If women control men too strictly, what will happen to men?

Women are too strict with men, and it is easy for men to resist from the heart. In fact, not only men, but also children who are too strict can have serious consequences and make children rebellious, let alone a man who has already reached adulthood. So, in reality, if women are too strict, what changes will men have?

First of all, if a woman is too strict with a man, the man may become silent and unwilling to tell the woman what he thinks or does in his heart. I am afraid that women will know that they will "manage" themselves, and they will make fun of and hit themselves.

This kind of silence of men will make the two people get along very coldly, do not fight with women about anything, do not quarrel with women, and never express opinions. To put it nicely, that's called figuring it out. To put it mildly, I just don't want to talk to women more and argue more.

Knowing that it didn't work out, then why complain about others and ask for trouble. Rather than saying this, it is better to pretend to be deaf and dumb, but a better way to protect the relationship between the two.

Therefore, for women, if they find that their men are silent and obey them in everything, it is not necessarily a good thing, and maybe your position in the hearts of men is not so important. The emotions between couples are based on effective communication, if a man pretends to be deaf and dumb to you, it is not that he recognizes you and recognizes you, but that he resists in his heart, and he listens to it on the surface. For a long time, for the relationship between the two, all kinds of harm have not benefited.

Secondly, if a woman is too strict with a man, the man will become abnormal and rebellious. The more you don't allow men to do anything, the more men will do something and go against you. Sometimes, it's not that men are willing to do it, or want to do it, it's often because they can resist you, so they do it.

In short, it's to anger you and resist each other in your heart. This is very easy to make the two fall into more contradictions and contradictions, which is very unfavorable to emotional harmony, and will also scar each other from hurting. For a long time, if the two are in a relationship, they are very likely to separate.

If it is a husband and wife relationship, it is very likely to be divorced. Don't get caught up in this vicious emotional loop.

It can really make the relationship between two people collapse.

Finally, if a woman is too strict with a man, the man will become disliked and will feel particularly suffocated when he comes home, unable to breathe free air. Some men would rather choose to work overtime, often stay up late, and want to go home to face a lover who controls them.

Some men who are not self-disciplined may also find other women outside and complain to each other to vent their dissatisfaction with women, and even feel that other women understand themselves, understand themselves, and apply themselves. It reminds me of some of the things that a lot of men do, smoke a cigarette and calm down before they get home. Or if the car stops, you need to stay in the car for a while to recover your mood before opening the door and going home.

All in all, if a woman is too strict with men, it is easy for men to live hard, nervous, and unhappy.

At the beginning, he may actively cooperate with the report, and he will patiently explain his whereabouts to you, but slowly he will get bored and do not want to report his whereabouts, and in the end he will not want to face it and will want to escape.

will become very rebellious, and then it will also reduce its feelings for women, there will be a rebellious mentality, it will not return home at night, it will hate home very much, and there will be thoughts of divorce.

Men will be reluctant to go home, they will feel restrained, they will be very uncomfortable, they will want to escape, they will no longer be intimate with their wives, and they will be cold to their wives.

Women are strict with men, and they can't really keep men. If a man is really tempted, even if he keeps someone, he can't keep his heart.

You can't keep a man, because the strict discipline will only make them more resistant, so they will leave faster.

Of course, it can't be kept, any feelings are mutual, not forced by oppression, and the man's rebellious psychology itself is strong, and the more he uses this method, the more disgusted he becomes.

A woman's strict control over a man does not necessarily keep a man. Many men love face, and if women are too strict, they will live a very depressed life, and they will always explode in the end.

No. Women should have their own careers, and women should try to be as independent as possible in order to retain men.

Strong women mostly have a bad fate, and strong women at home tend to be irritable and end up in a bleak situation. It's a fact.

The order of heaven is decided. Men are brave and strong, men are upright and strong with correct knowledge, and women are docile and take care of the family business. Like water, it moistens all things silently. (But who doesn't know the importance of water).

To be overly strong is to go against the heavens. It can only be one consequence, family misfortune. If you don't restrain your husband, you will restrain your children, especially the boy who is born to be sick and feminine. Lack of masculinity. It's the mother now.。。。

Broaden your heart, tolerate him, care for him, and love him.

It's not about disciplining him, that's definitely wrong. Big and small things are counted on him, which is equivalent to hitting his self-confidence every day, so if he is not strong enough, then he must slowly become obscene, and then you may say, how can I marry a man like you, how ridiculous. That's what you do, and some women tend to try to control the man, control the finances, control everything.

Then you are losing your happiness when you get these colleagues.

So, you're doing it wrong. You must change it, otherwise you are likely to face an unhappy family in the future. It's scary.

I'll tell you, even if your boyfriend is very ignorant, you can't talk about him often, as long as he is self-motivated and doesn't do anything that hurts you, you shouldn't say him often, women are water, husbands rely on gentleness, you must encourage when you should encourage, if you do this, he will be very grateful for your support for him, if you are willing to give him more trust, he will be more grateful and cherish your trust in him!

Everyone has their own space、、Don't be too strict。

Men have to be managed by women, although this is very rough, but the truth is not rough at all, fulfilling the old saying that "words are rough and not rough". In our rural areas, this sentence is so good in the mouths of old ladies, and it is very exciting.

This is true, I first saw the untrue Brother Zhen in the famous local writer Jiang Kunyuan's ** "Pearl Selling". There was no wife's eyes staring, saying that he was selling pearls with his father outside, but in fact he was eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, and finally he was caught by the joint defense team and locked up.

Later, even Brother Zhen's father said that the only way to do this was to let his son stay at home and be supervised by his daughter-in-law to see how he dared to move.

What I have a deeper understanding of is that our group went to Zhejiang Shenxian Ju Farmhouse this time, and the performance of those men was shocking.

This time we went to the farmhouse and there were a few in the whole group.

Men in their fifties and sixties, their wives have not come out to play together, and there are no people who are controlled, and those words and deeds make us women really dare not compliment.

These men were about to drink for a while, but the tour guide didn't give it, they drunkenly took out a handful of money and shouted: Lao Tzu has money, shop boy, serve me wine!

When they drink alcohol, they have to get drunk, and then they can say all sorts of nonsense by borrowing wine gall. Gossip splattered, grabbed this sister and that sister, and didn't care that people had put their hate on their faces.

There was free karaoke in the farmhouse, and these men were full of wine and food, singing and roaring through the microphone until midnight. I told them to stop singing, and they couldn't sleep, but they just wouldn't listen. In the end, it was the tour guide who coaxed these drunks to go to sleep.

In the past three days, it is estimated that these men are too lazy to change their clothes and look sloppy. Imagine if my wife was there, she would have scolded her ears a long time ago: the red kang is cold and the life is ......Look at them still obediently conform and behave.

still dare to talk nonsense, probably not even daring to let out a fart. As for the old wine, it has long been confiscated.

Some men don't look at them outside, but in fact, as long as their wives shake their eyes, they will be obedient, so dare to talk nonsense? It's the same as an elementary school student meeting a homeroom teacher.

And women clean themselves up even if they don't have a man by their side, and generally don't make mistakes.

No wonder some people say that being afraid of wives is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation! When a man leaves the housewife, it is a broken broom, a notched dung basket, and a broken pot without a cover! Hee-hee!

You don't have to worry about the men of the Gu family, but you can't take care of the men who don't care about the family.

A man who is willing to be managed by his wife is the one who really understands marriage!

Women should not be in charge of men, because in this society everyone is equal, in the eyes of enlightened people, there are no men and women, only people and good people and bad people. Everyone is an independent individual, why should I manage a person, and because I am a woman, I should take care of other men, this is a particularly unfair thing, women are in charge of men is a vice of feudal society.

Women don't care about men, it depends on what situation, if it's two strangers, why should I care about this person? If two people are husband and wife, it should be, but it's just a responsibility. There is also a kind of man who has encountered some difficulties, and this woman has the ability to help this man solve the difficulties, that can also help, after all, we are a harmonious society.

I think it depends on the man's attitude. If the man being managed is happy, then this management can exist and can be sustained. On the contrary, if the man who is in charge is uncomfortable, unhappy, and unfree, then contradictions will follow.

I think women and men should be one, not leadership. Sometimes men have their own ideas, and they work hard outside the home, so they just want to relax in their spare time. You can manage some things, but you can't meddle in everything.

We can speak our minds on small things, but we can't blame them in places we don't understand.

In fact, there is no care at all, it can only be whether the man wants you to care, if the man trusts the woman very much, no matter what you say, he will listen to you. So we can't interfere in a man's life, if he wants to go out to dinner, or want to go out with some buddies to relax, as long as it's moderate, we don't put on a face, we can't discipline him, he also needs to have his own entertainment time.

I think women shouldn't care about men, in the history of China, men are always working hard, bleeding and sweating, and even in danger of dying on the battlefield, while women need to face each other at home, and men are the pillars of the family's life, if there are too many constraints, it may make this man decadent, degenerate,

A man who is willing to be managed by his wife is the one who really understands marriage!

Should women care about men?

Because she is genuine to you.

will take care of you. If she's cold to you anymore. Love ignores it. It shows that she is dispensable, and a man must know how to be sincere. Don't get too impatient.

A man who is willing to be managed by his wife is the one who really understands marriage!

You don't have to worry about the man who takes care of the family, the second is the man who is good to you, and the man who loves you doesn't need you.

A man who is willing to be managed by his wife is the one who really understands marriage!