Why do mothers hurt their sons but not their daughters?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-23
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    To tell the truth, sons and daughters are all the flesh of their mother's body when the elders are hurting, and it is false that it doesn't hurt, but then again, there are a lot of mothers who hurt their sons, because the old man thinks that there is a son to prevent old age, and the times are different and men and women are equal, but the old man can't turn around for a while, in fact, the old man is counting on his daughter when he is old, which I hope you can understand the old man, after all, it is your own elders, I hope you can have an understanding heart, long live understanding|! Finally, I wish you a happy family.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This statement is false. Parents see their children as their responsibility and duty, regardless of gender, and should be treated with equal love and care.

    It is the nature of parents to love their children, and they should not be favored because of their gender. Parents love each child sincerely and equally, and they do not favor one over the other because of their gender. Parents want their children to be happy and successful, so they do their best to give each child the love and support they need to achieve their dreams.

    Therefore, the statement that "mothers love their sons but not their daughters" is incorrect, and mothers should treat their daughters and sons equally and equally.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In general, the emotions are the same, and the sons and daughters are the same.

    But there ,,, sometimes.

    There may be a preference for sons.

    This is one of them. The second is ,,, the same sex repels and the opposite sex attracts.

    Three views of the avenue.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe it's patriarchy.

    Why are many grandmothers reluctant to help their daughters take care of their babies? It's not patriarchal, the reasons are very realistic.

    The grandmothers don't help, and there are many practical hardships.

    Listen to what the grandmothers have to say.

    Grandma 1: "How can an elderly person not like children?" What's more, it was born to my own daughter, but it's really inconvenient!

    When I arrived at my daughter and son-in-law's house, I always had differences of opinion because of taking care of the children, and in the end, it was not my daughter who was caught in the middle. I also don't want to see my daughter embarrassed, they work harder, and it is better, and they will not affect the relationship between the young couple because of such and such things. ”

    Grandma 2: "If it's my son's child, I'll take care of it and live directly at my son's house." But the key is that the daughter I gave birth to, and the daughter who married out was someone else's.

    Even if you help watch the children, it's not convenient to always live over there! What's more, as soon as I go and see something wrong, I mean it or not, after all, my son-in-law is not a son, so it's better not to go. ”

    Grandma three: "I don't help with the baby, it's not because I'm lazy, but because I don't want my daughter to be gossiped!" Other people's houses are mother-in-law to help take care of the baby, even if I feel sorry for my daughter, I can't always go, otherwise everyone thinks that my daughter is not treated well in her mother-in-law's house! ”

    Yes, grandma feels sorry for her daughter, and knows that her daughter will suffer a lot of grievances when she marries into her husband's family, so she will give birth to some and help her daughter a little. But I have to say that grandma helps her daughter take care of the baby, and there are really a lot of hardships in her heart.

    1.Life is inconvenient.

    It is said that the daughter who marries out will spill the water, and once the daughter gets married, nominally speaking, she is someone else's family.

    And there is a difference between grandma and mother-in-law, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are together, it's nothing, but mother-in-law and son-in-law are always together, but both parties find it inconvenient.

    2.I don't want to embarrass my daughter because of disagreements.

    There are always many differences in the views of the older generation and young people, whether it is the concept of parenting or life, it is inevitable that there will be friction when getting along for a long time. In grandma's heart, her daughter is married after all, and they don't want their daughter to stay away because she has conflicts with her husband.

    3.Caring about my daughter.

    On the one hand, I hope that my daughter will live well, and on the other hand, I also hope that everyone will know that her daughter is valued in her in-law's family. In the traditional concept, the child belongs to the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law should take care of the child. If the grandmother does not take the baby, but lets the grandmother take it, it will inevitably lose the face of her daughter.

    In addition to the above points, there are many reasons why grandma rarely helps with the baby, most of which are out of the relationship and love for her daughter.

    I remember that my mother didn't help me take care of the baby because she was afraid that something would affect my relationship with my husband. I know that my mother wants to be there to take care of me more than my mother-in-law.

    But in the end, both mothers-in-law and mothers care about their children very much, and no matter who they are, they are not obliged to help us take care of our children. Therefore, if you really need the help of the elderly, there are some things that you must pay attention to.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Raising a son is to give everything, and raising a child is to have reservations. Women are not stupid.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have never seen this kind of person, the people around me love their daughter very much, especially a friend of mine, who is simply a woman lover, no matter what happens in the family, he will cling to his daughter first, and his son will stand aside.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have met fathers who don't even care for their own daughters, because this kind of father has no sense of responsibility, he is not responsible for the family.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I haven't seen it, but I've heard of a father who beats his daughter every day when he comes back from drinking, and I think it's incredible, why is there such a father, my father loves me very much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have never met a father who doesn't even care for his own daughter, because I think parents love their children very much, and they pour all their hope and love into their children.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, most fathers treat their daughters as lovers, daughters are fathers' little padded jackets, and that father doesn't love his daughter.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I haven't met it in reality, but I've seen in the news that there are real fathers who don't love their daughters. Such a person is not worthy of being a father.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello subject! For me, I haven't seen anyone else, and the people around me are fathers who love their children very much, except on TV.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've seen this kind of father who doesn't even hurt his own daughter, and he was my roommate in high school, and her father just beat him violently, and didn't love him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I do see fathers who don't even hurt their own daughters, and such people are really bad for their daughters.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. There are more people who only give birth but do not raise. I've seen that children are very young and don't buy milk powder, saying that it's good to drink porridge.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, there are still many such people, and they may not feel that their daughters are their own flesh and blood.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think there are actually a lot of people like this, and they may not think that their daughters are their own flesh and blood.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I haven't seen anyone like that, because my father was a very loving daughter, so I grew up loving, so I haven't seen it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I've seen it, I've seen mothers who don't even hurt their own daughters, but the children are the flesh that fell from her body.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is in the nature of all animals and humans to love their own children, which is based on the need for species not to become extinct.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I haven't seen it, but the fathers I see are very fond of their daughters, after all, they are close-fitting little padded jackets.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I've seen a father who doesn't even hurt himself, and he only cares about us.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've just heard of it and I've never seen it, so I think it's still a very small number of people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Parents who generally educate in our country are one who plays the red face and the other who plays the white face, that is, one who is good to the child and belongs to the type of coaxing the child, while the other is strict and harsh to the child.

    But they all have a common characteristic, that is, they love their children and want their children's future to be better, and they are generally gentle to their sons and their mothers are more demanding.

    In this way, the child grows up and feels that the mother cares more about the child, and the time with the father is less, so the son feels more sorry for the mother's <>

    For daughters, it's just the opposite, because ordinary daughters are more emotional, sensible early, and can understand that it is not easy for their fathers to make money.

    And generally daughters can talk to their fathers, and their fathers often have a supportive attitude, so for daughters who are more emotional and know how to be grateful, they feel more sorry for their father.

    Another point may be that when the child grows up, the father guides the daughter more and the mother guides the son more.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As the saying goes, the daughter is the father's intimate little padded jacket, which is a word that has been handed down from ancient times to the present, which is not bad at all.

    In today's society, a daughter is born in the family, and a father will love his daughter very much, and as a daughter's child, he will also be very dependent on his father, so he will also feel very sorry for his father, after all, love is mutual. <>

    There is also the reason why he doesn't want to mention it in his heart, that is, his daughter is also a woman, he can't experience the feeling of a man, he feels that it is not a big deal to be a woman, and he feels that his father is very great, so he admires it very much, and blindly feels sorry for his father regardless of the reason.

    And boys are just the opposite, he thinks that maternal love is very great, because he thinks that men are very simple and easy, and he feels that his mother does all the things in the family alone, and he doesn't have to worry about it himself, manages, and has a dependence on maternal love, so boys generally feel sorry for their mothers, not to mention that men have a desire to protect, he feels that his mother, as a woman, should be protected by himself. And the father is also a man, so he should stand up to the sky. He doesn't need his own protection and distress, he feels that men should do these things.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Others say that the daughter is the lover of the father's last life, and generally speaking, it may be a gender difference, the father loves the daughter more, the mother loves the son more, in fact, every parent loves their child very much. It's just that sometimes there is a difference in the amount of love for children. I have a family of four, and I always have a feeling that my mother loves my brother more than I love, many times my mother asks me to let him, and I also let me keep some good things for him, and my mother's practices will make me feel that she is partial.

    And I would sometimes make trouble in front of my mother, and my mother would always say, "You are both equally important to me, after all, the palms and backs of your hands are all meat." But I still have some resentment in my heart. Precisely, I have a very good relationship with my father, who has been working outside for a long time, and often communicates with me and asks me about my studies and physical condition, but he doesn't often fight my brother.

    It will also make me feel silently happy inside. Maybe every child also has some similar situations, so it is obvious that whoever is good to the child will love her more when he grows up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is derived from the subordinate position of women in the family, daughters marry others, and the children are grandchildren, and the children have to have other people's surnames, in the current one-child family, giving birth to a daughter is equivalent to losing the inheritance of the surname, which is a cruel reality caused by deep-rooted feudal thinking. The so-called preference for sons over daughters is actually a manifestation of selfishness in blood, thinking that loving a daughter is cheapening others.

    The above is an objective analysis, I am very disgusted with patriarchy, and I also hate the eccentricity of parents, no matter how many children, regardless of the gender of the child, they should be treated the same, not preference, on the contrary, out of love for women's weak nature, but should take more care of girls!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I can tell you clearly, there are no parents who don't love their children, those only children who are not loved by their parents, different people just love in different ways.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This kind of parents is the embodiment of extreme selfishness, even their children will be divided into three, six or nine, and so on, you will know how their character is, parents are unkind to their children, because it is not that I want to come, but they want to have a person who supports the elderly. If you give birth and find that you can't fulfill your expectations, you won't treat them well, what kind of human nature can you make, some people say that I give birth to you, raise you, nonsense, you give birth to you, and don't raise anyone. Who made you raw.

    There are two ways to deal with this kind of person, one is to give them some benefits so that they can get benefits, just like beating up villains. Second, it is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years, and return their current behavior to them in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Now there are many only children, and the situation you mentioned is there, but it is only partial.

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