How should a girl be spiritually enriched?

We often hear "poor children, rich daughters", but for girls to be rich does not mean that they only use money to pile up, relying on pampering to become pampered. What is more important for enriching girls is to enrich their spirits and give them a rich spiritual realm. A spiritually rich girl is undoubtedly excellent and sparkling.

To enrich girls spiritually, it is necessary not only to cultivate their independent thoughts, good habits, self-confidence and optimistic personality, but also to have a broad horizon and rich knowledge ......

Rich knowledge - there is poetry and calligraphy in the belly

At the spiritual level, reading and tasting poetry is one of the important ones. It is important to read more meaningful books and develop good reading habits. Read a book, not only can increase knowledge, pleasure the body and mind, but alsoYou can feel the rich emotions in it, have empathy, and be more tolerant and understanding.

Reading poetry and books is full of books, and unconsciously has a bit of bookish atmosphere, which makes people feel the difference in temperament instantly. A person's beauty is not limited to external beauty, and temperamental beauty is often more attractive.

There is poetry and writing in the belly.

Rich vision - experience, pattern, independence

To enrich girls spiritually, the cultivation of vision is indispensable. Broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, and the pattern will naturally be opened. If you have seen enough and seen or even experienced it yourself, you will often be more aware of what you need and what you don't need.

In this process, we must also continue to cultivate the girl's independent ability, not to raise a delicate girl without any independent ability. A girl who is spiritually rich has a more open pattern, and her life and thoughts are more independent.

Enriching emotions - confident, optimistic and emotionally stable

For the cultivation of girls, more attention should be paid to their core strength. Emotionally stable and able to deal with anything in stride. When encountering difficulties and setbacks, you can face them bravely, deal with things confidently and generously, and face life positively ......and optimisticallyConstantly cultivate girls' self-confident and optimistic personality, cultivate emotional stability, and pay attention to the core force, so that girls can not only face things calmly and calmly, but also face people or things can be generous, and they will take the initiative to fight for what they want.

Confident and optimistic. Enrichment ability - self-discipline, sobriety, good habits

A girl who is spiritually rich will not be bad in ability. Rich girls don't have to have "princess disease", they come to open their mouths with clothes, stretch out their hands with food, and enjoy life every day. Girls who are truly spiritually rich can have strong self-discipline, cultivate their interests and stick to them, and have good living habits.

You should also have logical ability, be good at expressing and communicating, be able to deal with things very clearly, and not lose yourself because of small things. When the ability is strong enough, the spiritual realm will be at a different level.

Spiritual abundance. For girls, there may be no material enrichment, but spiritual enrichment is very important. Spiritually rich girls can be confident, generous, capable, sober and independent.

The girls who have been raised in this way are happy and excellentTheir spirit is rich enough to face the ups and downs of life to calmly welcome their arrival, and overcome them to see the rainbow after the storm.

Take it easy.

We often hear that girls have to feed so that they will not be cheated by a piece of cake in the future. But many people's family conditions are not so wealthy, and they can't buy a lot of beautiful clothes for their daughters, can't such a family support a woman? So what the hell is the girl going to do?

A woman says she wants to "support", how can she "get rich"? Rich and self-confident, many women may not be able to emerge from the shadows of their childhood. It is said that when parents were young, they often said that they couldn't do it here, so they were inferior to others in everything.

But in fact, they may not be bad at all, and women are also more sensitive, if their parents are rarely accompanied, they will be estranged from their parents, and their own problems will be well solved, making people feel inferior. Therefore, when parents educate a girl, don't worry about her becoming a princess, and give enough praise and recognition. Because the biggest girl in love is confident and empathetic.

Like the summer of "Where Are You Going, Dad 3", she is pampered as a little princess, but she is kind and generous, and she can even endure hardships, so there is no princess disease at all. Properly satisfying her vanity, women love beauty. Many girls would like to see other children in floral dresses and beautiful hairpins when they are young.

Some families are particularly financially disadvantaged and may refuse their children's needs. Always emphasize that the house is poor and can't afford this kind of thing. This will actually bring a lot of psychological pressure to the child, and he will not dare to say anything about his needs in the future.

In fact, if the family conditions are not good, you can take out a fixed amount of money as a pure "disguised **" for the child, which is not too much, within the range that you can accept, such as 100 won. I should clearly say to my daughter: "Mom can only buy me a card toy for 100 yuan, and when I run out, I will only have to use it for the next month."

This will not only meet the needs of the child, but also put a burden on the family. Don't hurt her self-esteem, many times, when the child makes a mistake, parents will yell at her and even scold her.

There are also some parents who dampen their daughter's enthusiasm when she starts to dress up, saying that "ugly people often joke", which is embarrassing. This kind of thing hurts the girl's self-esteem. The people closest to her in the world say that about her, so she probably really thinks she is like that.

To achieve equality as much as possible, if there is more than one child in the family, it is best to treat the children as equally as possible. Girls actually don't like parents saying "you are the older sister, you have to let the younger brother". Especially if the family is kind to the younger brother, the daughter's heart will feel unbalanced.

You should give the girl a certain sense of security, and give the girl a certain amount of material, it's okay, the girl will be very happy, and she will be very happy every day, and she will not be abducted by traffickers.

Girls can let their children maintain a good habit of reading every day when they are young, and the town should often take their children out to travel, which can broaden their horizons and often communicate with their children.

We should let the children scatter to learn some good things, and let the children have a better three views in thought, establish a good value of rushing lead, and let the children's internal excitement and relief are very powerful.

Children should be allowed to learn more knowledge, so that children will become more confident and temperamental.

People often say: "poor children, rich daughters", for poor children, it is not difficult for everyone to understand, but there are many people who can't understand "rich daughters" correctly, so what does "rich daughters" mean? Is it just to provide the best material life for my daughter?

1. Accompaniment. What children need most in the process of growing up is the company of their parents. Children have no concept of money, they want more companionship and love from their parents.

If you want to enrich your child's spiritual world, you must accompany your child more, read and study with your child, play and ...... togetherWith the company of their parents, children will also have a greater sense of security and will be more confident and brave in the future.

2. Vision.

The second point of "Rich Maintenance" is to broaden her daughter's horizons. How important is vision? It can be said that it determines how far and how high a child can go in the future.

For example, a girl with a narrow vision is easy to be coaxed, and a boy may be able to deceive her with a few sweet words in the future, while a girl with a broad vision may combine various factors, such as personality, thoughts, future goals, etc., to see if all aspects are compatible, and then make a decision.

3. Attitude. Parents should teach their daughter to take her life seriously, exercise her daughter's life skills, cultivate her daughter's taste for life, teach her daughter to face life optimistically, enjoy life positively, and bravely challenge life when she is still young. I also want my daughter to understand that she can't always think about relying on others in life, but she must learn to rely on herself.

Instilling independent thinking in her daughter and cultivating her ability to be independent. If parents do this well, their daughters will definitely be better, which is the spiritual enrichment of their daughters.

Fourth, hobbies. Girls who have a hobby will be happier at any time, and parents should not give their children more toys and clothes, but also cultivate their daughter's hobbies, which can be affordable for the average family. Daughter has a good hobby, whether it is reading, writing, drawing, singing and dancing, even martial arts, will make her more confident and attractive, which is very important for a girl.

Moreover, in the process of enriching and searching for her daughter's hobby, it is easier for her daughter to find her own pursuit and value, which is very meaningful!