What exactly are parents sending their children to school for?

There is a question that has been bothering many people at the moment, that is, what is the meaning of going to school? What exactly are parents sending their children to school for? For this question, many people have their own opinions, in their opinion, sent to school must be to learn knowledge, step by step in the process of learning to grow, but this answer is too simple, so that most people can not agree.

So what is the point of parents sending their children to school? Let's take a look at it together.

In my personal opinion, the main reasons for parents to send their children to school are as follows:

First of all, learning in school is a process that every child should go through, for children, school is a new environment relative to the family, in this environment will meet new classmates and teachers, in the process of getting along with them can deepen children's understanding of society, and in the process of school learning, children can learn a variety of knowledge, which is conducive to deepening their understanding of the world and helping them establish their own world view and outlook on life.

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In addition, school is a secondary growth process for children, where children can learn about family education.

experience the world in the process of getting along with other students.

Establish your own interpersonal circle and gain a different emotional experience. For every child, the emotional world cognition needs to be developed by themselves, and the school is the best melting pot, in this environment, students have a lot of space for themselves, can self-establish their own personal cognition, help them enrich their inner world, sharpen their personal will.

In addition, for children, school is the first step of their personal autonomy, is the first step for them to contact the world, without the careful care of parents, they must learn to face life on their own, which is conducive to exercising children's autonomy and improving their sense of autonomy.

Let children receive a more systematic education, let children learn more knowledge, let children make more friends, go to school can correctly cultivate children's three views, so that children's inner world is richer.

Parents send their children to school so that they can absorb cultural knowledge, keep up with the pace of social development, and become useful people in society.

Parents send their children to school so that their children can learn some knowledge, improve their children, and let their children have a better development.

The practical reasons behind sending children to school accommodation, parents.

As we said earlier, no one wants to send their children to boarding school if conditions allow, but sometimes, reality forces parents to make such a choice.

After I got to know many parents around me, I found out that there are some common situations that are the actual reason why parents send their children to boarding schools.

First of all, there are too many children at home to manage it.

Since the opening of the second and third children, many families now have several children, and as the children grow up, there will be a lot of practical contradictions.

For example, no one will send the big ones, no one will take care of the small ones, and a parent will be overstretched to take care of a child, and it is really impossible to have one more.

Secondly, parents blame themselves for their limited education and inability to help their children with homework.

Some parents may have relatively average educational qualifications, so it is difficult to tutor their children in their homework, so parents feel that it is better to send their children to boarding school than to delay their children's studies.

At least if there is a learning problem, it can be solved in time.

Finally, parents are too busy with work to take care of their children.

This situation is the most common, especially now that many parents go out to work, work hard in big cities, and the children are taken care of by the elderly, but as the elderly get older and older, they are bound to be physically and mentally exhausted after a long time, so they can only send their children to boarding schools.

So under these helpless practical reasons, did the parents who sent their children to boarding school regret it later?

Because parents love their children. Wishing for a son to become a Chan is a messy idea for all parents. Whether the child wants it or not, he hopes that his child will be prosperous and prosperous in the future.

However, the results of the education search bureau or the children's own efforts are different, so the children recruited are also different.

I hope that the child can start higher. And learning in a good environment will also promote learning progress.

Why do parents always want to send their children to the school that disperses early? This is the universal existence of everyone, and they are willing to send their children to good schools and receive education from famous teachers.

1. The ultimate goal of parents to cultivate their children is to make their children happier and let them have enough ability, and then leave us.

2. Parents not only strive to send their children to prestigious schools, but also hope that their children can have excellent characteristics in young people: they have a solid basic knowledge of bent shirts, can focus for a long time, have a proper understanding of themselves, have plans for the future, and have better expression skills and cooperation skills. Eventually, children will be able to earn a living on their own, and even if they are separated from the protection of their families and parents, they will be able to work successfully and live happily.

3. We can't replace their experience of life, nor can we learn and live for our children, but we can use our warmest love for children to create a good environment for children to learn and live up.

1.A famous school is a well-known school with high social visibility and great influence, and has a certain irreplaceable position in the education industry, with a group of outstanding alumni. In layman's terms, everyone knows and wants to go.

General schools and prestigious schools generally refer to public schools, and private schools are not discussed in this article.

In fact, whether it is a university, a middle school, or a primary school, including kindergarten, there are a number of well-known schools. This is not surprising, all walks of life, there are such differences. Some are recognized by the people, some are officially certified, some are conventional, and some are historical.

Anyway, it is not easy to get into a famous school, and the housing in the school district of a famous school is sky-high, which is a fact that exists regardless of whether you admit it or not.

However, no matter how big a prestigious school is, no matter how large it is to expand its enrollment, the capacity is limited, and some children will definitely not be able to go to it. Parents will think about it, they all say that so-and-so school is famous, why, where is it famous, and it is better than other schools. If we don't go to a prestigious school for various reasons, is there a way to make up for it, so that our children don't lose at the starting line.

2.The source of students from prestigious schools is better, because it is not easy to enter, in the past, it was only the rich and powerful families who could enter, but now with the reform of educational equity, more and more students are enrolled nearby, and the difference in the source of students is slowly decreasing.

The good news is that the students are **. The comprehensive quality of parents is relatively higher, the knowledge level is high, the education is high, the education of children is more concerned, and there is a good accumulation in the pre-school.

Therefore, the comprehensive quality of children is also relatively higher.

3.Teachers. Because prestigious schools are famous, it is easier to attract relatively good teachers to work. It's not necessarily that the slim ruler is better treated, just like those who make TV, they all think of CCTV, not necessarily for money.

At the same time, prestigious schools also have a mature training system. The teachers have a team, and the old, middle and young people help them, and they grow faster in business.

4.Thinking. More open-minded and more receptive to new methods and information.

5.Manage. The management level of the leaders is higher, more humane, more scientific, more respectful of the professional authority of teachers, and less organization of activities that seem to be vigorous, but actually violate and do not adapt to the laws of education.

6.Teaching. The overall level of teaching is definitely higher than that of the general school. Good schools include: group teaching and research, large group teaching and research, semester evaluation, individual presentation, and other teaching and research activities.

The teaching and research atmosphere is strong, and the problems and experiences in teaching are exchanged and shared anytime and anywhere. Teachers, you chase after me, for fear of falling behind.

Such a teacher not only teaches students hard work, but also delves into teaching methods, so that students can learn skillfully and skillfully, saving time and efficiency.

Nowadays, there are many activities in public primary and secondary schools, but the difference is that some schools are active for the sake of activities, while famous schools are more for cultivating children's abilities and broadening children's horizons. For example, the Science and Technology Festival organizes a science and technology carnival, and students can participate in and experience many cutting-edge technologies for free without leaving home.

The ultimate goal is to make the child happier and have enough ability, and then leave us.

2. Parents not only strive to send their children to prestigious schools, but also hope that their children can have the excellent characteristics of Lu Qingren: have a solid basic knowledge, be able to focus for a long time, have a proper understanding of themselves, have a plan for the future, and have good expression skills and cooperation skills. Eventually, children will be able to earn a living on their own, and even if they are separated from their families and parents, they will be able to work successfully and live happily.

3. We can't replace them to experience all kinds of life, and Xun Qidi can't learn and live for children, but we can use our warmest love for children to create a good environment for children to learn and live and grow.

Have a good future for your children.

1. The role of the family is the premise, and a good family atmosphere has a great impact on the child, and also lays the foundation for the child to enter the school and study hard. Because it can be said that all the child's behavior comes from his parents, if his parents have a good influence on him, and the child also understands the importance of reading, then when he enters the school, it is very likely that he will study hard and develop good study habits. A good parent can also have a significant impact on the child's outlook on life, so family education is the premise of school education.

2. School education is a supplement Slowly, as the child grows up, he spends almost most of his time in school, and even the time spent at home will gradually decrease. Although parents are basically responsive to their children's needs at home, teachers will not be arrogant to their children at school. It can also be said that a large part of children's independence and self-care ability are learned in school.

When the child enters the school, he also learns to participate in the collective life, socialize with friends normally, and begin to become independent, which can be said to promote the development of the child in all aspects.

When the child is young, it is necessary to pay attention to the family education of the child, so that the child can cultivate a better personality. When they arrive at school, children should get rid of some of their bad habits in the family, learn to integrate into the group, learn some self-care skills, and get rid of squeamish habits. Combining family and school education is the only way to achieve long-term development.

It's like the two sides of a person's palm, and the palm and back of the palm are full of meat.

If you want to ask which side of the meat is thicker, I personally think it varies from person to person, some people are influenced by their families, and some people are more influenced by school. But if you have to rank one or two between them, then I personally think that the influence of family is greater, and the reasons are as follows:

First, the power of example is greater than education. As we all know, the power of parental example has a great impact on children, so why there are so many families is also this reason.

Second, if you go back to the source of history, human beings do not have schools, but families have always existed, so it can be said that the influence of the family runs through the entire history of mankind, but the school is not wild oranges.

Third, there have been many people who have grown up without school education, both now and in the past, so it can be judged that school education is not necessary in the process of personal growth, but only because the society and culture have reached a consensus on this, and people cannot avoid it.

Fourth, from a psychological point of view, children who lack family warmth from an early age will have major psychological problems, including a lack of security, which is easy to cause ADHD and autism.

Therefore, combined with the above reasons, I personally believe that the influence of family on personal growth is more important.