It is said that only people who can cry can eat sugar, is this really the case?

To put it simply, if you eat sugar, you won't cry immediately. The way adults coax children, sugar was a delicious food in the past 80s. In what era, how happy it is to want to eat sugar.

There are a few children in the family, one crying and two troubles, parents buy you candy to eat, and the children don't cry immediately. I remember when I was young, there were seven sisters, just a male child, in the rural family of the 60-70s, I don't know if my parents have the conditions to spoil me, whether it is a New Year or a festival, what good food is used seems to be mine, and if I am not careful, I will be coquettish and cute and want to keep it for myself.

<>I have two babies in my family, and the personalities of Dabao and Erbao are completely different. Dabao has a tough personality and never speaks softly. I remember a few days after I started kindergarten, I went to pick her up from school, and the teacher told me that your child is so thoughtful, she woke up from a nap at noon, and put her shoes on backwards, and the teacher reminded her, "Your shoes are worn backwards."

I don't think so, I can cry only on what occasions, I'm a very strong person, I've lived a hard life since I was a child, I never cry. <>

Personally, I think this question is one-sided, children like to eat sugar, because sugar is sweet, children like it, not all children love to cry. Crying children have candy to eat, which is generally used to describe the phenomenon in business management and the workplace. Especially in state-owned enterprises, whether things can be done or not, and whether they do well or not is not the most important.

The important thing is not to make obvious mistakes, not to stab the big Louzi, everything is safe and stable, and it is good to follow the steps.

As for me, I often feel that I am very wronged, but I don't even cry, I hide in a corner by myself, and I don't see anyone. So, not to mention that there is something to eat and play, there is no one to coax it. If there are two children, one loves to cry and make trouble, and the other is quiet and obedient, the candy in the hands of the parents will naturally coax the crying child and ignore the quiet child, anyway, she is well-behaved.

I think this should be a universal law, human nature is like this, crying children make people feel pity and have to sympathize.

That's true. People who can cry are more likely to get the attention and sympathy of others, and silence means that you don't need to, and naturally others will not take the initiative to care about your emotions, your needs.

It really is. Because a person who loves to cry will provoke a sense of protection in others. So if you cry, all your requests will be granted. Slowly, the phenomenon of crying people eating candy has formed.

It's really like this, because only people who can cry know that you are not having a good time, and others will sympathize with you.

It's like this, only people who love to cry will have people distressed, someone coaxes, and they know what they do to make others stand on their side, and they can better understand the hearts of others, so that others will love him.

No, sometimes crying can cause others to be disgusted, but it is undeniable that crying does cause others to feel pity.

Yes, definitely. People who can cry will be coquettish, and women who can be coquettish are the best. Sometimes being coquettish is the best way to resolve conflicts.

Not really. This is only applicable to a certain extent. Elsewhere there will be no candy to eat.

That's right. People who can express their emotions get a better chance. If it's obscurity, there's no chance.

That's right, because this belongs to coquettishness, and it's not unreasonable to say that a coquettish woman is the best, and she has to be coquettish.

Yes, sometimes you still need to say some of your emotions so that others can understand your needs.

In the past, there was always a rumor in the space, "The crying child has candy to eat, so sensible, everyone thinks you are indestructible" almost the meaning, in fact, I have formed a subconscious of this sentence, the child who will cry, that is, the child who will be spoiled, usually because he can't get what he wants, he will cry to make his parents feel distressed and then get what he wants, and let his mother buy toys. The other is a more sensible child, who always does not cry or make trouble to upset his family or makes his family unhappy by being vexatious, so the family may not understand what he wants, or think he does not want it.

When we say "will cry", the point is not "crying", but "will". Why is it said that crying children have candy to eat, because crying is a kind of appeal, to show the other person your needs. This is the charm of communication, first of all, many times it is not that the other party is unwilling to give you, but that you don't say that he doesn't know, and he can't give you more; Second, a good way of appealing can satisfy both the giver and the recipient.

A woman with a bad temper is spoiled. For to those who spoil them, they are cute enough and weak enough that the act of protecting them will in itself bring spiritual satisfaction to the giver. But on the contrary, blindly having a bad temper goes beyond the principle of moderation, believe me, this is a temptation and consideration of how deeply the other party loves you.

But now crying children have candy to eat has slowly become a social phenomenon, the most common is the service industry. Often, the unscrupulous customer can get more "sugar", because of the mutual distrust between merchants and consumers, which makes this situation more and more common. I also encountered this kind of thing a few days ago, the child who goes out to cry and the child who refrains from crying, it is always the former that impresses, and the former often gets instant rewards and rewards.

But I still insist that this is not right. I hope that the sensible children under this question, please continue your sensible and hard work, do what you think is right, wait patiently, maybe there will be a day when you will get a reward, and everyone will be happy; Maybe you can't wait for that day, with a clear conscience.

In the hearts of parents, sensible children seem to be so sensible all the time, and if they are so sensible at a young age, they will definitely bear a lot of pressure that does not belong to this age, which is the so-called "hardship". But if it is a child who often cries and is ignorant, adults will definitely try their best to make the child obedient, and a similar method of giving candy must be indispensable, which will also cause an unfair situation.

Because as the saying goes, you will cry that the child has candy, which means that such children are more willing to express their feelings and will be more spoiled by adults.

When the child is very young, he can't speak, only by crying to express himself, when he cries, the mother will know that he is hungry, and will feed him.

Because when the child is crying, the adults will be soft-hearted, if the child is cheated every time, tried and tested, then the adult will give the child sweetness every time, such as giving him candy to eat, this is a kind of saying.

Because the child cries, parents will give him something to eat in order not to cry when they get something, and generally parents will give their children candy, so there is this saying.

Crying children have candy because they can attract the attention of adults when they cry, and only when they are noticed by adults, can children's needs be met.

Because there are a lot of needs that need to be expressed to others, others will know your thoughts and meet your requirements, you don't say anything, others don't know what you want, so just like a child, they will cry, and parents will coax you and give you candy.

Crying children have candy to eat. In general, parents will pay more attention to some children who are less well-behaved. On the contrary, some well-behaved children will receive relatively little attention.

It is because when a child cries, it can attract the attention of adults, and only when adults notice it, the child's needs can be satisfied.

As the saying goes: "A crying child has candy to eat", there will be such a saying that the main reason is that when the child cries, the adult will take something to coax the child not to cry, so naturally there is this kind of talk.

Because when a child cries, parents will notice him, they will hear his appeals, and they will naturally satisfy him sometimes, so there will be this saying.

Human instinct is to care for the weak, the child feels that as long as he cries, he will have sweetness, and the child's education is not very good, and then he will not cry The person who has been silently strong over there will bear more than this kind of coquettish person.

Because adults like to cry now, they don't like children to cry, as long as they cry, they will immediately tell him, if you don't cry, what will happen to me, and over time, the child will use crying to achieve his own goals.

Because most people think that the child is crying because he has been wronged, they want to comfort him. And the sensible child will be felt by the adults that the incident has no big impact, and his child does not have emotional waves.

The reason why it is said that a crying child has candy to eat means that when a child cries, adults may use candy to coax her, and adults may not pay attention to the child who does not cry.

Because sometimes adults are not very clear about the needs of children, only when the child cries and expresses it, adults will notice that she needs this thing.

Because crying children attract the attention of parents, and in order to calm the child's emotions, some benefits are often given.

Crying children don't necessarily have candy to eat, but it's true that crying children are more likely to attract attention.

Because these children are very knowledgeable about current affairs, and they can make corresponding choices according to the form, there is such a saying.

That is, as long as the child cries, the adult will meet their request.

Because sometimes by saying how you feel, you can still let others understand your feelings, so they will also care about you.

For people who can cry to eat candy, I think it's a kind of victim psychology. Because they will always put themselves in the weak place and make others feel weaker and pitiful, so more people will sympathize with them. So this is actually a kind of victim psychology.

In fact, in our daily life, we should often meet this kind of person, because the world is full of wonders, and everyone's personality is also different, so there will be many people who will have this kind of psychological performance.

This kind of psychology is very easy to manifest in children, especially in children. Because children are not well taught by their parents when they are young, I think it will be easy for them to develop such a character. Because when children are young, they don't know much about many things, and it is also the time when parents need to guide them well.

Especially when children make mistakes, when they make mistakes, they will be very afraid, and when parents ask, some children will not dare to tell the truth because they are afraid, they will want to cry, because children feel that after they cry, parents will not ignore them, so they will forget about it, and will come to coax them. So when they encounter something, they will cry all the time, and then some parents will feel sorry for their children. So over time, the children will gradually learn that as long as they cry after making a mistake, the parents will not continue to ask.

So many children will develop such bad habits. Thus escaping some facts. So this is what we often say that crying children are the ones who have candy to eat, and that's the reason.

In fact, I think this sentence has always been a derogatory term, because after the child cries, this matter is not resolved, but will further encourage the child's anger. So that children will develop such a habit, after encountering things, they will not think of solutions, but use crying to solve them. We all know that crying won't solve the problem, so when your children are young, you must correct this bad habit for them.

If you keep calm all the time, others will think that you are very strong, and they will not take the initiative to think of you.

It's not anything in my heart, it may depend on who is unhappy, or embarrassed, you will also be annoyed, but you still have to coax, so sometimes you give some sugar