I envy myself when I see others with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend is a soldier, it s really helple

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
77 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Why envy others? My boyfriend is also in the army. But I've been here for the past 2 years. In a few days, he will ask for it.

    It's back. You should stick to yourself. Our feelings haven't changed at all, one in Fuzhou and the other in Nanjing. Just love one another.

    The other party, their love is worthy of the envy of others. Wait patiently, there will be a day of reunion! Moreover, the army is a person who exercises interpersonal relationships, physical fitness.

    Great place, your boyfriend will definitely be excellent when he comes back from there.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I'm very happy, my boyfriend sits right next to me, we surf the Internet together, but more often we can't be together, and we can only rely on ** chatting usually. But I know, "If the relationship is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight"!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you love him, you will give support, endure loneliness, and talk to female friends.

    I don't love him very much, and if you want to fall in love sweetly, then look for someone who is not a soldier, and recommend Aquarius, Gemini, Balance, and Pisces boys, all of whom are romantic.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe, there was a boy chasing me, and I still had some feelings for him during that period, but it didn't take long for him to go to the army, and now I don't have any feelings for him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just wait slowly. You also have something to be envied by others.

    It's just that you haven't discovered it yet!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sad

    Then you ask me to be your boyfriend, I didn't become a soldier.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Wait for him! Distance produces beauty, you know? Be sure to persevere!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you have to wait, and if you can't wait, find someone else.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Distance: Distance is the biggest puzzle of love

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love him, you won't fall in love with a second person, and you have to make it clear that there is a difference between liking and loving.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is selfish and loyal and cannot be shared.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wrong. Are you sure this is true love? The 5-year relationship is not easy, it should be a long stream, don't make a decision that you regret!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, no, because you haven't broken up with your boyfriend yet, and if you do, you can consider other men.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's me! I'll wait for my ex-boyfriend! But the premise is that you have to see if it's worth it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you fall in love with two people, choose the second one.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then think about it.

    After all, it's a long-distance relationship.

    He doesn't feel comfortable with you.

    Tell him you're going to take care of yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Wait, you'll regret it if you don't wait.

    He didn't have a chance to split his legs anyway.

    I like Brother Bing very much.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    True love stands the test.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As long as you have him in your heart, it's fine.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can visit your relatives, go and see him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Two years have passed quickly, so wait.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you go to visit relatives, there is no distance in love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Life is like this, there is too much helplessness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Feelings are managed with heart, give both parties a little time and distance, so that each other have free space, use distance in exchange for emotional communication, and use letters to communicate, so as to understand each other's temper, character, preferences, etc. I want you to think about how you design the future of love?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on which one you love each other more!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Go with your own feelings.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The point is that do you love him? And how old are you now?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Cherish the person in front of you, regret it is yourself, you know that your boyfriend is good to you, but you don't know the blessing in the blessing!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If it were me, I would definitely not leave, because if you are looking for a partner, you have to find someone who loves you, not what you love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Bored.. I don't like what you're doing with him in the first place.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't step on two boats with one foot!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It can only show that you are a more attentive woman, and it is still difficult for the other half of society to be good to you now.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then don't go, you'll regret it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Follow your feelings, or you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now should belong to the boredom period, the past is fine, and if you can't get over, it will be over.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In this case, why not raise a spare tire to pass the loneliness, and be able to play and have fun, how nice.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you have such thoughts, it proves that you may not be fated.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, the two of you have only met twice, and you don't really understand each other, you don't really get in touch, you don't experience the bits and pieces of life together, you won't deeply understand whether this person can come together with you. What you are currently showing each other is the good side, it is difficult to meet each other, how can there be a chance of friction, and couples who really walk together are after running in with each other, there is a tacit understanding, this run-in process is often very difficult, very painful, and many people lose to this process. At the age of 19, there are many people you will meet in the future, and this person, how much you know about him, and whether you are suitable or not, are unknown.

    If you are not willing to give up, you can try to get along first, see if you can face the problem together, solve the problem, and see if he is the real one you are. If you don't feel like it's right for you, cut through the mess and be good to each other, and don't miss the beautiful scenery at the next stop.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Sometimes it's so realistic, long-distance relationships, you have to overcome these problems that you don't have. There is less contact now, but make sure that your relationship has changed. If it doesn't change, just wait for him, but you have to endure the emptiness, loneliness and coldness.

    And he has the possibility of a change of heart, so weigh it carefully. If he is worthy of your waiting, it is worth waiting for him. Then just wait.

    Listen to the opinions of your classmates' parents. Otherwise, it will be divided, and the long pain is better than the short pain. There will be a lot of problems in the future, and then, find a reliable one.

    Find a new love.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you are so entangled now, so uncourageous to take on your own choices at that time, then I advise you to end this relationship. If you don't have a clear heart, how to insist on a virtual relationship. In the face of emotional choices, don't hesitate too much, don't procrastinate, drag it down, sooner or later it will drag away your happiness.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It doesn't matter if it's from Beijing or not! Let me tell you one thing, spiritual love is always beautiful! But the reality is very harsh.

    You should look at it realistically, and if you treat you well for half a year, you can consider going back to Anhui with him. Do you want to go with him after meeting twice? You're in too much of a hurry.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You're 19, you've only met your boyfriend twice, and you're on different sides, and your relationship can't stand the barrier of time and space, so you're only 19, change it.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Not the parties, no right to speak, think for yourself.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Hello naïve... What more can I say.

    Be realistic! Children.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love is sometimes blind, but your first clarity is whether he really loves him and whether he really loves you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Long pain is better than short pain, you know.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This impatient person is like this, what he loves does not love himself, what he does not love lingers, how can there be such a perfect thing, many women end up marrying someone they don't love.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    can't just match the eyes, but also have a compatible personality, otherwise they will be helpless to live together in the future.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Don't worry, you can't run if you want to.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    When one day you accidentally find that he is already by your side.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Take your time with this, find a man to relieve it first.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Fate cannot be forced. It's just that the right time hasn't come yet. When it arrives, all it takes is a reason to love him.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    This has to be fate, the person who loves you must be waiting for you to appear.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Be strong and always ready.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    A lot of people are here ... I'm going to take a look at the fun. By the way, the question of the owner of the top floor.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Be strong and ready for ten moments.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    This is natural, and it's better to have a shortage than an abundance!! But what suits you will definitely appear inadvertently!! I would like to adopt!!

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Don't be too picky, don't be too demanding, there will be.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Look at fate, take your time, try them one by one, and see if it suits your taste.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Let it be, maybe it'll come soon.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Yes, take your time and be friends.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    What's the hurry, fate has arrived, and you can't stop it.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    So what do you think you do?

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Your family is very disgusted with the military It's a big mistake My brother was a soldier, and after he got married, he didn't show affection with my sister-in-law in front of me Sweet and sweet If you really love him, you have to change your family's view of the soldier Or you will leave him In fact, soldiers are more fragile than ordinary people.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    I am a soldier, what's wrong with being a soldier, defending my family and country, leaving my family, and loving my people. You have no position, you ask yourself, do you really love him? If you love it very much, you won't take it to heart at all if you gossip about your uncle, and I feel cold for that comrade-in-arms.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    In fact, love is very simple, love is together, why care about what kind of profession they do? Even if it's a beggar? If both parties truly love each other, I believe that for the sake of their beloved ta, no matter how bad a person is, he will become a good person.

    If you hesitate, it means that your relationship has not yet reached the depth of Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu, and you care more about other people's fingers!

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    You have to think about whether they are against you and him, or against his family conditions and background, or other talents! The first thing is to know why your family is against you and what he is.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    Nonsense, what's wrong with being a soldier? My husband is a soldier's brother, and I'm still proud of it. I love being a soldier. My husband treats me very well, how can I deny that it's not good to be a soldier.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Want to ask if you really like him? If you really like it, go with your feelings. 先chu yi duan shi j

  70. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    Lao Tzu was a soldier, didn't you look down on us, wouldn't we still be able to find a wife? . .

  71. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    Some of those who serve in the army do not recognize themselves.

  72. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    No matter what the people in the family say, stand on your own side.

  73. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    It varies from person to person, and there are many good men who serve in the army.

  74. Anonymous users2023-12-02

    I think everyone's eyes are bright.

  75. Anonymous users2023-12-01

    A lot of people say that there is nothing good about being a soldier.

  76. Anonymous users2023-11-30

    What people will deceive people is not the profession that will deceive people, but the nature of people to decide.

  77. Anonymous users2023-11-29

    You are a woman with no position.

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