What if you can t find the right one for the rest of your life? 10

Looking for a partner, you never have to find one, a lover for yourself, 100% for yourself, but to find one, the general direction is what you want, as for those small details, you don't always have to care so much.

No one can fully meet your expectations, after all, not even yourself, you can't do it, so sometimes, you should be pragmatic.

The right people are all run-in.

Maybe you think that whoever and who around you is really very suitable, but in fact, you only see their surface, and you don't know how many disputes they have behind the suitability.

The so-called suitability is not necessarily how compatible the two people really are, but they are attracted to each other, and after coming together, they are willing to run in with each other in the bits and pieces of life, and learn to get along little by little.

They won't be able to understand each other, but they're willing to ask for common ground while reserving differences, they'll be able to convince anyone, but they'll all choose to take a step back, they'll want to give up on each other, but they'll know how to persevere.

Couples who can come together, lovers who can get married, couples who can live together, in fact, they are all gradually, in pain again and again, they slowly find a way to get along with each other.

Love is heartbeat, love is heart, love is tolerance and compromise, tolerate each other together, and strive to make each other's lives better.

The person who is really suitable for you, you have to find, and the person who is really suitable for you will only be an ordinary person who will often disappoint you.

The right person is not by meeting him, but by you taking away your glass heart.

He changed his straight man.

Qi, you are willing to get close to each other, and you are willing to manage your relationship together, and slowly become what each other wants.

First of all, you have to understand why you want to get married, or why you want to talk to someone.

There are only two situations, one is that this person is very good to you, you can rely on her, or you like her very much, and you have the desire to protect her life, and you get it with love. The second is that he can bring you happiness, so that your original world is no longer gloomy, and her smile can ** you, so that you are in a happy state every day.

Then, if you find a person who makes your life unhappy, and there are more and more conflicts in the family, trivial matters, troubles, and misfortunes in your life, I think there is nothing wrong with being alone.

In a long life, there is always a person who echoes your soul, the first thing you open must be the person you like, not for the so-called life of wronging yourself, even if you come late, don't delay your life, with the worst plan to meet your own bright future, wouldn't it be better.

Anyway, a person's life is not about whether they can find the right person, not that they have to live a happy life, but that happiness is found and experienced in their own way, others say, don't care, the so-called Tao is different and not conspiring with each other, you can be happy, there are many ways to be happy, and it is not impossible to find a way to survive that suits you, that is: life is controlled by yourself, not others, as long as you are happy.

The main thing is character, whether you have a sense of responsibility, if you are not motivated, then you yourself think it's nothing, girls are different, girls look at the long-term, and later life together is firewood, rice, oil and salt, where to maintain the economy.

Either you're willing to lower your standards, or you're going to live alone, and that's all you have to do. If you don't want to compromise, and others don't want to compromise, there's no way.

A life is very long, but there is no need for the right one at the moment, you can stick to your own standards, pay more attention to and discover more in life, and you will definitely meet the right person.

In fact, if you want to find it, how can you not find it in your lifetime?

It's just a matter of high or low conditions, and the question of whether you accept it or not is really not good, and lowering the conditions will always be found.

If you can't find the right one for a lifetime, there are two answers, one is to find someone who likes you and you will live. The second is that he will never become a family.

I can't find the right one in my life, either you're too bad for others to look down on, or you're too visionary.

It's impossible to find the right person for a lifetime, it's just that you don't want to run in with your other party.

Self-sufficient, no responsibility, no burden, turn off the lights are the same, which is blind, turn off the lights, but the image in my heart it can't be turned off.

I can't find the right person for a lifetime. And you don't lower your standards. Then you will have to be celibate.

Stick to what you should insist on, if you want to find the right one, if you can't find it, continue to look for it.

It may be too demanding, look at things with a trusting eye, and people may have unexpected discoveries.

If you can't find it for the rest of your life, that's your problem.

A friend asked me: What is the true love that I have been pursuing all my life? Whether two people get married together, create a family, and then live quietly in their own circle for the rest of their lives.

In fact, perfect love is not like this, but there is a certain tacit understanding between the two people, and there is a certain trust between each other.

Another friend said to me: Do you know? Why have you fallen in love so many times, but you still can't find the right person after all?

In fact, at that time, I just wanted to tell you that maybe you are very demanding, a person looks down on himself, and he looks down on himself, and he looks down on himself, so it caused a conclusion that repeats the cycle.

But I didn't say it, but he continued: I actually observed these friends around me who thought they were living well, and I could see from their emotional lives that they could be regarded as finding the right person. At first, I thought it was just luck, so I kept asking myself if I was unlucky and couldn't meet the right person.

I always feel that it is better to lack than to abuse, and I have always believed that people will eventually meet the right person in this life. Therefore, I have been living in this concept, in other words, I have always had reservations before I met the right person, and I am not willing to give every one of my heart to the person who is wholeheartedly good to him.

Perhaps this means that there will be a gap in everyone's heart, and even when the cold wind blows through that gap, even the sun will not be able to warm the heart that has already been hardened by cold. So I have been quietly waiting for the person who can warm my heart to happen, and when such a person does not appear, my heart will be frozen all the time.

Slowly, I realized that the person who had been waiting for it did not exist, and the person who truly loved yourself had already arrived and left. The reason is very simple, when the person who treats him well to the bone will leave after accumulating enough disappointments, and he has been waiting for the so-called suitable person stupidly.

has to wait for a marriage that steps on colorful auspicious clouds. In fact, sometimes marriage does not necessarily become a matter of stepping on colorful auspicious clouds, but in turn it will happen quietly behind you, and I have been waiting to turn back, but you have never turned back, so you missed the right person on this road.

Sometimes you don't have to walk forward to find the right person, and you can pay more attention to the side of you, maybe there is a fool quietly guarding you. He doesn't dare to disturb you because he is afraid of the feelings between you, so he will stand in the area where you can reach out and touch it, and if you reach out, it will happen to him.

Feelings are actually not difficult, the difficulty is that you don't observe carefully. A lot of times I've been looking for the so-called right person, and it's very likely that he is looking at you in the right area, waiting for you to smile at her.

Because of your age, your three views and world view have basically matured, and at this time, it is basically impossible to find someone with the same three views and world view as you, so you can't find the right person.

It's because my character is too stubborn, my requirements are too high, and I think highly of myself, so I can't find the right person.

Because of his high requirements, he doesn't see both sides right, and he thinks that he doesn't have good words to do anything, and he will always dislike it, and his parents don't agree.

Every girl has a pure and delicate wish in the depths of her heart, hoping to have a lover who is suitable for her life, to experience the ups and downs of life together, to go through the spring, summer, autumn and winter of life together, to sing in the four seasons, and to grow old slowly. It is an extremely happy thing to be with people who like each other and are suitable for each other until they grow old. But people's lives are not smooth sailing, the person you like is not suitable for you, or the person who is suitable for you is not the one you like, you like, will you settle?

Maybe many people will say, just pass, there is always a suitable person for you, but day by day, and the person who is suitable for you is there. And I think that a person's life is not very long, since it is the most delicate desire in the heart, then it is a person's initial love idea, I would rather choose not to pay attention to it.

Sometimes two people are together, and they don't need the so-called suitable or inappropriate, even if you hate each other very much, but when you are picky and tired, reminisce about the past, and the so-called inappropriate person in the past is the most suitable person for you. No matter how hard the stone is, there will be a day when the drip stone will be worn. On the contrary, how could two people lose the love that can be run in because of an inappropriate sentence, their personalities complement each other, and love also complements each other.

If you can't meet the right person for yourself in your life, then there is no way, everything is arranged by God, even if you can't meet the most suitable one, but you can find a more suitable one, if you don't have the most suitable one, find a slightly suitable person, this is very good, isn't it! Even if I don't even have a little bit of a suitable one, then I can choose to live alone, it's not bad to be alone, and I'm free.

In fact, not everyone can meet the most suitable person for themselves, some people may also become a guest with the most suitable person for themselves, do they want to be single for the rest of their lives! No, no, they will lower their requirements to find someone who they think is okay, there is really no way as long as it is someone who loves them, they would rather be with someone who loves them than with someone they love, and if they want to get married, they have to find someone who loves them.

For me, whether I meet the one that suits me or not is completely up to God's arrangement, because I believe in fate, fate can't be stopped, and it's useless to force it when fate doesn't arrive. It can't be said that if we can't meet the person who suits us, our life will be meaningless and worthless, in fact, it is not the case, because our life is not because of love, we have family affection in addition to love, and friendship, and there are many, many relationships, because in this world we have many roles, and different roles have different meanings.

Of course, it is best to meet your own Prince Charming, in fact, I want to say that the true destiny will not come to your side by yourself, you also have to work hard to meet the most suitable person for yourself, I believe that only your own continuous efforts can meet that person.

If it's not suitable, then I'd rather be single, and I have a lot of older unmarried young women around me, in their thirties, and some of them used to be colleagues.

In fact, I really hope that the people around me can find their own happiness, and I don't feel disgusted at all to see everyone showing affection, I think it's good. At least you have true love to get the sun. Shouldn't you be happy for your friends now that they've found true love?

I used to have a colleague who was the same year as me. During her work, she talked to me about her relationship problems, she said that she had not met the right person, and she was also introduced to a boy who got along with her. But after that, I always felt that the two of them couldn't get along, so they broke up.

I was also very helpless when I heard it, and later when I was on maternity leave, I learned that she was in a long-distance relationship, but it was a long-distance relationship, and the other party was a boy who had a relationship at work. I also know that boy, in fact, he is from my hometown.

Although I was at home, I still paid close attention to her circle of friends, sometimes I would see her going to the boy's city to look for him, and sometimes the photo was of the boy cooking fish head for her. Wow, I said it's all here, it shouldn't be far from getting married.

One day, I suddenly felt that I hadn't seen a photo of that girl for a long time, could it be that the two of them blew it? Later, I chatted with her, and she said that she felt that the two of them were not suitable, and they broke up peacefully for a combination of various reasons. Since it is not suitable, it is not willing to pay attention to it.

In fact, I also admire her courage, she thinks that although all her friends are mothers, she still wants to be more comfortable and find someone who is pleasing to the eye and suitable to live with for life. If you can't find it, you can't force it without fate, and you can live a chic life alone. Yes, I watch her circle of friends now, it's very exciting, anyway, there are all kinds of eating, drinking, and playing, just be happy.