The blind date has not met a suitable partner, is it too demanding?

I don't think it's too demanding, it's just that you haven't met the right person yet. Blind date is an inevitable process for many people's lives, and when you embark on this road, no one can give an accurate answer to when you can meet the right person. I don't think you need to doubt your criteria for choosing a mate until you meet the right person.

A person's criteria for choosing a mate are always changing, but they always have their own bottom line in their hearts. When I was in school, I always thought that cute girls were the most attractive, but when I entered the society, I felt that the beauty of the soul was the real beauty. This may be because of the change in my personal state, or because my psychology is slowly maturing, but there is always one constant requirement that I want the other person to be a kind person.

Everyone in real life, with their own constant changes, the criteria for choosing a mate are also constantly changing. This standard may be raised or lowered, but everyone has their own principles and bottom line. This is an insurmountable psychological barrier.

It's just that in many cases, many people don't realize what their bottom line is.

I don't think it's a problem with being too demanding, it's a problem with the group you're going to be with. When you go on a blind date, the person who helps introduce the partner is probably the relatives and friends next to you. However, in this fast-paced era, a person's circle of friends is limited after all, and the circle of friends and relatives is often not too large, which leads to the fact that the target group that can be selected on a blind date is not too large.

When you feel that you have not met the right person in the blind date process, it is indeed very necessary to reflect on your mate selection criteria, but in the current situation, I do not think that changing the mate selection criteria can make you find happiness, but stick to this standard, and change a blind date group, which may make it easier for you to find a partner.

If that's not easy to understand, I can give you an example. If you work in a factory and you always want the other person to be an urban beauty, this is obviously not in line with your actual situation. Because you don't have access to that circle at all, it's hard for your friends and relatives to get in touch with that circle.

When encountering a problem like yours, there are only two ways to solve it, one is to change your mate selection criteria, but to improve yourself and strive to change to a blind date group. For most young people, I think the latter option is the best option.

Even in real life, it takes a long time for everyone to find the right person after participating in a blind date. This may be a process of constant blows, but as long as you are willing to work hard to change yourself, as long as you can become better and better, you have to believe that love will come to you one day.

Work hard to improve yourself, this is the shortcut you can get out of singleness.

There is a certain possibility, but you can't kill it with one shot, because you feel that the requirements are too high and lower the requirements. You can re-examine your requirements, and if they are really reasonable and not too strict, I think you can really look forward to the arrival of the right person.

It's really too demanding, because in fact, there are many people who can live with themselves for a lifetime, but they are too demanding and too picky, so they can't meet the right one for themselves.

Yes. Because there should be people who can introduce you to live a good life, if you are not picky, you can try to get along first.

No. I don't think it's that I'm too demanding, but that I haven't met a qualified person yet.

Either you're too demanding, or you're not meeting what you're looking for. Don't be in a hurry to get married so quickly, you will always meet the person you want. If you lower your requirements, you will also be unhappy.

It's not necessarily that your requirements are too high, it may be that those people can't talk to you, so you feel that the two people are not suitable. Falling in love is not child's play, and you can't rush it. When the really right person appears, you will feel that that person is the person you want to be with, so really don't feel that you are too demanding.

No, because the blind date is for marriage, and marriage is a lifelong event, whether the two people are suitable is particularly important, at least they have to have a compatible personality, chat, and understand each other's situation in all aspects is particularly important, once married, it is a lifelong thing, so the blind date has not met a suitable object, not too demanding.

If you encounter this situation, you can first examine yourself, if your own conditions are not good but you have always asked the other party to have good conditions, then you really need to change the requirements for mate selection. But if the requirements are all reasonable, then there is no need to worry, there will always be the right person.

Personally, I think that the blind date has not met a suitable object, not that my requirements are too high, but bad luck, it can be said that it is fate, it has not yet arrived, right?

It's not that the requirements are too high, you may not meet someone you really want to be together, sometimes you will be numb if you have more blind dates, and you will feel that there is a better one behind you if you have more blind dates, but sometimes it is not as good as the previous one, so you can understand it first, don't worry.

Yes, generally speaking, when you don't meet a suitable partner on a blind date, basically because you have higher requirements and you don't like each other, this situation generally appears when there are more men and women left in the elderly.

I don't think so. Marriage is a lifelong thing, and who you live with determines your future quality of life, so it is reasonable to be more demanding on a blind date, and don't choose a person you don't love to marry in order to get married.

No, you still have to stick to your own requirements on a blind date, you can't wronged yourself no matter what, and you have to spend the rest of your life together when you find your other half.

No, blind date depends on fate, it's a long process, I believe you can definitely find your true love.

The blind date has never met a suitable object, not too demanding. It may be that the right person has not yet appeared.

There must be some reasons why the requirements are too high and unrealistic, most of the time we are too low for ourselves and too high for others, look at your suitors, you will know what level you are at, and there must be some reasons why fate has not arrived, I think.

I don't think it's too demanding, and sometimes I really don't meet someone who likes me.

I think it may be a bit of a master, but also look at yourself, don't be so picky, blind date is to live together, do you still want to meet Prince Charming?

I don't think so. Fate is a thing that is more difficult to explain, but it is impossible to meet, and I haven't met a suitable blind date, I think it's fate that hasn't arrived yet, so don't be too anxious.

No, the future life is to be lived by two people, of course, when making a choice in the early stage, you should compare and contrast, and choose the one that can grow old together.

Anyway, you think the other party's conditions are not bad in all aspects, you can try to contact each other for a while, maybe you will slowly like each other!

I think the relationship can still be cultivated slowly, after all, it is not easy to meet a suitable person, so I think we should seize the opportunity and try to date.

should have cut off contact with him directly, because even if the two of them are together, they won't be happy, so it's better to slowly find the right person for you.

When you encounter this situation, you can adjust your mentality and tell yourself that it is better to try.

You should slowly get to know each other and get along with each other more, so that you will slowly feel excited.

If you really don't feel heartbeat, I personally feel that there is no need to continue, after all, this kind of love may not be happy.

Then you can try to get along with him, find his charm in life, and then see if you can be tempted.

This is a question to be answered in two directions.

One is the problem from the direction of the introducer, and the other is the problem from the person being introduced.

One. Introducer's question.

1.This problem is also the problem of the elders, and it is very direct that most of the elders do not have a clear understanding of the real interests of the younger generations when they introduce them to the younger generations, but only match them according to the very superficial one, family conditions and personal income, in fact, most people lack understanding of the two parties he wants to introduce.

2.In addition, many elders are not seriously introduced, but spontaneously, and when they talk about gossip with relatives, neighbors and even colleagues, they arrange blind dates as they wish. You must know that even professional matchmakers may not do a good job in blind date introduction, and they are introduced at will, of course, the success rate is not high.

3.There is another point, sometimes the blind date introduced by the elders may be deliberately arranged to fail. In order to get married to their children, many elders have also put a lot of thought into the blind date.

In the conventional practice, I will deliberately find a few people who are not suitable or have lower conditions than the child's vision, let the child feel a round of frustration first, and then arrange them.

I feel that there are not too many young people who are willing to go out on a blind date now, so there will be limitations in the choice.

can come out on a blind date, not to say absolutely, but at least most of the grip is because it is difficult to do, so it has to be solved through a blind date.

Blind date is a traditional way of dating and is seen as a more conservative, safe and secure way to find a partner. Still, we tend to feel overwhelmed when our family asks us to go on a blind date, and some may choose to follow the family's arrangement, while others may firmly refuse. Here's an in-depth and comprehensive analysis:

1.Benefits of blind dates:

Blind dates can make it easier for you to find your partner and meet more people. Blind date arrangements come from your family or friends, which means they know you better and they can match you with someone who is a better fit for you. In terms of family and social culture, blind dates are often seen as a traditional form of marriage, and many people marry through blind dates.

In addition, blind dates can also help you broaden your network and meet more people. Through blind dates, you can meet interesting and authentic people with different tastes, and making friends and expanding your network is also one of the benefits of blind dates.

2.Risks of blind dates.

Blind dates can come with some risks. First of all, you don't necessarily have to be interested in your blind date. Such a situation may make you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.

You may also encounter some people or occasions that make you uncomfortable or make you feel stressed, and such a blind date may cause you some tedious or unpleasant things.

In addition, the time and cost of the blind date may become a burden for you. You may meet up with multiple blind dates, which will cost you a lot of time and money. Blind dates also require some gifts or strategies to make you look better, and these additional costs can also create new burdens.

3.Personal opinion.

If you prefer the way of blind dates, you can consider following the arrangement of your family to go on a blind date. However, if you don't like it or are worried about being forced or forced to participate, then you may feel restricted, which is not good for your mental health and causes a lot of distress.

Whether it is to obey the family's arrangement or to refuse, blind date is a kind of self-made choice, and the attitude of the family is just a reference. When making a decision, we should carefully consider our values, personal feelings, and emotional state to decide whether or not to agree to participate in a blind date. At the same time, we can try to find other ways to get married, such as making friends, online dating, etc., to meet more people, choose the most suitable way for ourselves to find a partner, and maybe a more positive way can allow you to find the person you are looking for.

The blind date objects mainly include the introduction of the elders at home, the introduction of friends, and the matching of online platforms, each of which has advantages and disadvantages, and you need to judge and choose by yourself.

If you are satisfied with each other, don't think that this is the end of the day, maybe the other party is still on a blind date with others, or their own conditions are limited, and finally it will end without a word of inappropriateness for no reason.

The reason why many people can't find a partner is that they have a deviation in their positioning, and they want to find Gao Fushuai or Bai Fumei despite the average conditions.

The people who will come on a blind date are not necessarily sexually deficient, have poor appearance, or have bad conditions, but some are simply narrow in the interpersonal circle.