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Anonymous users2024-02-12I believe everyone is familiar with the book "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", and they have all read it. There are wonderful stories about the "Three Kingdoms" such as "Three Visits to the Thatched House", "Burning Xinye", "Empty City Strategy", "Bitter Meat Strategy", "Battle of Red Cliffs", "Night Wheat City", "Passing Five Levels, Cutting Six Generals" and so on. Among them, what impressed me the most was "Zhuge Liang Sanqi Zhou Yu", and finally the general Zhou Yu to death, I think Zhou Yu was self-inflicted, he deserved it.
Don't be surprised by my thoughts, because you should know: "There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people"; "There is only better in the world, not the best", Zhou Yu is very smart, but there are still people who are smarter than him. The reason why he was was because he was narrow-minded and jealous of other people's talents.
If a person can't tolerate others being "better" than you, then you won't have a happy day.
Narrow-mindedness is Zhou Yu's biggest shortcoming. I think that when Chu and Han fought each other, the military strength of Xiang Yu, the king of Chu, was several times stronger than Liu Bang's military strength, according to common sense, Xiang Yu should have won the battle, but the result was the opposite, why is this? It's because Xiang Yu doesn't know how to reuse talents, and he killed all the talents, which is very similar to Zhou Yu's narrow-mindedness, and he wanted to dominate alone, but in the end he was defeated by Liu Bang.
Jealousy, I believe that each of us usually has a little, although not much, just a little. However, we must not lose ourselves because of jealousy, and we must not be carried away by what we want to do with someone. Speaking of me, there was a recitation competition at school, and our class won the second place, and the fourth (3) class won the first place, and I thought:
Damn it! What's so great, next time I'm going to compare with them, I don't believe I can't compare to them, it's really hateful." But now I understand a truth, we didn't get the first place, there must be shortcomings, we should find out our shortcomings to catch up, and we should not be jealous of other people's achievements, so that we can improve.
We must not be angry because of which aspect of others is better than themselves, and jealous of others, so that you will feel upset and depressed, it will affect your study, life, etc., and will also affect your character, over time you may not be able to correct it, you will become a lively and cheerful child into a stingy, selfish child, you can not get along with others, you have a little mistake others will report to your parents, teachers, you will be more unconvinced......This becomes a vicious circle.
I hope you don't be a jealous and narrow-minded person like Zhou Yu and Xiang Yu.
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