What should I do if I confess and she says we are not suitable?

Then you shouldn't give up on giving up silently so that he can feel your care and love.

Let's play a little trick. You treat her as you wish, and after a while you suddenly drift away from her a little bit. I think she won't be able to take it

First, you mean if, that is, there is no confession. Second, you also said that you really like her, if she refuses, then you can start with a pot friend first, and slowly get to know her, after the passage of time, you find that you really like her, then chase it.

Confession is actually a manifestation of immaturity, you should change from a friend to a lover, and you can step into her inner world step by step, understand her family, interests and hobbies. And then create some serendipitous events, give some gifts or something. In fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others, and it will be natural.

Actually, it doesn't have to be that she doesn't marry, she says it's not suitable, you can try a few more times, but if it doesn't work, just give up. Marriage is a shoe, the two should be suitable, don't force it if it's not suitable, if you want to open a little, life is long, and there are many girls.

Why are girls so unhappy after rejecting your confession?

I have a roommate Xiaoyang (pseudonym, the same below) just rejected the boy who confessed to him a few days ago, and she came back and told us very unhappily that so-and-so confessed to her, but she refused. Then the roommates gossiped and said how good so-and-so is, why did you reject him, you will regret it.

Xiaoyang cried and said that the boy's family was rural, her parents would definitely not agree, and she might need to study abroad after graduation, there were too many uncertainties in the future, and she didn't want to delay the boy.

From this example, it is not difficult to see that the girl's rejection of the boy's confession is not that she doesn't like the boy, and she doesn't really want to refuse, but there are some practical reasons that she has to refuse, so she is so unhappy.

Another situation may be that when a boy confesses to a girl, the girl really doesn't like the boy, but after refusing, everyone says that she regrets it again, so she can't be happy.

Finally, there is another situation where the girl is too kind, and she feels that she has hurt you after rejecting you, so she feels sad herself.

He rejected your confession, but he was still unhappy, maybe it wasn't because of you that he wasn't very happy, maybe he had other ideas, maybe because he was shy, because you didn't know him yet, you only knew why his thoughts became unhappy, maybe he had a lot of concerns to reject your confession.

He rejected your confession, and he was very unhappy, because the way you expressed it made him feel troubled, and your confession had a profound impact on him, making the people around him gradually move away from him, especially the people he liked.

It's okay for her to be unhappy with you, she doesn't like you so she rejects you, but her unhappiness is not because of you. She doesn't like you, and your confession has caused her trouble, so she's not happy.

She may have a crush on you, but your confession may not be good enough to match her mind, so it's a little sad that she rejected you.

This question scores a few points, the first case she doesn't like you, but some people are born not to reject people, thinking that rejecting others is hurting others, so they are unhappy; In the second case, she also has a good impression of you, but someone may have confessed successfully before you, and she is sad and unhappy because she missed a relationship between you; In the third case, she is very disgusted with you, and feels that she can't accept it in her heart by being confessed by you, so she is not happy, and you have to evaluate it yourself in combination with the actual situation between you, hopefully, I wish you to find the other half that suits you as soon as possible.

What happens when you reject someone and are in a bad mood? -Explain that she still has a certain affection for him, but for some reason, she didn't accept it.

Why is it that when I reject others, I feel bad and make mistakes - it's because after you reject someone, you have a feeling of guilt in your heart, as if you are sorry for others, or you are afraid that you will offend others because of this, and you are afraid that others will blame you, so you will be in a bad mood. In fact, people sometimes need to learn to refuse, help those who can help, don't help those who can't, and treat them calmly.

I think she may also be more sorry, and she is also more affectionate with you, so she will be unhappy.

If the other party rejects your confession, it may feel that it hurts you, so in this case, you will feel very guilty, and you will feel very sad, which is one such reason, that is, because the other party feels sorry for you.

Maybe she likes you too, but she has her own things to complete in the near future, and she may not have decided clearly and hesitated. Or maybe her family doesn't allow her to fall in love, but she likes you.

Your relationship should be very good, she rejected you, but she was very sad, probably thinking in her heart that she was going to lose you as a friend, so it was inevitable that she would show a sense of loss.

If she is unhappy, it may be that she has a last resort, or that she has a good relationship with you and can't bear to hurt you, and she will inevitably be unhappy after refusing.

Hello, sometimes rejecting your confession is not because I don't like you, it's just that you didn't show up at the right time!

1.Maybe his unhappiness shouldn't have anything to do with him, maybe it's something else, or maybe he's experiencing something unhappy now.

2.It is also possible that they have a good impression of you, but they feel that it is not suitable for love now, and they feel that they will inevitably be a little disappointed if they reject you.

I think maybe he's also worried, maybe he also thinks that rejecting you is something that can make him lose, maybe he loses a friend, maybe she will not be happy, and then he didn't expect this to happen.

Because she may like you a little, but she has concerns

Although she rejected your confession, he wouldn't be happy, after all, he didn't want to hurt someone as good as you, so he couldn't bear it.

Maybe she regretted it at the time, she may have refused when her brain was hot, you give her a little time to find her again, maybe you can go back with a beauty.

Maybe for you, it's further disqualified, and you can't take a step back.

Maybe the best relationship for her is a good friend! If you confess, you've lost your good friend, so you're not happy!

One, she simply doesn't like you.

Second, she may like you, but feels that your confession is not good enough, or that it was too hasty.

Maybe she is thinking about other important things, usually such girls are very sensible, she knows what to do when she puts it down.

Because she also has a good impression of you, but there may be external factors, she can't accept your confession, and she is afraid that she won't even have to be a friend after rejecting you.

The other person doesn't want to hurt you, so they become unhappy because they are afraid that the words they say will hurt you.

1.She also likes you, but there is a special reason, so she chooses to reject you (for example: her best friend told her that she likes you, personal reasons...).

2.There happen to be some sad things in life.

3.Nothing happy happened.

4.I don't like to reject people very much, and rejecting others makes you feel guilty.

He rejects people's confessions, and he is not happy, which means that he can be happy when he doesn't get what he wants and doesn't want when he comes, and rejecting you means that he still has another person in his heart.

If he rejects these confessions from you, you are not happy to show that this situation is not as simple as imagined, and it is likely that he does not want you to know that he has you in his heart.

You may be worried that your self-esteem will be hurt and you may become inferior or depressed.

Because the stone in her heart was finally put down, that's why she was so happy.

Because she wanted to fish you, you took the bait! What can be done about this, after all, when she smiles at you, you think she likes you.

Confessing to a girl that he is very perfunctory to you, maybe he doesn't care, but don't be discouraged, as long as you show more of your excellent side, one day he takes the initiative to contact you, it proves that your hope is already great.

When she said that you were perfunctory, she actually said that when you confessed, she couldn't feel your solemnity, and she would feel that your confession was more casual, so she said that, not that she didn't like you.

It seems that he really doesn't feel very good about you, otherwise he wouldn't say that you are perfunctory, even if you confess not well enough, he shouldn't say that about you. He shouldn't like you.

No, girls say that you are perfunctory, which means that your confession is not sincere enough, girls attach great importance to the sense of ceremony, they feel that the confession must be pious and sufficient ritual.

Maybe he is just testing whether you are serious or not, because after you confess to him, it is difficult for him to accept you if you don't give a gift or make a simple confession without other expressions.

That's not to say I don't like you at all.

It may be that the way you confessed was more perfunctory, and you didn't do anything practical, just talking.

Because girls care more about that kind of practical action, not empty words.

It's not that the girl doesn't like you, but in the process of your confession, the girl doesn't feel your sincerity, so saying that you are perfunctory also means that he thinks your confession is not sincere enough, not that he doesn't like you.

Confessed to the girl today, the girl said that you are very perfunctory, it seems that the girl does not like your too casual confession, she wants you to confess solemnly.

After wanting to confess to the girl, she said that it was very perfunctory, indicating that your impression in his mind was not very good, and you needed to win his favor in terms of image and in the aspects of your own attention, and change her opinion of you.

The girl said that you are very recovered, which means that he does not say that he doesn't like you, but he just thinks that your confession is too hasty and has no sincerity, and he wants to see you confess more sincerely.

Your confession may be too sudden, and there is no surprise for her, judging from what you said, this girl did not explicitly reject you, nor did she say that she didn't like you, but you can still get along and get to know each other again.

It shouldn't be, it should like you, and if she doesn't like you at all, *won't say these words, she should reject you outright.

Your confession this time is just that the posture of the confession is incorrect, continue to communicate, continue to cultivate feelings, create a warm environment, prepare a gift, and make a formal confession, so that you can succeed, at least improve the success rate.

I confessed to the girl today, she said that you are more perfunctory, in fact, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like you, it may be that he also likes you, but he just said that he doesn't know how to express it, he wants you to lose weight and sound better.

Confessing to a girl, she said that you are very perfunctory, not that he doesn't like you, on the contrary, he likes you very much, but he is very dissatisfied with the way you confess, in his mind, that confession should be very romantic.

You're wrong, it's not necessarily that people don't like you at all, maybe she still had a good impression of you before, but she was really dissatisfied with the way you confessed, and she didn't feel a little sincerity.

Maybe your attitude has changed somewhat, or your attitude is not particularly sincere, so this girl will have such a feeling, not rejecting your meaning, you still need to change your attitude, or be more sincere when confessing to this girl.

He said that you are perfunctory, you can take a look, is it not very ceremonious, very formal to say something to her confession? Isn't it casual to prepare something? He said that you were perfunctory and did not directly refuse, you should have a crush on you, but I didn't expect you to be so informal.

Since the girl said that you were very perfunctory, it means that the girl has always known that you like him, and he has been looking forward to your confession for a long time, but the way you confess seems a little disrespectful to him, and he hopes that you can be more grand.

If this girl says this, it may not be a particularly good impression of you, so no matter what, you should still make this girl's impression of you better, this is the most important thing, the most important thing is that this girl should slowly improve her impression of you.

This shows that you don't have any feelings together, if you have feelings, as long as it's a confession, no matter what you say, he likes it very much, I think you should get along well for a while.

No, it may be because the girl feels that you are not very prepared for this confession, so there is a little disappointment, and you can prepare to confess to him again.

When I confessed to the girl today, she said that you were very perfunctory, I don't think it means that he doesn't like you, but it may be that the way you confess is a little too simple and does not hit the girl's heart.

This shows that your confession is more perfunctory and has no sense of ceremony, and this girl needs to have a sense of ceremony, so you need to be grand in your confession to her in the future, so that it may be successful.

To say that you are very perfunctory means that you do not have a ritual, and since you confess, there should be a ritual. For example, at the table in a restaurant, or by the sea, these are meaningful places to confess.