What should I do if I always want to push others farther and farther away when I fall in love?

You should change your mentality, don't resist the kindness of others, try to accept each other, try to love and be loved, I want to push people away.

You have to try to accept the other person, get to know the other person, and then you can do something meaningful with the other person, go on regular dates and say something about yourself.

At this time, you must overcome your own psychological barriers, don't always push others farther and farther, make people have a sense of distance, and dare not approach you, so you can't find your true love.

Why do you love each other too much, but in the end you will push each other farther and farther, the reason is just because, you love each other too much, you are not fully sure of each other, you always feel that the other party does not belong to you completely, you always feel that you are not the only one in the other party's heart, you always want to occupy the other party's heart, you always want the other party to love you like each other, you keep asking the other party if they love you, you want to get a response every time, you ask countless times a day, but whenever the other party does not answer I love you once, You'll start to wonder if the other person has changed their mind.

You make yourself suspicious because you want more, you want more, so you hate to live in the other person's heart, your love makes the other person feel breathless, your love makes the other person feel suffocated, so the other party wants to stay away from you.

You will find that when you love someone too much, the other party does not reply to your message in seconds, you will think about what the other party is doing, you start to think nonsense, and then keep sending messages to **, the other party explains to you, you will also think you are still suspicious, you always want the other party to love you according to your vision, if the other party can't do it, you will begin to doubt his love for you again, your doubts about gains and losses, will eventually make the other party feel very tired and tired.

Sometimes love can't be too hard, too hard will make people afraid of getting too close to you, and will make people afraid of being loved by you, because your love can no longer give the other party happiness, and all you give the other party is a feeling of suffocation. Love should be sweet, sometimes love each other at the same time, but also love yourself, don't use all your strength to love each other, otherwise you may only be hurt.

Yes, because the more you love, the more you demand, when the other party can't achieve the kind of feelings you give, there will be a lot of disappointment, so there will be many contradictions!

Because this kind of love will make people feel very tired, as an independent individual, they don't want to be too strict with each other.

Because loving each other too much will make the other party burdensome, and even make the other party depressed and disgusted, so it will push people farther and farther away.