My wife s mouth is too poisonous and her words are too hurtful, do netizens have anything

It's not a problem to talk too fast, it's a problem that you speak without thinking, which leads to hurting your friend. As the saying goes, bad words are cold. Sometimes, although it is your unintentional mistake, the damage caused to others can be great.

Suggestions: First, talk less, of course, this is not something that can be changed overnight and easily, you need to take your time.

Second, if you really can't control your mouth, you are naturally a good talker, and it is recommended that when there are multiple people present, do not be the first to speak, and wait until the third speaks.

Third, if it is only in the case of yourself and another person, it is recommended to think a little before you speak, do not blurt out, do not use your brain, you can count the words you want to say before you speak, and see if it hurts others.

Personal insights.

You love your wife, and you have to scold him when you are around, and your mouth is very powerful, you just don't love him anymore, so you want him to marry again, and you can't scold him if you love him, you have to love her well, take care of her, and care about her, so that you can say that you love him.

When you are together, you are hurting him, making him angry, and forcing him to leave you.

Yes, men should be more open-minded, and should not always be calculating with women, chattering, and tolerant.

In fact, everyone has a common shortcoming, that is, when things are over, they can always feel their mistakes, but when they encounter the same thing again, the same mistakes will be made again.

If you really love him, you should keep him by your side, this is the truest thing.

The most important thing you should do now is how to get rid of your personality.

You scolded your wife a few times, although your wife ran away from home with a ruthless heart, but only temporarily, you yourself found that what you said was very poisonous and hurtful, and you also realized your mistakes, you should pay for your mistakes, you are not divorced, I believe she is just a moment of sadness and ran away from home, when the person who loves you returns to you, you should also wake up, change your bad temper, realize your mistakes, two people are destined to meet and know each other and love each other should be the happiest thing, Don't let happiness walk away from you to regret it.

The best way to deal with such people is: worship ghosts and gods and stay away! It is impossible for anyone to be friends, even if there is too much difference between the two roommates, personality and other aspects are not necessary to become friends.

What's more, she also has a problem with her character, the kind of person who sees what she says, this kind of person has a problem with her own character! Just stay away from her.

The kind of person who talks about people and talks nonsense when he sees him, is not worthy of fighting with her, fighting with this kind of person, and if he loses his identity, he may not have an intersection with her!

Just be yourself, there's no need to be like her. She is not sensible, she doesn't know the world, and if you are as calculating as her, you will seem to be ignorant. Just make sure you have a clear conscience.

Just learn to tolerate and ignore him.

Go your own way and let others say it Don't pay attention to her Can't you afford to hide Some people are just such scheming.

First of all, roommates should have a good relationship, whether in life or study, they should help each other, when they encounter the above situations, they should endure it, and communicate with each other when necessary, which is the best way to solve the problem.

You should find a chance to have a good chat, is there something in the middle of this that makes you have a misunderstanding, or you shouldn't be in the same dormitory like this thorny talk hurtful, how embarrassing it is to meet in the same dormitory without looking up, and it is also a kind of fate to meet in the same dormitory, they are all sisters from all over the world, so I suggest that the misunderstanding be resolved and get along.

Give somebody the rough side of one's tongue.

yǔ shāng rén

Interpretation] Bad language: colloquial language such as rude slander. Hurt others with vicious words. It is also "evil and hurtful".

Song Shi Puji's "Five Lantern Huiyuan, Hongzhou Fachang Yiyu Zen Master" Volume 43: "The sharp knife cuts the flesh sores and is still the same; Bad words hurt people and hate them. ”

Zhengyin] evil; It cannot be pronounced as "wù".

Identification] injury; You can't write "portion".

synonyms] rumor-mongering.

Antisense] good words and persuasion.

Usage] has a pejorative connotation.

Structure] is more formal.

Obviously, this is a more serious problem, in fact, there is no malice in your heart, but the speaker has no intention of listening, and you will invisibly offend everyone you meet, and you still think that no one is right. Think about everything from the other person's point of view, and you will find a lot. Because talking can be big or small, big words will change everyone's opinion of you, especially girls The external appearance often reflects the side of the character, I hope you find the shortcomings and try your best to correct them, because there are many problems involved.

Yes, some of today's people don't say anything about you on the surface, but behind your back, in fact, people like you are better, just have a bad mouth, and your heart and eyes are definitely not bad, just afraid of that kind of smiling tiger, don't say anything on your mouth, and give you a knife behind your back, you better pay attention, don't offend people don't know.

Encourage others as much as possible. You have to praise him for the results he has achieved, even if it is a small success. Praise is like sunshine, without which we have no nutrients to grow. Your compliments are never superfluous.

2.You have to keep your face at all times. Don't embarrass anyone, don't belittle someone, don't exaggerate someone's mistakes.

3.Only say good things about him behind the backs of others. If you can't find anything good to say, then you keep silent.

4.Look closely at someone and you will find out what good things he does. When you give a compliment, you have to give reasons so that your compliment doesn't get flattering.

5.You should always quote the noble thoughts and motives of others. Everyone wants to be perceived by others as magnanimous and selfless.

If you want someone else to improve, then you act as if they already have these good qualities. That way, he'll do everything possible not to disappoint.

6.Try not to criticize others, and when you have to, it's best to do it indirectly. You have to always do things and not people. You have to show the other person that you really like him and are willing to help him. You should never criticize someone in writing.

7.You want to allow others to feel good about themselves once in a while. You don't brag, but admit that you have shortcomings. You should be humble and cautious, guard against arrogance and rashness. If you want to make enemies, you fight people everywhere. If you want to have friends, you have to be forgiving and forgiving.

It's good to keep a peaceful mind, don't worry too much, and then leave half a sentence on the tip of your tongue.

Of course, pay attention, who else do you want to talk to!

In the eyes of others, saying that you are alive means that you have a small or bad heart, and you destroy your own image, so please pay attention to the tone and the feelings of others.

It's simple, think before you speak.

Now that you've been warned about it, it looks like it's time for you to restrain yourself.

There are also several types of poisonous tongues, and you can try to speak in a laughing way.

Maybe it's a little arrogant.,It's generally good to her after that.,It's useless to be so good to her.,Others don't remember your goodness.。 Just treat it as an ordinary person.

It's good to be polite when dealing with this kind of person.,There's no need to get along too much.,Just listen to aggressive words.,What kind of people in the world have....

Slowly move away from it ,,, take advantage of the opportunity to kill it.

Snub him, ignore him, ignore him, why should you ignore him.

Be yourself, be plain, and don't talk much.

If you want to force her out, it's up to your boss's wife! If this doesn't work, then you probably have to endure it, or do some damage in the company to see if you can make the company go out of business, after all, it's your boss's lover, and it is generally impossible to get rid of her, unless all the people in your company jointly mention it to the boss, it is estimated that few people are willing to offend the boss, so they will publish anonymously at you, which is also impossible, so in fact, the best solution is to go yourself!

If you really have to force her away, it can only be that your boss has a wife, and you send her a letter behind your back to inform her of the ambiguous relationship, or wait for the opportunity, after all, for the person who has the right to decide whether you go or stay, you can't act rashly!

Alas! Just do your own essential work.

Don't bring personal factors to work.

Suggestions can be made, don't think crookedly.

Do things really and be conscientious.

It's good bosses, not stupid.

If you are not a good boss, you must be like this, and it is not you who suffers.

It is the company that sets the right mentality.

Of course, it's someone in Xindu, if a person has a lot of hearts, then he will do things by unscrupulous means, and he will bring a lot of harm to others.

As the saying goes, Shandong's warm words hurt people and June cold. Saying hurtful things is more excessive and heartbreaking than doing hurtful things.

This heart poison must be more hurtful.

Speaking hurtful is even more hurtful and ruthless.