What roads will we have to walk a long way alone?

People are destined to go a long way alone, no matter how much your parents love you, how reliable your partner is, or how sensible your children are. Although I don't dare to admit it, but the fact is that when I come, I am alone, and when I leave, I am also alone. No one can be with you forever, those solitary night walks, and the loneliness of necessity.

Every time you think about it or experience it, it makes you feel uncomfortable. I always wonder if I'm the only one who suffers, even if it's raining, you don't blame the weather, just blame yourself for not bringing an umbrella. Don't be afraid, the road you have walked alone is the desire of your heart.

Life is destined to be a lonely journey, in the whole long road of life, we actually need to go a long way alone, although we will have a lot of family around us and there will be a lot of friends, but they can only accompany you, a small part of the time, and finally can go to the end of life, can only be you alone and no one can accompany you.

Life is a journey that will eventually show the dew, you have to go all the way, the good and the bad will appear, and there may be many people who accompany you to the end, or perhaps, you are the only one. Many times, it will take a long time for us to become a person who understands, understand that we are a person, understand that everything we have is safe only if we give it ourselves, and understand that in a long time, the person who holds hands is ourselves, and it is ourselves who understands ourselves best.

When looking for a job after graduation, this road is a long way on our own, because in the case of no relationship, we can only find a satisfactory job by relying on our own efforts and that serious and hard work, and you have to shine in this job to show your own strength, and others can't help you.

The road of life is to meet all the way and lose all the way. In the end, I was still alone. The road of a lifetime is too long, people come and go, and the only thing that can always accompany you is your own shadow.

Some roads are destined to be walked alone, don't be afraid of a long road, if the heart is open, everything will suddenly be clear.

Living independently, no one knows, including myself, how long I will live in this house, or three or five years, or ten years. A good day is spent alone, and after running around for a period of time, I like stability, I also like comfort, and at the same time I like to do what I like in my free time. Including my parents, brothers, and other relatives, they basically can't participate in their own lives, and the days of gathering less and leaving more have made me develop the habit of making decisions on my own.

For example, on the road of life, many things need to be judged by ourselves, to choose to choose, our decisions, everything cannot be done by others for us, it should be completed by ourselves independently, which is also the responsibility and ability that an adult should have.

When a person hides their secrets, it means that they don't want to be disturbed by others, and they can even appear a little isolated. After almost a month of silence, I went for a run in the morning, and the familiar road was still the same. The only change is that the trees on both sides of the road are greener, and each extended branch and leaf blocks the sidewalk very narrowly.

Is it because I haven't been there lately, it's obviously not.

It's a fast-paced era, so fast that people don't have time to rest, let alone communicate. You're worthless, and your language doesn't matter. No one wants to listen to your nagging, no one cares what you want to say.

We always grow up while forgetting, and in the stumbles of the years, we slowly learn to protect ourselves, and know when to be indifferent and when to be strong. If you have tears, you will stay in your heart, and when you are sad, you will turn around and not let others see your grievances and stubbornness. Because, we're not kids.

You are taciturn, and you are always out of place in the collective. You eat alone, you walk alone, you write your heart down in your notebook alone. You say, it's really hard to be alone.

However, I think it's really free and cool to be alone. After you have experienced a lot of things, you will find that it is normal for people to go to tea and cool, and the noise of a group of people is not as good as the loneliness of a person.

You want to cherish it, but you're drifting away. You treat people with your heart, but you were shot in the back. So, you learn to be quiet, you learn to protect yourself.

Those who don't like it will be automatically blocked, and those who don't want to listen will be deaf to them, and those who hate them will stay away. You can always find the joy of living alone, and you can always find a few friends who cherish each other.

In this world, everyone is lonely and helpless. You have no way of knowing how many unknown hardships have been endured behind the smiling faces. You don't know, being alive is a great thing in itself.

I remember one time, a friend asked: What is the meaning of life? I think that being alive is the greatest meaning of living. Every day, you can breathe the fresh air outside the window and let the sun shine on you, which is the meaning of life.

Every day, every day, like the paper copied in the photocopier, is plain and uneventful. However, when you think about it, every day is extraordinary, and every day is a precious day. You don't think it happened, but in fact, you have walked a long, long way alone, and each of us is stronger than we imagined.

The places you want to go, the roads you want to walk, the scenery you want to see, and the people you want to share with, a few are enough. If you really don't have it, it's okay to do it alone.

Sometimes, our hearts are like a letter that will never be sent, written all over the page, and we don't know who to send it to. This letter is destined to become a letter without a recipient. Then write it to yourself, and it is also a beautiful thing to pour out your inner secrets to yourself.

We've come a long, long way to become who we are now, still not perfect, but wonderful enough. In the past, we were ignorant, sad, unwilling, and reluctant, but they are all gone. Now, we just want to be happy, joyful and wonderful.

We are destined to walk far, far and wide alone, and no one will always be there for you, and no one will always stand behind you. You need to be more free, more independent, to be happier.

I hope you write a lot of essays and go a long way. When someone loves, they are happy, and when no one loves, they are free and easy. ​

In the course of my life, I have seen many scenes, met many people, and experienced many things ......Most of these scenes, people, and events were done with my friends or relatives, or even strangers. This kind of group fun makes me feel the happiness of being "together". However, after the hilarity, only a lonely heart was left beating in the chest, and even if the blood was boiling, it was difficult to hide the sadness after the end.

Therefore, the journey of life is destined to be lonely, and some roads are destined to be walked alone ......

The world is complex, especially in the relationships between people. Living in the world, you must have one or another connection with people sooner or later, but such a connection is like several layers of intersecting spider webs, intricate, making it difficult for people to get out and discourage. However, in our hearts, we always want a pure land, want the peace after the hustle and bustle, so we naturally begin to consciously withdraw from the group and begin to enjoy the path of a person.

Walking alone may be a bit hurtful because you don't have anyone else to talk to, but it gives you the opportunity to talk to yourself. On this path, you learn to enjoy the scenery alone, feel the time alone, and listen to the voice of the hungry finch alone. You become serene and begin to slowly deal with problems on your own.

So, at this time, you understand that your life, in the end, is actually only yourself. Your parents will grow old, your friends will drift apart, and your strangers will change ......There's no way you can stop the rush of time, and in the end, it's really just you who are still there; Eventually, you start to go your own way.

Everyone envied the feast where everyone gathered, but they didn't know that after the reunion, only the room was empty; Everyone envies the brilliant and dazzling fireworks, but they don't know that after they bloom, there is still only a whole night of loneliness. We need to enjoy the excitement and dazzling bloom of the party, but we still hope to be able to walk on the beautiful road of life alone.

There is a soft place in our hearts that only holds ourselves, and she guides us slowly through the path of one person, and then, gradually, grows.

In this world, no one can live without anyone, and anyone can live without it. No one can be relied on forever, even the shadow will leave you. Only you will not go far!

01 There are some things that can only be done by one person; Some levels can only be passed by one person; There are some roads that can only be walked alone.

I don't know if you will feel that when you grow up, the pressure will become more and more, and you will have to bear more and more things, and sometimes, you will be overwhelmed.

In the past, we would be sentimental because of a trivial matter, heartbroken because of a person's departure, and hysterical because we couldn't get what we wanted. Later, after being baptized by time and experience, even if we have traveled thousands of mountains and rivers, we can cope with the problems in life alone. ”

It turns out that the power of a person is also infinite. And in a long life, it is destined that there are some roads that can only be walked alone.

It's not loneliness, it's choice.

Those campus friendship moments that are pure as water and have laughter and laughter; The time spent with your brothers and sisters who have always been by your side and listened to each other's hearts; That youthful, carefree childhood; It will gradually move away as you grow up and gradually move forward, and the more you go, the more lonely you become, and everyone has to face their own path alone.

Because most people are just passers-by, hurriedly accompany you on a journey, and then say goodbye to you. At this time, you realize that there are some roads that can only be walked alone. Treat each other sincerely when you meet, and say goodbye heartily when you part.

I think maybe this is the best state in people-to-people interactions.

02 Sometimes a person's fulfillment is always faster than the carnival of a group of people, and the heart is more down-to-earth.

In this time alone, although there are fewer and fewer people to accompany me, the cruelty of reality has given me the determination and courage to set off alone. During that time, I continued to accumulate strength on my own, playing when I should play, reading carefully when I should read, and plucking up the courage to play alone. When traveling, you will have your own little interests and learn to fill your life with various hobbies.

Looking back at these days, in fact, loneliness is not a big deal, and some roads can only be walked by you.

Do you believe that there are people in this world who have been through the same thing as you?

You may never know each other, but you will feel empathy because he or she has given you strength.

That's what I think is the power of information, it lets us know what we don't know, it lets us know that someone has been through the same thing as you, who gives you the strength to move forward, who gives you a kind of belief to support, even if he is a stranger to you.

How much can you tolerate one person doing? One person goes to work, one person eats, one person watches a movie, one person.

I think what I can endure the most is to read alone, to think alone, to write alone.

You go to submit your resume alone, and you follow the navigation alone and go through many unjust roads to reach your destination.

Maybe no one knows, you are a road idiot, and you may not be able to find a place while navigating.

But in order to try what you want to do, you learn to gradually not rely on others, get used to being alone to pursue what you want, and you will silently and calmly accept something.

A person who is most afraid of crowding, the most reluctant to crowd, and the most afraid of distance, and now crowds the subway and bus every day, sometimes he doesn't know the meaning.

I even feel that I am doing my best, but I have no choice but to move forward, because I can't go back, and I don't want to go back.

You no longer care what others think of you, and you don't seem so reserved anymore. It's just that you don't seem to be so naïve and fantasizing anymore.,Nuclear search once thought that your heart wouldn't change.,But it turns out that your state of mind has changed.。

You still believe in beauty, in truth, and in moving. It's just that you see something you don't see clearly.

Indeed, we all like that independent self. But it turns out that no matter how strong you are, you want to have someone by your side, maybe friendship, maybe love.

However, your heart knows very well that you know what you want, and you don't want to accept it casually because of loneliness, so you have walked so many roads unknowingly.

When you get closer to what you want, it turns out that you will find that you are not getting easier and happier, but more and more difficult, less and less simple.

But it's also because of this, your horizons, you see more and more things, and you know that it's not enough, you still need to work harder, be braver, and you still have to go through a lot of things.

Accustomed to being alone, but that doesn't mean you don't need to be accompanied, go ahead, write, read, play, and persevere.

You have to use your own strength to get what you want, don't be so naïve and think that it's okay to imagine and fantasize.

When you unconsciously get what you want, your state of mind may have changed.