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Marriage requires two people to work together. Not as casual as a children's playhouse. Instead, you need to use your own feelings and some "little tricks" to make your marriage relationship more harmonious.
For example, there is one thing in marriage that should not be avoided, that is, women should not be too strong, which will make men feel that they have lost the initiative and taste of love in marriage. So, if a woman is strong in these areas, her life is often unsatisfactory.
Financially, the economic base.
Decide on the superstructure.
This is what many people describe as the place of money in marriage. Finances do have a big impact on marriage, but some women value money too much and tend to keep their mouths shut. Insecurity.
is greedy for money in his heart, in short, he just doesn't want to give men a chance, even if most of the money is earned by men. In this way, men do not have much financial ability to cultivate interests or expand their social circles, which will also make men depressed.
And the man can't raise an objection, otherwise there will be a dispute right away, and the family will jump around. Under this contradiction, men will slowly alienate women, or secretly build their own small coffers.
In any case, it is inevitable that the relationship between husband and wife will be hurt. Too strong for a man's family, emotionally, if a woman is too strong for the man's family, the man can't help but want to stay away from you. If you want your relationship to be long-lasting, you must not only be good to a man, but also learn to be good to his parents and family.
If you lack the minimum respect and understanding for the man's family, are too aggressive to his parents and family, and never make any concessions to his parents and family, then he may want to stay away from you.
If you don't like a man's family, don't want to put in the effort to please his family, and don't want to waste time with his family, then a man may feel that you don't really love him, and he may want to end the relationship. If you have any grievances or complaints about the man's parents and family, you can find a suitable time to communicate with the man in person. Still, you'd better not criticize his family in front of a man.
Even if you don't look at the monk's face, you have to look at the Buddha's face. You should save some face for this person more or less. If you can't be kind to his family, if you are too aggressive or rude to his family, then the man will only stay away from you.
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Yes, if the woman is too strong, the man will become particularly inferior, and the pressure is also very high, and slowly he will have some conflicts with the other party, and finally lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
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I think it still depends on the personality of the two people, some of them are strong and one is weak, and some of them are strong, then it will be easy to argue and quarrel, and the marriage will not last long!
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I think so. Because the woman is particularly strong, it is easy to cause emotional problems, and the family will not be harmonious.
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The stronger a woman, the more unhappy her marriage will be? On what basis? The stronger a woman, the more unhappy her marriage becomes?
Marriage is based on mutual respect and love between two people, and they must give each other some face in everything. Seeing you say that you are in control of the family's money, your husband's money is all handed over, and the family is well managed, it seems that you are a very capable strong woman, which makes people admire.
If you meet a husband who is not very good at managing the family, he may be very happy, and the family will manage you without worry, as long as you are responsible for making more money, so the relationship between the husband and wife is getting better and better. But if you meet a man who takes care of his family very much, he has a sense of love and responsibility, and is always willing to take care of the house very well, so as to give his wife and children a comfortable environment, not only experience his own ability, as a man, it is very face-saving, go to ** and say, what to buy for his wife's birthday, buy that popular scooter for his children. In the case of men, he has a good talking point, and it also makes the same sex feel that he loves his family very much, much better than that male colleague, and his face is really honorable, and a man's self-esteem will be satisfied, which also reflects his strong feelings for his family.
On the other hand, if you don't let him do anything, it's nothing at first, but after a long time, my husband is very inferior, and when he goes to a friend's occasion, he has no money to treat, and even the money to buy cigarettes is at the bottom of his pocket, so he has to look up to the sky and sigh, what kind of day is this, I feel that all the money I earn is handed over, is this a debt to this family, and the money I earn is tired and tired I can't get a point.
Don't laugh, there really is something like this happening around us. Especially inviting friends to get together, that embarrassment, I believe it can be imagined. What can happen if you meet someone who makes him feel safe.
Men need to understand, they also need face, when they get home, they can discuss something with him, pay their salary, and give him some money for entertainment, so that everyone is happy, which is a happy thing for this family.
So the stronger the woman, the happier the marriage? You can feel it, a hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can sleep together, I wish you happiness!
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Most of them are like this, men like weak and obedient women, so that men will have more pride and a sense of existence, but the stronger the woman, the more annoying the man.
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Women are strong, people can't avoid it, feelings, marriage, family, for them, is hard, cold, at home to say the same, arrogant, may be a little unsatisfactory will complain non-stop, for a long time, no man will stand it, occasionally can be a little woman, let men feel your tenderness, is also a benefit to family harmony.
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It is true that it will not be so happy, because a strong woman will not be loved by a man, and the more independent a woman is, the more lonely she is.
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What happens if a woman is too strong? If a woman is too strong, her partner will feel that she has no value to be needed. Women need to give their other half the opportunity to show their value.
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