I can t find a suitable partner all the time, why is it?

In the world, some people are looking for it, but they are still alone, many people are not only questioning, they want to have good looks, they want to have height, they want money, they can be so good, why can't they find a suitable partner?

1. Maybe it's because I'm too picky, so I can't always find someone who suits me.

Some people's vision is very high, obviously their conditions in all aspects are very general, but they have to find people in the dragon and phoenix, when looking for the object to pick the eyes, always feel that there is a better one, waiting for themselves, looking for the object is not to buy vegetables, don't always pick and choose, but should choose the right person for yourself, to see the other party's character, talk, don't always look at the appearance. If you take a long-term view, it will be easier to find the right person for you.

Second, it is also possible that your job is unstable, and the salary level is not high, so you cannot be favored by the opposite sex.

Now people who learn to find objects are very picky, first of all, they will look at the ability of the other party, because the ability of ordinary people is not easy to see, then it will be through the other party's work, if the other party's work is very good, the unit efficiency is good, and the salary level is also very high, such people are very easy to be liked by the opposite sex, it can be said that they are more sought-after, and it is easier to find the right object.

3. I am too handsome, and I always hope to find people who are excellent in all aspects, but I often can't get my way.

Many people are face control, and some people feel that they are very handsome and amazing, so they have a feeling of being superior, hoping that their other half will also be very good, very good in all aspects, so as not to be so handsome, the more people in their eyes, the more difficult it is to find a suitable partner.

If you can't find a suitable partner, then you should find the reason from yourself, don't always complain, just become better and stronger, and know how to look at people, in order to have the partner you want.

It may be that there are some problems with my personality, or it may be that I have a lot of shortcomings, so I have never found a suitable partner who is very compatible with me.

Mainly because we haven't met the right person yet, so we can't find a suitable partner, don't worry, it will happen slowly.

Because true love is hard to find. Originally, there are so many people in the world, it is difficult to find true love, only patience and slow to find it.

The reason why some people can't find a partner in life may be because of their own different conditions, or their own ability is not good, and their emotional intelligence is too low.

In life, you will find that some people are still single when they are in their thirties or forties, and the age of their singleness is not that they don't want to find a partner, but that they can't find a partner. I think some people can't find a partner for the following reasons:

Emotional intelligence is important. Emotional intelligence can show your personal charm in the process of getting along with others. If your emotional intelligence is not good, when you are still getting along with others, you may say some inappropriate things, and what you say may offend others, make the other person unhappy, etc.

Some people can't speak and have low emotional intelligence, so they don't get their previous likes when they get along with the opposite sex, which is one of the reasons why they find a partner.

And nowadays, some people still pay more attention to each other's external conditions. For example, some people only earn 2,000 yuan a month. None of the wages they receive are enough for them to live on their own.

Some people will consider that after living with such people, they will have a lot of burden and pressure in the future. Some people don't want to live such a poor life, which is also the reason why some people with poor external conditions can't find a partner.

Some people in life have very bad character, for example, they are very short-tempered, they will say some dirty words, and they will scold others at every turn.

I think such a person is generally notorious in his life circle. If others know that he is such a person, they are reluctant to introduce the person they know to such a person. There are also some people who are looking for a partner and are unwilling to find such a person.

In fact, there are many reasons, some are because their own conditions are relatively poor and not good enough, some are because the standards for choosing a mate are too high, and some people have some flaws in their personality, so they can't find a partner.

Some people have not been able to find a partner, it may be that their appearance conditions do not meet the requirements of the other party, it may be that they are too poor, so they are rejected by the other party, or they may be too picky and too demanding of the other half.

It may be because of their different conditions, they feel that their abilities are not good, and their emotional intelligence is too low, so they have not been able to find a partner.

It's because I'm not good at taking the initiative in my usual work, or maybe it's because my vision is relatively high, so I can't find the most suitable one.

It may be because your requirements are too high, it may be that your partner has too many requirements, or it may be that you are too busy with work, it may be that you do not have any demands and ideas about finding a partner, so you will not find a suitable partner.

It may be because you have not met the right person, it may be because the time has not yet come, it may be because you are more demanding, or you have a smaller circle.

My own requirements are too high, my knowledge of myself is not enough, and I have unreasonable delusions. It's hard to find a partner.

Finding a suitable partner is the result of many reasons, such as a bad social outlook on marriage, unbalanced personal development, and substandard temperament.

The premise of wanting to find a girlfriend is that you must first be able to support yourself and become better and better, that is, you have a positive personality and a correct concept of life, and you have a certain economic strength, and your girlfriend will naturally come to you. Good luck finding your other half soon! Girls are always so popular, and they soon find a new boyfriend after breaking up, you don't talk about it, a lot of boys are lining up to chase her and ask her out, and you have long forgotten about it.

If you want to find another girlfriend, you have to spend a lot of time, energy and money.

If you don't have a suitable fit for a while, a marriage agency is a good place to go, where you can register people of all ages and situations. Although it may cost a little money, as long as you say your requirements, the matchmakers in the matchmaking agency can find a lot of conditions according to your requirements. You can participate in class reunions, company team building, and social networks.

If none of that works, then go on a blind date.

It is recommended that you must find someone who is consistent with your three views, the same interests and hobbies, and is very comfortable to get along with as your partner.

If you want to find a real partner, then first of all, you should be very good, like things, people and groups, so your attraction must be recognized by others and you can find someone who suits you.

Find a topic that fits your personality and that two people can talk about a lot. Choose someone who is similar to your own career. This is the real partner, who knows how to be humble and tolerant of each other.

You should carefully observe the people around you, because only in this way can you find a suitable partner for yourself.

First of all, you must be an excellent person, so that you can attract people with the same personality as yourself, and secondly, you must have good quality and morality, so that you can definitely find the other half that suits you.

If you want to find a truly suitable partner, you must first have the same three views, and the consumption concept must be the same, and the values can get along more and have more problems.

Nowadays, there are many single men and women, mainly men and women are working, between men and women, you don't know my home, I don't know your family scene. It's hard to communicate. The factories work long hours, there is no match between men and women, some factories are all women, some are all men, and there is no room for men and women to speak to each other.

The second reason is that the vast majority of modern young people love mobile phones, and men and women do not ask questions at all. This is that everyone is a foreigner, and only mobile phones are real partners. There are many older men and women in our place, and they also have houses and cars, but it is difficult to meet people who love each other.

The social atmosphere is very important, everyone talks about money, everyone wants to earn money and start a business, and marriage is like a trivial matter, both men and women are the same, and they just want to climb the peak. Therefore, most of them get married when they are more than 3o years old to 4o years old, and after the 4o age of women, many people do not want to take it and become old aunts. In the end, I married the single men in the city, most of whom had lost their partners and had a large pension.

There are more men than women, and there are even more singles in the rural areas.

With the rapid development of society and the rapid progress of the times, people's thoughts and values cannot help but keep pace with the times. It's not that a man can't find a wife, it's not that a woman can't get married, it's that many cases of unhappiness after marriage have sounded the alarm, and it's because I have witnessed that some marriages that have brought a lot of misfortune, of course, there are some reasons why I can't afford to marry, and some families interfere ......Therefore, many Dinks would rather be single than make do, which has caused a lot of older leftover women and men. However, these people will not worry, they will be economically independent, their thinking is independent, and they will not drag down society.

People in the economic conditions of the market, young men and women have a higher pursuit of material conditions. Girls require boys not to be handsome, but also highly educated, to have a family background, and to be able to make money. Girls themselves are highly educated, and boys have fewer higher education than girls, which is unbalanced, and the boys who are left behind are generally in rural, low-educated, and average economic families.

Unmarried girls are a group of people who are highly educated and work hard in the city, and as they get older, it becomes more and more difficult for them to find a significant other.

Then you should think about whether there are no suitable women around you, and the job is too single. Or they are not active enough and do not speak with humor enough.

That's because I haven't met so many people in the vast sea of people who are suitable for themselves, and they can always meet a partner who suits them, wants to be with him, and starts a family with him.

It's because you're too picky, so you can't find a partner who suits you, so you might as well reduce your requirements.

If you can't find a suitable partner all the time, you may have certain factors of your own, such as not being able to tolerate some faults of others and be tolerant.

I can't find a suitable partner all the time, why? Men can't find a partner because of conditions, either because of economic inadequacy, or lack of talent, or lack of cultural background, etc., and they are not able to attract women. And women can't find a partner because there are too few men who are excellent in all aspects, especially those who are both powerful and rich, and have high quality and cultural literacy, there are too few such high-quality men.

In short, there are too few women who find a man to live at home like in the past. The misalignment of men and women in pursuit is the reason why men can't find a partner, and women can't find a partner.

Women's requirements for boyfriends are generally high, and they all want to find tall, rich, and handsome, but how many rich and handsome are there in reality? The reason why men dare not look for it is that women are demanding; If you don't have much advantage in height, appearance, income, place of origin, etc., you will have no self-confidence and simply don't fall in love. In addition, some people feel that they are not as comfortable as a person after talking, make money and spend it themselves, and when they fall in love, they have one more person who takes care of themselves, and they want this to that, and they lose their temper when they are not satisfied, and many men are also only children, and they have been spoiled since childhood, where they are angry?

At first, there may be a little youthful heterosexual impulse, but in the end, there is no impulse anymore, and it becomes a love phobia. My son just introduced several girls in a row, and in the end he said that he didn't want to fall in love anymore and didn't look for a partner.

Some girls have good conditions and high education, and it is impossible to marry below their own conditions, because she thinks she is a princess since she was a child. will not marry civilians, but the reality is that there are many civilians, less Prince Charming, the princess wants to get the status and respect of the princess, housework, don't want to do, then now the boy is at home, he also feels that he is a prince charming since he was a child, and everyone wants him to be a prince, so there will be a contradiction, if everyone can put down their bodies when they return to reality, there will be no object that cannot be found, and the above is the reason for this phenomenon.

I can't find a suitable partner all the time, probably because my requirements are too high, you can try to lower your requirements a little, if one person is not suitable, two people are not suitable, and everyone is not suitable, you may have to consider your own reasons.

Don't worry if you can't find a suitable partner, but you haven't met the person you can spend your life with, wait a little longer, fate will come, and you will naturally meet a suitable partner.

Too picky and not too demanding.

You can't listen to **, you can't enjoy spicy food, you can't enjoy sports, you can't live well, you can't be too ugly, you can't be too fat or too skinny, you can't be mentally retarded. What is the reason for the end? He even humbly asked himself what he had done wrong.

You can't be too enthusiastic, you can't wave your hand, you can't listen to **, you can't enjoy spicy food, you can't enjoy sports, you can't live well, you can't be too ugly, you can't be too fat or too skinny, you can't be intellectually retarded.

<> it's almost impossible for those who meet their needs 100%**. Arbitrary miracles don't happen. Many "right" people start with many "almost" people.

They don't know themselves clearly and don't know how to fit in with others. They just judge others in their inner world, whether they are good or bad. Also, now I'm obsessed with being single, whether I'm on the run or can't find the right person.

When we are really blind and can walk, we have this perception of ourselves. Therefore, we can see the shadows of human beings and feel that they belong to emotional behaviors. But for low-level creatures, their self-consciousness and ethnicity are much weaker.

For example, ants. All the ants are working step by step. Obviously, it is difficult for anyone to supervise a wedding.

There is a growing need to defend personal independence, economic independence and individual freedom. Unlike older generations, many developed regions have a very low ratio of men to women, which can be due to a number of factors, as friends are older or you know them through their boyfriends and girlfriends. They are so attached to marriage.

At the same time, their requirements for love have changed. In the past, people preferred the concept of elephants. However, the relationship between two people is very painful.

Although I don't like the poverty of my boyfriend when I'm in love, although I value money, although my ability to work is limited and I have no hope of promotion and raise, I look forward to finding a man with money and a house, but I know that I am "simple", "like", "materialistic" and "self-motivated". It seems that the other party is not your lover, and the first disadvantage is your enemy, or there is no communication, or communication is a dispute.