What are the benefits of being a respected parent?

It is very important for parents to respect each other and agree that their children are individuals. Parents will subconsciously think that their children are an extension or accessory of their parents' lives. Because children are too weak and need to rely on their parents, some parents will think that their children are their subordinates in order to be independent.

Show your abilities and let your parents know that you have grown up. If your parents don't respect you, it's useless to guide you. The only thing you can do is to show yourself and make him realize that the child has grown up.

There is definitely an impact. If your child is not respected from an early age, he will lack one very important thing, and that is self-confidence. You insult your child in public, beat your child in public, expose your child's shortcomings in public, and laugh at your child in public.

These common Chinese parental behaviors seem inconspicuous, and this is the consensus of society. It is true that modesty has always been a traditional virtue in our country, but do not ignore it. Children need kindness and strength.

Letting a child lose his dignity in front of others, or speaking modestly for the sake of so-called modesty, or even sometimes belittling a child, has a great negative impact on the child's heart. Maybe everyone is just joking, but the child doesn't think so. He doesn't have a deep involvement in the world, so there are a lot of things he can't understand.

Why do my parents always talk about my shortcomings in front of others, which makes me very shameful? When you meet these people, you will remember that you know what you are doing and dare not look up, which is a lack of self-confidence. Many times, your positive encouragement to your child is more effective than hitting him.

The blow only increases the burden on the heart and only exerts pressure. Too much stress can lead to heart disease. Do you think it works?

This one has a big impact!

You should be in a low mood right now, I understand that. You can't change them. Adoptive parents can be worthy of themselves.

Don't worry about others. We can't stand someone else's mouth. We've done everything we had to do.

It is enough to live up to our hearts. Everyone has been married for so long, take good care of your home, live well, happiness is the most important thing, I wish you happiness

So when my son talks about his grandmother in the future, I will be proud of him. In fact, the experience of raising a child is similar to that of a teacher teaching a student. Both are teaching and learning.

I really want my son to respect me, not because I'm related to his father's blood. It's because of my behavior that he respects. My actions are worthy of being his father.

It will make your child very polite and respectful of others, and it will also make your child grow up with a self-motivated heart, and want to become a respected person like his parents in the future, and the children who grow up in this environment will grow up to be useful to society in the future.

Respectable parents are certainly good at educating their children. Parents are role models for children, children are born and don't understand anything, they are all in the process of growing up, watching the behavior and actions of adults and slowly learning. Therefore, having a respectable parent will also make the child sensible, confident, full of love, behave in a way that is loved by people, and respected by others when he grows up.

The advantage to the child is that he can also learn to respect people, he will follow the example of his parents and be strict with himself, which is very beneficial to the child's future development.

Introduction: In life, as a parent, you must know how to respect your children, when you respect your children, your children will also respect you, so a harmonious parent-child relationship is cultivated in this way. Let's find out.

In daily life, it is difficult for parents to respect their children, because parents always feel that they are superior to their children, and they have to manage their children and make them obey their own arrangements. But you don't know that children are also independent individuals and need the respect of their parents, and only when parents fully respect their children can children respect their parents. So in normal times, parents should not only do the responsibility of raising children, but also to cultivate children, at this time education should also be based on the premise of respect, and to consider the child's thoughts, when the child's ideas, get the respect of the parents, parents are very happy to respect the child, the child also likes the parents, and likes to communicate with the parents.

Therefore, it is very important for the child to have some of his own ideas, or his own opinions, because the child is an independent individual, and parents should not interfere with the child's thoughts.

Many parents let their children listen to themselves because their children are relatively young, or they think that their children do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and never consider their children's opinions, which is not right, so they should understand their children in daily life, communicate more with their children, and be friends with girls. In this way, your child and you will get along more harmoniously, and there is no possibility of some rebellious situations, people know that when the child enters puberty, the rebellious period of emotions is difficult to control, at this time if the parents have a good parent-child relationship with the child, everything will be solved.

Respecting your child as a parent can make your child more confident. Respecting children also makes children love life more. Respecting children can also make children more self-loving! Children who grow up with Zen socks under the respect of their parents will have more choices, and they will be more assertive!

The child will be very confident, the child will be very confident, the child will respect others, will have a good character, the communication skills will be stronger, the child will also be very Hail Kai in the source of the mountain sense of responsibility, the child will be very filial to the parents.

The advantage is that it will make the child's personality become very good, it will make the child very polite, it will also make the child become very respectful of others, it will make the child's manuscript more promising, and it will make the child very smart and clear.

But Wang Nian can bring a lot of benefits to children, because in this way, children can become more sleepy and self-confident, can make children have a good future, and can promote children's growth and progress.

Parents should keep their promises with their children because they need to be respected by their children and set a good example for them.

Parents are the best teachers for their children.

When it comes to education, parents don't necessarily need to be knowledgeable, but they must have a broad vision.

Mother-in-law's tattoo" is a good example of education.

When faced with her son's choice to join the army, the mother-in-law did not sigh with sadness like ordinary mothers when facing their son's army, and she did not shed tears to stop her.

Instead, he praised Yue Fei's idea of serving the country, and personally tattooed the words "Jingyuan Ruler Leaks Loyalty to the Country" on his son's back.

If there is no mother-in-law with such an open-minded vision, it is difficult to have a national hero Yue Fei in history who is "wise and brave and talented, Gu Liang will not be able to pass".

As children grow up and their knowledge expands, their understanding of the world and the people, things and things around them will become clearer and clearer.

When the child's level of knowledge exceeds that of the parent, the authority that the parent has established in the child's heart through basic knowledge in the early stage of the child's growth has been shaken.

At this time, if the words and deeds of parents reveal ignorance and ignorance, then in the child's heart, the authority of the parent is likely to collapse in a certain moment through a small matter.

However, if parents can maintain open-minded and rational thoughts, words and deeds, and can guide their children in the general direction, then the child's respect for you will still be very strong.

Understand him, and when you encounter something, don't complain, and help find a way.

The philosopher John Locke famously said that the less parents publicize their children's faults, the more their children value their own reputation, and therefore the more careful they are to defend their praise. If you declare their faults in public and make them embarrassed, they will be disappointed and there will be no means to punish them.

But some parents always feel that having outsiders in the world is a good time to educate. Even I sometimes feel that it should be. Because there is an old saying about disturbance or auspiciousness:

Teach your son in front of you and teach your wife behind your back. However, public criticism does not allow the child to reflect on himself, but rather strips him of his trust in his family and confidence in the future. Everyone is born to care about their own reputation and dignity, and so do we, and so do our children.

What can we do when a child's behavior is degrading to your face?

1.Find out why.

The process of a child's growth is also a process of understanding the world and exploring the unknown. He will have his own ideas about everything he does, so only by finding the reason can we prescribe the right medicine and education can be targeted.

2.Individual education.

No matter what the situation, parents should not lose face to their children in front of outsiders, including their siblings. The basic principle of education is to maintain the child's self-esteem and respect the child's personality.

Childhood is the time when a child's self-esteem is gradually formed. Children who are often hit by their parents in front of others have a hard time having self-confidence, and it often takes a long time for the destroyed confidence to be restored.

3.Give the child steps.

Children's bodies are small, but their souls and personalities are not small. Sometimes, children's stubbornness and rebellion are not because they don't understand reason, but because they haven't found the right step. So, you might as well give them steps, and they will naturally find the right direction.

There is a topic on Zhihu: It only takes seven steps to destroy a child, and one of them is to make a fool of the child in public.

Educator Sukhomlinsky said: Children's dignity is the most sensitive corner of the human soul, and protecting children's self-esteem is the potential strength to protect children. If self-esteem is crushed, it can become a scar that will not heal.

In fact, children who want to save face are more sensible, know right and wrong, and pursue progress.

As parents, the recognition and affirmation we give to our children will allow them to transform the face of "wanting to be respected by others" into "self-love, self-esteem, and self-respect", and overcome obstacles all the way to the future. May parents and children grow together.

Humility"Bring damage.

Hit your child's self-confidence.

For children, there is nothing they want to do more than prove their abilities in front of their parents, because their parents' affirmation is their best confidence**. If parents deny their children's abilities in front of their children, it is undoubtedly a heavy blow to their children's self-confidence.

Parents are the mentors of their children, and every child wants to present a satisfactory answer to their parents. If the child feels that even his parents are denying him, then this is the same reason that the child is denied by the teacher in terms of learning, and the child will lose the confidence he should have in these areas and will not want to be exposed to these things again.

Influence your child's motivation.

In the child's view, the ability affirmed by others is the one he is most proud of, and this kind of praise can well improve the child's enthusiasm. But if the parents say it at this time"Humility"to preserve their communicative art, then it is undoubtedly a basin of cold water on the child.

Under the influence of these words of parents, it will be difficult for children to become interested in these things anymore. In the eyes of the child, he has put in so much effort, and in the end he is still not excellent in the eyes of his parents, so why should he toss like this? Under the influence of this kind of thinking, the child's motivation will be greatly damaged.

Cause conflicts between parents and children.

Parents deny their abilities in front of outsiders, such a situation is a heavy blow to the child, and the child is easy to have bad emotions because of it. On the other hand, parents believe that their self-humility is purely due to social needs, so they cannot understand why their children are dissatisfied and upset.

In this way, two rational ideas will only lead to one result, and the gap is that the relationship between parents and children has broken down. The parent-child relationship is an important guarantee for the normal functioning of a family, and once there is a crack in the parent-child relationship, the parent's teaching of the child may be ignored or cause the child to resist.

Therefore, the social way that can really guide and encourage children should be a generous acknowledgment of ability. So, how can parents do this well?

What is the effect of being too modest on a child's birth?

When many parents hear others praise their children, they feel embarrassed and remorseful, so they say overly modest things against their will. In doing so, Yincha not only ignores the child's feelings and discourages him, but also makes the child sad, sad, and confused.

Therefore, do not be humble against the facts, and appropriate encouragement is more conducive to the growth of children. Parents who only consider their own feelings, regardless of their children's feelings and are not modest, will pour a basin of water on their children's fiery hearts and extinguish their children's self-confidence.

Excessive humility on the part of parents can lead to timidity, cowardice, and low self-esteem in their children. It can also affect your child's self-confidence.