What to do if you have a boyfriend and still like your ex

Updated on psychology 2024-06-15
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    For girls, if you blaspheme love, you will be the one who will be hurt in the end, and I hope that you are the only one who will be hurt. Love and marriage need to be single-minded, which is not only responsible for love, but also responsible for lover and yourself. You can choose to hurt yourself, and that's your own doing.

    But if you choose to hurt the person who loves you, it's a matter of your character.

    If you can't completely let go of the secret feelings you have for other people, I suggest you leave your current boyfriend.

    If you can't let go of your feelings for your ex, you can't devote yourself to this love, and when you encounter problems, you will inevitably have a situation where you compare the two with a better one. Eventually, you will ruin this love, and you will not get another affection.

    In a person's life, you will meet a lot of people you like, admire, and have a good feeling, you can't take everyone to heart, and you can't expect to go a while with everyone, this is love and life, love and life need to know how to choose. You are always hesitant about love, and love will eventually make you unable to choose. So, if you can let go of other feelings, then cherish the love you have now.

    Love, there is no good or bad, what you have is the best.

    If you really can't let go of the love for your ex in your heart, then you can take advantage of the fact that you are not married yet, let go of your boyfriend, and go after the person you like in your heart. Regardless of whether you are happy in the future or not, at least let your current boyfriend who loves you choose a new life.

    For her boyfriend, you also need to think and redeem. If you can't solve your girlfriend's ex's problems well, you will inevitably end up with her ex as well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Summary. I don't think you really have really come out of that relationship, at this time you must calm down and think about it, whether you love your current boyfriend, or love your ex-boyfriend, if it is impossible to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, then you have to cut through the mess quickly, when you break it, it is also respect for yourself, you already have a boyfriend, you should fall in love, if you really like your current boyfriend, you must let go of the past should be put down, but also respect for your current boyfriend, if you can't let go of your ex-boyfriend, Don't rush to fall in love again, because you haven't adjusted yourself yet, and if you talk about a boyfriend again, you may go back to the mode of the previous relationship, and you are very entangled and confused, which is also very painful.

    I have a boyfriend but still think about my ex.

    I don't think you really have really come out of that relationship, at this time you must calm down and think about it, whether you love your current boyfriend, or love your ex-boyfriend, if it is impossible to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, then you have to cut through the mess quickly, when you break it, it is also respect for yourself, you already have a boyfriend, you should fall in love, if you really like your current boyfriend, you must let go of the past should be put down, but also respect for your current boyfriend, if you can't let go of your ex-boyfriend, Don't rush to fall in love again, because you haven't adjusted yourself yet, and if you talk about a boyfriend again, you may go back to the mode of the previous relationship, and you are very entangled and confused, which is also very painful.

    In fact, this is also a kind of nostalgia that many people encounter in this situation. All good things come to an end. Now that we've broken up with our ex, let's try to come out and meet the next good one.

    Time also proves and forgets many things. Single-mindedness, on the contrary, live a relaxed life.

    You can also talk to me. After all, objective opinions on these matters are more rational than subjective ones.

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