

Contrary to the ear, you are different in thinking, your parents will be resolutely opposed, she takes into account the children, the family, and you are only in your early twenties, in the process of your gradual growth, what kind of mutation will you have, she can't afford to bet, the greatest happiness of love is to let each other go to find the happiness they should have, if you really love her so much, you give each other five years, to prove that you are not child's play, and can ensure that she is material and spiritual

Let's get her son out of the way and start with what he's worried about.

She has children, and a family, then, do you really love her, she is no longer young, she already has a perfect family, you still have a long way to go, besides, she still has a husband, she will not be with you for her children, women love their own flesh and blood, his children are still so young, I think this goes on without results, if you really love her, let her go.

Hope it helps.

Your mind is still very immature.

If your parents found out, they would have scolded you to death.

You're only 23 years old now, and it's all important to study well.

In the future, I am not afraid of no girls when I graduate and find a good job.

In the virtual world on the Internet, you shouldn't put your emotions into it, she has a family and children. Do you think you'll be happy? Think for yourself. If you still can't figure it out, you'll regret it in the future. I hope my answer will help you.

To be honest, I'm not optimistic about Xiao San. is even less optimistic about online dating. A married woman I met on the Internet casually said what she liked.

If you are sure that after you are with her, with your experience and charm, she will not dislike you, and you will not be dead set on you, and she will no longer indulge online. Then break up her family and try to be a qualified stepfather. Good luck.

Others don't have to bear your truth, you think you're right, but it's actually your disrespect for others. Why can't you say it euphemistically.

Contrary to the word, your friend may not be able to accept it at first, but it will get better later.

If you talk about people's shortcomings, of course people will be unhappy, and being tactful will have a better effect.

In my opinion, it must have gone underground.

In terms of age, there are still many uncertainties in the future, so you have to face it with a frank mentality, whether you will come back to you in the end, it is useless if it is not your force, and now they are in a period of rebellion, and the character and values of both parties are not completely determined. If you insist on chasing, think of a wise way, to pretend to have a high profile of things, don't come to know, you can give her help behind your back, everyone is not a fool, will understand your intentions, because in the face of graduation, or continue to study or go their separate ways, emotional things are really slim, I am also from your period, when you look back on this relationship after ten years, in fact, it is just a vague ambiguous feeling, not the whole of life, just as a sweet memory of ignorant love in life. I am now in the 20s to meet my most begging female classmate, I really feel very lucky, because the things I look at at at this time are completely different from that period, so at this time, you still focus on your studies and have social status, it is you who pick beautiful women, chase one accurate, now I think you don't like to listen to me, but after 5 years and 10 years, you will understand.

I hope you understand

When I was a student, especially in junior high school, my feelings were ignorant, I just liked it, and there was still a little distance from love, she didn't like you when you liked it, and when she might want to like you, you retreated, in fact, they were not mature enough, it was normal to like it at this time, and it was normal not to like it, so you don't have to do anything deliberately, if you like each other, it doesn't hurt to talk about love, if you don't feel like it, then it's okay to be an ordinary friend.

Go to the China Celebration Forum to have a look, or go to the China Celebration Information Network to have a look.

Hahaha, in fact, looking at what you say, I personally think that you don't have to be her, there is a lot of homework in the third year of junior high school, coupled with the influence of the surrounding environment, to be honest, at your age. It's better to start a relationship that doesn't start well, you're not mature yet, and it's not yet time to take responsibility for your choices. Feelings are not something that can be squandered by yourself, control the degree, you like someone now, it's better to be pure.

You're not old enough to think too much.