How did the ancient literati ridicule those who did not repay their kindness?

1. Kindness will take revenge: repay the favor received with hatred. Refers to ingratitude.

Source: Ming Wu Chengen's "Journey to the West" Chapter 30: "If I say it, he will kill the princess, but this is not revenge?" ”

2. Profit makes you dizzy: you lose your mind because of greed for personal gain, and forget everything.

Source: "Historical Records: The Biography of Jun Yuqing of the Plains": "The proverb says: 'Li Ling Zhi is faint.'" 'Pingyuan Jun (Zhao Sheng) defeated Feng Ting's heresy, causing Zhao to fall into Changping with more than 400,000 people, and Handan almost died. ”

3. Forgetting righteousness when seeing profit: Ignoring morality when seeing profit.

Source: "Hanshu Fan Li Teng Guan Fu Jin Zhou Biography": "The husband betrays his friends, it is said that he sees profit and forgets his righteousness." ”

4. Treachery: Breaking promises and not preaching morality.

Source: "Northern History, Zhou Jixia, Emperor Gaozu Wudi": "Betraying the favor and anger of the neighbor, abandoning the faith and forgetting the righteousness." ”

5. Repay virtue with resentment: repay the favor of others with resentment.

Ancient literati felt that those who did not repay their gratitude were negative people, so they often arranged stories through storytelling under the overpass.

1. Asking human nature to be ungrateful is like asking a wolf to be a vegetarian. 2. The stomach is an ungrateful guy, and it never remembers. 8. The ungrateful person cannot be saved when he falls into trouble. 9. How can a dead man speak? But I have.

Nowadays, this phrase is often used to describe or satirize some people who are ungrateful, who have achieved a certain goal with the help of others, and then forget or even harm others in turn.

People have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and of course literati also have times when they have disputes with others. Compared with the fierce "vulgar language" when we quarrel, the language used by the literati when arguing is much more elegant and witty, which is quite a bit of a hidden needle.

Shen Zhao was crazy thin. During the Jin Dynasty, there was a person named Shen Zhaoluo. This person is arrogant and arrogant.

He likes to drink and often goes crazy. Once he was drunk again, and was walking on crutches on the road, just in time to see the king about it. He came up with the strength of wine, opened his eyes and stared at Wang Yue, and said:

You are the king. Why are you fat and stupid? ”

Wang Yue was not angry, and then fought back: "You are Shen Zhaoluo? Why are you so thin and crazy? ”

Shen Zhaoluo laughed: "You still don't believe it when you say you're stupid." No matter how thin I am, it's better than fat, no matter how crazy I am, it's better than stupid, no matter how I say it, I'm better than you! ”

Wang Rong. Another time, Shen Zhaoluo went to Wang Sengyou's house as a guest. When he saw that Wang Rong was also there, he pointed and asked Wang Shengyou:

Who is this person? Why did you get here? Wang Rong was quite angry, and said to Shen Zhaoluo:

I am the sun, growing all things. How could you not know me? Shen Zhao said lightly

I don't know about it, so I'll eat clams. Wang Rong then counterattacked: "Things gather by like, and people are separated from groups."

You were born in the East China Sea, and you really should be with these clams. ”

Wang Dao. Wang Ge sneered.

Wang Dao and Zhuge Hui of the Jin Dynasty were a pair of good friends. One day, the two of them had a gag and talked about their respective family names. Both of them are from big families, and they both say that their surnames are good, and they argue endlessly.

Zhuge Hui. At that time, the two of them were called "Wang Ge". Director Wang said on this basis:

Of course, it's 'Wang', why don't everyone else say 'Wang Ge' and put the king first? When Zhuge Hui heard this, he had an idea and retorted: "People often say 'donkeys and horses'."

Could it be that donkeys are worth more than horses? Director Wang was speechless.

Su Dongpo. Dongpo is right.

When Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou, he met the monk Foyin, and the two became good friends. One day, the two of them were playing in the river in a small boat. Su Shi was holding a folding fan in his hand, and there were poems written by Su Shi himself on the folding fan.

The Buddha Yin monk asked Su Shi for this fan. Su Shi didn't think much about it, so he handed it to the Buddha seal. Buddha Yin turned his head and threw the fan into the water, and said to Su Dongpo with a smile

Poetry of the East Slope of the Water Flow". Homonym "Water flow east slope corpse." "I made a joke with Su Dongpo.

Su Dongpo and the Buddha seal monk.

Of course, Su Dongpo wanted to fight back, but he couldn't think about it. Finally, when the boat was about to dock, Su Dongpo saw a wild dog on the shore holding a bone. He stroked his palms and smiled, pointed to the dog and said to the Buddha seal

Dogs gnaw on river bones. "Homophony" dog gnaws on monk bones. "Revenge with one arrow.

Zhuge Liang scolded Wang Lang to death without a dirty word, but he struck hard at Wang Lang's weakness and made Wang Lang angry to death.

Ancient Chinese cultural couplet culture has always been very popular with the literati, in fact, although there are not many words in a couplet, but it contains a lot of things, the literati gathering through the couplet to communicate feelings can not only see the knowledge level of a literati, but also can increase the fun of the party We all know that there is a saying called scolding people without dirty words, this sentence is used to describe the ancient literati is very suitable, the ancient literati have always thought that the country swear words are not on the table, so they scold people never bring dirty words, But the sharpness of his words is not inferior to that of swearing, such as swearing in couplets.

During the Jin Dynasty, there was a person named Shen Zhaoluo. Once he was drunk and walking on crutches on the road, just in time to see Wang Yue. He got drunk, opened his eyes and stared at Wang Yue, and said, You are Wang Yue, why are you fat and stupid?

Wang Yue was not angry, and then fought back: "You are Shen Zhaoluo? Why are you so thin and crazy?

The giver should not ask for anything in return, but the person who receives the favor should also have the heart to repay, there is no need to scold the person who does not repay the favor, maybe he can't repay it if he wants to, but the one who will take revenge must be the bad person, and I personally understand.

Isn't it grateful for others to help you when you are in the most difficult time, not necessarily in return, but also know how to be grateful.

If you don't repay your kindness, how should you understand the infamy and the prevention of old age? Parents raise their children just to thrive? Don't you want your children to repay the favor? Should the recipient reciprocate?

Don't be like them, 、、、

Xiucai met the soldiers. The more you pull it, the more troublesome it is.

Prove yourself with action.

The peasants were uneducated. But they all know how to repay the kindness, and their hearts are very real. You treat them well and will win a lot of prestige.

ungrateful, bridge over and turn ......

Knowing gratitude is self-discipline, not imposing.

Those who do not know how to repay their gratitude and are ungrateful should be scolded.

If someone else's kindness is not repaid.

Blame yourself. The favor you give is too easy.

Nothing unusual, so I don't appreciate it.

First of all, you must have a certain status.

Based on this, you even.

Send him a word.

He is also grateful to Dade for not forgetting it.

Or that person has a weak consciousness and does not understand the sophistication of human feelings.

Then forget about it.

You don't have to worry about it.

Knowing that there is a human touch.

is also worthy of the people who have helped him.

I don't repay my kindness. Unbalanced with others.

Then the help will be cut off, and there will be no next time.

You can take your time.

One person, one mind.

Because of comprehensive factors such as the quality of people, it is not that there are people in China who do not repay their kindness, but there are such people all over the world, and there are even people who will take revenge. Of course, other factors such as misunderstandings on both sides cannot be ruled out here. But I believe that this kind of people are always a minority.

In any country, in any era, there are that kind of ungrateful people, not to mention in China, there are more such people in foreign countries, China is relatively still grateful people in the majority, and those who do not repay their gratitude are only a minority.

Not only in China there are people who do not repay their kindness, but also in other countries, who do not repay their kindness and are ungrateful. He's just a villain. The essence is not good. Such people are not worth helping.

Because not everyone is good, there are people who not only saved him, but not only did he not appreciate you, which you deserve you, these people are people who have gratitude and do not repay them.

It must also be a person who forgets his righteousness for the sake of profit.

In the words of the idiom ungrateful, wolf-hearted, dog-lunged.

Absorb the lesson, don't make an example, relax your mentality, don't care about it this time, and don't make similar mistakes again when you know it in the future.

How to repay virtue with virtue? Repay virtue with virtue and repay grievances with straightforwardness.

I'm not that kind of person. Hehe.

If you see everything clearly, stay away.

There's no way, you really shouldn't be a bad person.

Moreover, there are really a lot of people in reality.

The crow has the righteousness of feeding, and the sheep knows the grace of kneeling milk.

The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring.

The owner knows that firewood and rice are expensive.

Raising children is the only way to know the kindness of parents.

Whoever says an inch is careless, and he will be rewarded with three springs.