My boyfriend always asks me about my ex, do you like it or possess it? Should I lie or not?

I think it's a liking for a boyfriend to ask about an ex, and at the same time, girls shouldn't hide anything from their boyfriends.

Nowadays, both boys and girls have several love histories. But guys are always asking about a girl's ex, and a small percentage of girls will choose to lie to their boyfriend. I think that when a man and a woman are in a relationship, the guy asks the girl about his ex not because he is possessive, but because he cares about the other person.

Men and women should be honest and honest in their dealings. When the other party asks about his ex, he should tell the truth and should not hide something. Love should be based on mutual trust between the two parties, and even their love history is unwilling to disclose to each other, so such a love relationship is destined to not last long.

It's not just girls, it's also boys. Only when both sides are honest with each other will there be no guilt in their hearts.

It is precisely because the boyfriend likes him that he cares so much about his past. Because your boyfriend wants to learn how to love herself better by learning about her past, you should be honest with the other person. If you lie, then you are irresponsible for the relationship.

When a boyfriend asks his girlfriend about the past, it is not possessive, but the real possessiveness is to know even the other person's personal privacy. Past love experiences can show a person's point of view in the process of falling in love, maybe the boy really wants to understand this past, in order to figure out how to treat you at this time. <>

I believe that you should be honest, at all times. Honesty is the most basic quality of a person, if in a relationship, both parties hide and lie to each other. So what's the point of such a relationship?

In love, both parties can't show that they don't care, once the other party asks about their past, they must be timely and can't hide anything. <>

It should be that your boyfriend is more possessive. In this case, you can directly disagree with him and tell him that the matter is over. There is no need to lie.

It's a bit of both. He may like you very much, he wants to possess you, and he also wants to have a good future with you, so he cares a lot about you and your ex.

No, you should be honest.

If your boyfriend often asks you about your ex, he may be because he is not confident enough to know if he is making you feel full of cheating. It may also be because you don't give him enough security, so that he worries that he may become your ex one day; It is even possible that he is jealous and wants you to pay more attention to him instead of staying in the past. Let's analyze what the boyfriend thinks about the psychology of asking his ex.

First, this is a manifestation of his lack of self-confidence.

If this guy is confident enough, then he will definitely not worry about you thinking about your ex, because he knows that he will definitely be able to make you like him more and more, so that you can completely let go of the past. And your boyfriend always asks about your ex, indicating that he perceives that his strength is not strong enough, he is worried that he is not doing well in some aspects, and he is afraid that he will become your past tense one day, so he wants to understand from your words and words what taboos your ex has committed against you, so that you can bear to leave the other party.

Second, maybe you didn't give him a sense of security.

The reason why your boyfriend wants to know about you and your ex may be because he wants to know how you deal with your feelings, and whether you are reluctant to open up to others on weekdays, which makes it difficult for others to enter your heart and communicate with you on spiritual issues. Maybe it's because you don't usually say anything about liking him and loving him, which makes him insecure. He doesn't know what kind of place he has in your heart, and he worries that he will never be able to cling to you, and he will end up as a stranger.

Third, maybe he is jealous of renting Bihe.

It's also possible that he's heard about you and your ex from somewhere else, so he's wondering what else you think about your ex. He wants to use your words to determine your current intentions, and he also wants you to remember how bad your predecessors really are, and how good he is to you at the moment. Let you see that he cares about you, cares for you, and ...... to youIn short, he may be a vinegar spirit, likes to find trouble when he has nothing to do, and likes to brush up on his sense of existence.

Summary. and he has a comparison mentality.

I've received your question, please wait a minute, this situation is usually that your boyfriend is jealous of your ex-boyfriend, and he has a comparison mentality.

It's a sign of loving you, oh, and being afraid of losing you.

He kept asking about his ex, but I didn't want to say it, I was afraid that it would affect the relationship between the two...How should I tell him to reassure him?

You should say that it is you who is by my side now, and he is the ex because I am going to meet you.

I don't want to reminisce about the past, I just want to be with you.

I've said it all....

He just wanted to know how my ex and I were together and how we were separated.

This situation is because he cares too much about you.

I also care about him, I have a very stupid mouth, I don't know how to explain it to him.

I suggest you make it clear to him all at once and then don't bring it up again.

If he's still asking questions afterward, I think you're going to be angry.

You should ask him, are you talking to me about missing love or with my ex-boyfriend.

They had just gotten married, but he still had to ask about the past ......He always likes to ask about the past, and I am embarrassed and I don't want to.

I always think that he is insecure about you.

You should find a time to talk to him.

After a long time, it is very detrimental to your married life

He just talks to me, but I don't tell him about my past...Just be honest with his doubts.

Don't defend one lie with another.

Just keep things as they are.

Don't be afraid, he loves you.