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Sometimes we always complain that the other person is not grateful for our sacrifices, does not cherish everything we give, but forgets that under our own feelings, we care, but under the other person's feelings, we may be controlled or even become a kind of occupation.

As children, we always hated our parents for cutting our wings short, but somehow, in the process of communication, we communicated with our lovers in the same way.

Everything must be done in moderation, and so is love.

There is a kind of love hurt, or a kind of self-discipline, called "I am good to you", and the last thing that returns is the desire to escape from the superficial tenderness. The kidnapping in the name of love, the sacrifice of self-touching, can not be exchanged for cherishing, but ignoring or even wanting to escape.

Love can't be forced, and sometimes you need to let it flow a little. If you are good enough and have the value to attract the other person, then no matter how many ups and downs and trials you encounter, you will never walk away. Giving the other person freedom and allowing yourself to make continuous progress is the key to stabilizing the relationship, rather than blindly moving yourself and thinking that it is good for your lover.

Giving each other freedom is not only about trusting each other, but also about self-confidence from the heart.

Because everything must have a degree, it should be done in moderation, love is the same, and then love can not be forced, sometimes you need to go with the flow a little, if you are good enough, with the value of attracting each other, then no matter how many ups and downs and tests you encounter, you will not be separated after all.

There is a degree to everything, it should be stopped in moderation, and the same is true for love, love is not 24-hour staring and strict guarding, love is more about equality and trust, because no one wants to lose their freedom, it will hinder your respective development, and will lead to the neglect and contempt of each other.

There are two reasons.

1.The lover doesn't love to the point, scratches the boots, and he can't screen what the loved one really needs, and he can't give it.

2.The loved one is more stubborn, only pays attention to his own psychological feelings, and cannot meet his psychological demands, and after a long time, he ignores the original intention of others (for his own good).

If you are not confident in yourself and are too demanding, you are always sorry for the other party and did not give the other party the best conditions. Generally, only first love is like this, or people who are too conceited and have low self-esteem.

will not be able to control the panic association, and the brain will make up how the other party does not like himself. For the sake of self-protection, I will express that I don't like you, I don't need you, and I'm not afraid of losing you.

In fact, it is the ability to reinterpret and feedback the behavior of others. When you're in a bad place, it's hard to keep relationships and intimacy in a positive cycle. Asking for help when there is a problem, treating a disease, acknowledging a vulnerability, and not giving back a means of defense will not solve the problem at all.

First of all, the three views are different, which is the most important one. No matter who loves whom, if the three views are roughly the same, they will not push further and further. The three views are different, and when dealing with a small matter, they will not "collude and join the same stream", and in the face of major events, they are even more distinct,-for-tat, and over time, there is only separation.

Love should be based on a common goal, you want to live a stable life, he wants to build a grand cause, you are not the same channel, this kind of love may be the closest when you first met, and the longer the time, the farther away.

It should be too easy to get it, thinking that everyone will treat her like this, and what is good to her will be seen by her as a manifestation of weakness.

Because I have never lost it, I don't cherish it. Or maybe it's too easy to get and doesn't feel precious.

Recognition is the last word. Men should learn to protect themselves.

It's normal to talk about love and push it farther and farther.

Love without a feeling of happiness is a routine.

Because I don't know how to cherish it, I'm still young.

It is indeed a very difficult thing to push your beloved farther and farther awayBut when we think about the consequences, we may think about it again, and only by doing so can neither of us have to be too embarrassed, so when this kind of thing happens, everyone has their own different opinions, and we have no right to obstruct it.

Self-protective psychology. And think rationally, do things, and pursue perfection, because you don't know if he likes you so much. Is he worth it?

You have to push it away again and again to see the truth. Find out if it's right for you. And in this way, the passive becomes the active.

Even more self-preservation, he will tell the other party that he doesn't like him and is quite indifferent. There was a voice in his heart that said: If he really likes it, he won't leave easily.

It's like someone else has taken a piece of flesh from themselves, and I have no blood**, but, after a long time, I suddenly thought about it, and felt that a feeling of discomfort in my heart was an indescribable and difficult to breathe. Rather than let you wither in my arms, I would rather you make mistakes and regret them, and let you fly to the world of dreams, leaving me alone to grieve.

I will be helpless in this relationship, I may look at you secretly, I will still chuckle when I hear your name, and I will still be used to looking for you in the crowd, but I will not take the initiative. I want to escape, I want to disappear in front of you, I think about taking the initiative, and taking the initiative doesn't seem to help, because I know that feelings are a matter of two people, and one person is like a joke, and no one will be pitiful, after all, I moved myself. In two days, I will know you for three years, and you will be addicted to staying up late, far away from you.

I used to think that even if the two hearts were separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, even if he had married her, they would be closely connected, I used to think that I would always be the one who knew him best, and I used to think that he would always leave a place for me in my heart, but when I experienced it myself, I realized how stupid and self-righteous I was! Originally, there is no eternity in this world, and people's hearts will change unconsciously. When I understand this, I feel that all the other person's behavior can be understood, but it is really a very painful process.

Everything has to get through by itself, in uneasiness, in waiting, in speculation. Sadness may really just be too much I thought.

I haven't remembered it for a long time, maybe I went to medical school, so I remembered the days when I used to routinely him and went around the campus together, and I suddenly recalled my heart throbbing at the beginning. I dreamed of a chance encounter in the cafeteria, how could I let go of this opportunity to meet, did I want to save contact again? There are all kinds of new acquaintances in this cafeteria, and you can hear their voices, I'm so afraid of being gossiped, I feel so embarrassed in my dreams, and later, there is a pretty beautiful girl who found him, and he is quite intimate, and I didn't ask who it was, I don't think I dare to ask, and I suddenly feel so sad in my heart, didn't I say that it has nothing to do with me anymore?

I will be reluctant, I will want to try to do something, but I find that nothing will help, and getting farther and farther away is an unchangeable ending. Sometimes persuade yourself, let go, let go, no longer contact, this is good for everyone!

It is indeed a very difficult thing to push your beloved farther and farther awayBut when we think about the consequences, we may think about it again, and only by doing so can neither of us have to be too embarrassed, so when this kind of thing happens, everyone has their own different opinions, and we have no right to obstruct it.

I feel very uncomfortable, but I will be very helpless, because two people are really not suitable.

I will feel very painful in my heart, but I am helpless, because two people will really not be happy together.

Although I like each other, but two people being together will really make each other very painful, so I can only do this, and I am still very sad in my heart.

If you like someone but can't be together, you must feel very uncomfortable in your heart. In love, if you like one, you will be brave together, and if you have a problem, you will speak out and solve it together.

I feel very painful in my heart, but there is no other way, because it is really difficult for two people to be together, and for the happiness of each other, there is only to do this.

I feel stupid, I don't know how to start, I don't understand the other person's thoughts, I am very anxious in my heart, and I hope that the other person can be better to me.

The heart-rending feeling, love but not is a particularly uncomfortable feeling, because I care, I start to care, because I want to be loved, I start to make trouble unreasonably, and then in exchange for us is not suitable.

Of course, it was very painful, probably knowing that it would be fruitless, so reason prevailed over emotion, and I had to force myself to push the person I liked farther and farther.

It should be like a knife, and it will also regret not being at the beginning, starting to feel guilty from the bottom of my heart, beginning to blame myself, regretting, and I can't wait to bang my head against the wall and scold myself!

It's a particularly helpless feeling, you like someone, but for various reasons, you push her farther and farther, and finally you can't love. It's a very uncomfortable, very helpless feeling.

I think it's a very frustrating feeling of helplessness because it's not what I wanted.

Like someone, but push him farther and farther, it should be regarded as a sad thing, I will be very painful, and I will also have a sense of powerlessness.

The more you care about your physical health and emotions, because you want the other person to be healthy and happy every day, and you don't want the other person to be hurt a little.

Often the more you love someone, the more you care. You will find that you will care whether he loves you or not, whether he will leave you one day or even fall in love with someone else, the deeper you love, the more you will slowly feel insecure. So love someone in moderation.

The more he cares about his ex. Because the more you love someone, the more you want to possess and know everything about them, so you will care a lot about the past.

Love has no distance! Only love and no love! If you love, it's zero distance, if you don't love, you don't know how far away!