How to deal with financial problems in a relationship?

Work hard, a man has everything when he has money, you shouldn't be too old, right? Solve the girlfriend's problem first, since it's not enough, then there must not be much, set aside a part enough for your own food and shelter, and give the rest to your girlfriend, you say, although I don't earn much, but I'm willing to keep it all for you, you will be the future mistress of our family, start learning to manage money and manage me now. I believe that first of all, the girl will be moved, and secondly, you will feel that you have this trust in her and can't bear to spend it lavishly.

If it's a loser, you'll lose part of a month's salary, if you're sincere to you, you won't spend it indiscriminately, you will feel sorry for your hard money, and you will be restrained in dating in the future. Your problem is that there are more rich people than us, there is no need to show face, although the girls are realistic now, but you will also take her intimate care to heart, there is no need to be extravagant and wasteful.

Then reduce your expenses appropriately, such as starting with things like eating and shopping (but be careful not to reduce them suddenly), or you can plan for the future with your girlfriend and explain how to save money to achieve common ideals. I think if your girlfriend is reasonable, she will definitely support you and be frugal with you. Of course, men can't be too stingy when talking about friends, and it's best to live within their means.

It's fair to be in love, how can two people always spend one person's money when they're together. When the two of you are together, talk about these issues peacefully、I don't think she would be angry if she didn't value your money to be with you。 After all, everyone has unknown difficulties.

Two people together should understand each other.

The first method: create a joint account.

Many times, boys seem to have the responsibility to pay more money, which is not only the general requirement of men in the real society, but also a large part of the reason is due to the men's own face-loving mentality. But regardless of the man's conditions, he should not be the other party's ATM. Girls who want to fall in love are not so money-worshipping, and they also need to find a balance in a relationship and maintain their dignity.

So in this case, it is perfectly appropriate to establish a joint account for both parties as a "love **". Couples can keep a certain percentage of their salary or savings in the same card, which they use every time they go on a date or travel. There is no need to worry about paying bills, and there is no embarrassment.

The second method: four or six open, "courtesy exchange".

People in love are blind, so they don't care if every expense is fair to both parties. The woman wants AA, but the man feels that AA has no face, and it is embarrassing to spend money with his girlfriend. Boys, such a girl is indeed a good girl, sensible and reasonable, and will help you save money.

And I want to say, girls, when you want to pursue fairness in love, you also have to take care of the subtle vanity of boys! It is recommended that couples spend four or six dollars in love, and they can "exchange gifts" for meals and shopping. What does it mean, that is, the economic contribution of both parties can be divided according to the economic ability, or the man is a little machismo, then the man.

Sixth, the woman four. In terms of dating, eating, festivals, and anniversaries gifts, you can come and go, for example, the woman gives the man a belt, the man gives the woman cosmetics, this time the man pays, and the woman pays next time.

The third way: you can talk about anything.

The two situations mentioned above are generally applicable to the early and middle stages of a relationship, and if it has reached the point of talking about marriage, it is a different situation. At this time, the couple already knows each other well and has begun to prepare for future married life, or is already in a state of cohabitation. On the economic side, after a period of getting along, both sides have found a model that suits them.

It doesn't matter if it's AA, or it's four or six or most of it is handed over to the woman (laughs), as long as it's discussed, you can deal with it in any way.

Love can be divided into three stages: first meeting, hot love, and ebb and flow. And some economic problems will inevitably occur in the process of love, dealing with it requires rationality and skill, the general principle is to convey affection, do what you can, and the specific distribution can be followed in three stages:

1.At first sight, the value of a small gift to express your heart is controlled within one-third of your monthly income. 2.

Love, the inevitable dating, shopping, travel, anniversary gifts and expenses and other expenses, control within 1-3 times of income. 3.The ebb and flow of the tide is nothing more than two results:

Entering marriage and going their separate ways, marriage is naturally the joint income and expenditure of the husband and wife; Try not to have any more financial interactions after going your separate ways, especially after starting a new relationship or marriage.

Of course, there are also couples who are currently in school, I wish you all the time together, don't quarrel, don't get angry, don't get caught by the teacher, and don't admit it if you are caught!

If both of them are still studying without a job, then they should be even more cautious. As a girl, after the boy has paid many times, you can't just keep paying by the man, which will appear to be very insincere. You can "pay back" part of the money back in the form of gifts or meals at the right time, and then discuss that two people can AA, so as not to cause financial embarrassment for the other party.

I think that if you say AA, the feelings will fade, so it's better to invite him to eat, and next time he invites you to eat. In this way, there is another reason to eat together, and the relationship is better.

Because it is in love, the outcome of this relationship is still unclear, so it is necessary to deal with financial problems - to avoid unnecessary disputes in the future.

In love, in terms of economy, follow the principle of courtesy, don't think about taking advantage of the man, and don't be too picky.

Basically, it's normal to go out to eat together and the man pays. Gifts on holidays and anniversaries belong to both parties, the man gives the woman a gift, and the woman also gives the man a gift.

During the relationship, don't have a large amount of financial dealings, don't borrow money from the other party, and don't accept the other party to borrow money from you.

Remember, don't have a problem borrowing money with your partner.

Basically, a relatively balanced relationship can be maintained in terms of money, and both parties know how to pay in a timely and appropriate manner, and will not just pay unilaterally. You are responsible for your own living expenses and personal belongings, and you are responsible for your joint dating expenses.

In fact, the financial problem in love is not the biggest problem, but whether he loves you or not is the most important. There is such a saying: a person who is willing to spend money for you may not love you much, but a person who is not even willing to spend money for you certainly does not love you.

This sentence is not unreasonable, how can you not spend money for each other when you fall in love?

Love is not long or short, but the truth is just love, money and foreign things, not resentful of food, and I hope that all lovers will become good fruits.

Two people in love will naturally spend more than usual, this is because of the result of the love between the two parties in love, hoping to pay more for each other. In this case, if the monthly wages of both parties are relatively stable, there will be no major economic problems; If the monthly salary is relatively small and not fixed, it is easy to bring heavy economic pressure to both parties, resulting in various conflicts and even emotional breakdown.

1. People in love spend a lot.

Couples who are immersed in love often want to give each other good things, want each other to feel that they are loyal to their feelings and are willing to give a lot. But this often incurs some unnecessary expenses. For example, it is not practical to send flowers for the sake of romance during the holidays, although the flowers are beautiful but cannot be preserved for a long time, and the beautiful and delicate flowers will eventually wither and be discarded, which will increase the workload of the cleaning workers, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Therefore, how to manage money in love is also a knowledge that young people should master. Because the financial pressure to face after marriage will be even greater, how to solve financial problems when you are in love can also lay the foundation for the family's financial management after marriage.

2. Management of the money of both parties.

There are many couples, both parties' money is kept by the woman, and the man must get the consent of his girlfriend to spend some pocket money, which makes a joke that the boy hides private money everywhere, which is unreasonable and disrespectful to the boyfriend. In the love stage, the economy should be relatively independent, because there is no family, the property of both parties belongs to personal property, according to the terms of the law, personal property is not allowed to be violated, and couples do not have the right to use money for each other. So, no matter how expensive a gift you buy for the other person, it's just a gratuitous and voluntary act, and don't expect the other person to pay it back.

There was once a couple in love, the man gave the woman an expensive necklace, and later because of the long-term relationship, the woman found that the two parties were not suitable and asked to break up, and the man wanted to get the necklace back, the woman refused to return it, and finally the man sued the woman in court. It could have been a good gathering and dispersing, but because the economic problems were not properly handled, a stalemate was created. Therefore, it is recommended that couples should adopt the AA system, but it is not necessary to be too rational, more important is the sense of responsibility of the two people, and both parties have financial ability, so that there will be no situation where the man supports the woman or the woman supports the man, unless the economic ability of one party is particularly high, otherwise, the person who makes money in the long run will always feel tired, and no matter how strong the feelings will be worn out by the trivial things in life.

3. Think from the other side's point of view.

Girls often have to buy some expensive clothes, shoes, bags, and very luxurious cosmetics, which cost more than boys, causing boys to be dissatisfied. There are some guys who think that girlfriends should save money in this area, but girls tend to think that cosmetics and other things are essential for girls and think that their boyfriends are picking on the door. The disagreement between the two on economic issues turned into contradictions and quarrels.

If you want to solve the problem, you should think more about each other when you are in love, think more about each other's difficulties, once there is a contradiction in the economy, you should reflect more on your own mistakes, do not quarrel, and should coordinate calmly, so as to solve the problem from the source.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, when in real time, people are mostly controlled by the love hormone "Benpamine", and they don't look for each other's shortcomings, nor do they care about the interests of each other. Therefore, both parties often do not consider economic issues, and only when the emotional foundation of both parties is established and stable, do they begin to consider the gains and losses of both parties and the economic disputes that may arise after marriage. At this time, people will use various forms to distinguish or prove their belongings.

Originally, in accordance with the legislative spirit of the Marriage Law, out of the protection of the rights and interests of both parties to the marriage, the property before marriage belongs to the individual, and the property during the existence of the marriage relationship is shared by everyone. However, most people are disgusted or disagree with the "AA system" and "property notarization". The reason for these people is often "everyone has been handed over to you, and you are still reluctant to pay that money?"

This may sound reasonable, but the world is unpredictable, and too many marital disputes affect the cognition of both parties to the marriage, and it also shows the contradictions caused by the failure to distinguish between the property of both parties.

Therefore, the economic problems during the relationship should be treated differently, on the premise that both parties are willing to accept it, otherwise, even the relationship will not be saved, and it is superfluous to talk about the economics of love.

During the love period, the two people try not to have a big economic involvement, it doesn't matter if the man spends a little more, don't worry too much, before the marriage is discussed, financially you are yours, I am mine.

The relevant provisions of the gift contract are generally applicable to economic disputes during the relationship, and the gift of property during the relationship is completed once it is delivered, and generally cannot be revoked. If a man and a woman jointly purchase a car or real estate during a relationship, disputes shall be handled in accordance with the relevant provisions of general joint ownership.

Dealing with the financial situation in a relationship, this depends on the individual's situation, some people divide the money very much in a relationship, some people may not care so much, if you don't care so much, in fact, it is okay to give gifts to each other.

In love, I think the economy should belong to the management of both parties, because this can not only enable the economy to spend freely, but also to the other party in love casually and occasionally, and occasionally to spend freely, to give a surprise and so on.

The economies of the two sides should be as independent as possible from each other.

Of course, relatively speaking, the man has to be more.

In love, you should spend appropriately, and the money you should consume must not be saved, but you should be cautious if it is too much, because this is not *** for yourself, and you must be able to spend money.

In love, I think the economy of two people should be relatively independent, and the expenses incurred in dating or dating still need to be AA system.

It's better to separate a little, don't have a high amount of economic disputes, and do their own good work, after all, they are in love, and no one's money is blown by the wind.

If it is only a small amount of money, the two of you can negotiate with each other, if the amount involved is too large, and the opinions of both parties are not unanimous, then find an outsider to help resolve the dispute.

If you are not sure whether you can get married in the future, it is not recommended to share the economy, and girls should try not to spend boys' money, if you are sure that you will get married in the future, you can discuss with each other and find a common idea.