Who is the baby closer to, and what details of life can you see?

A few days ago, I went to the kindergarten to participate in the child's parent-teacher meeting, during the period, I talked with these mothers, everyone talked about their babies and who is closer to the topic, the mothers suddenly had energy, some mothers showed off their sons and themselves closer, the expression was filled with a sense of honor, some mothers are complaining that the child is closer to the grandmother, can not recognize themselves, the heart reveals a sadness, and some mothers said that his baby is closer to the mother, because the father is easier to play, the baby and the father are particularly happy. Who is the baby closer to, from some of the baby's daily actions, it can also be seen, who is your baby closer to?

1. The baby is closest to the person he sleeps with.

The baby is still young, for a lot of things to identify the concept is not enough, for their own kinship is the same, do not understand that the mother is my kinship in the near future, it is very easy to build emotions with others, if the mother is not at home for a long time, the baby has been taken care of by the grandmother, the grandmother is very easy to become the dearest person in the baby's mind, especially at night, is the baby is the most afraid, the most insecure moment, who is with the side to sleep at this moment, will bring more sense of belonging to the baby, Be able to become the baby's most trusted person, the baby's dearest person. Therefore, many mothers should spend as much time as possible with their children, and don't blindly hand over their children to the elderly because of work, after all, the child's childhood is only two years, and the money can be earned later.

Second, the baby is closest to the person who meets the man's requirements.

Although the baby is young, immature mind, but he has seven emotions and six desires, ordinary people in daily life generally to give help to themselves, to meet the requirements of men people are the closest, children are the same, usually who is willing to buy themselves small toys, who is willing to play with themselves, will make the baby feel closer, the baby is willing to play with him, in the baby's mind is also very easy to be closer. However, at the moment the baby is still young, do not know how the mother is the dearest person, is the person who loves himself the most, with the baby growing bigger and bigger, he will know that the mother is his dearest person, therefore, when the baby is young, the mother should also try to care more about the baby, more time to accompany the baby.

1.The baby is the closest to the person who sleeps with him, the baby is still young, the awareness of many things is not enough, and the blood relationship between himself is the same, and he does not understand that the mother is the closest person to his blood relationship, and it is easy to establish feelings with others, if the mother is not at home for a long time, the baby has been taken care of by the grandmother, and the grandmother is very easy.

2.Baby and meet their own needs of the person closest to the baby although young, immature mind, but he also has seven emotions and six desires, normal people in life often can help themselves, to meet their own needs of the person is the closest, children are the same, usually who is willing to buy toys for themselves.

Under normal circumstances, the baby is close to the mother, because the mother will feed the child, will help the child bathe and dress and coax the child to sleep, so the baby and the mother are closer.

When your child wants you to be there for everything. Your child is already attached to you. When the child has something that cannot be solved, he will habitually call his mother or talk about you.

Who to sleep with, share secrets, etc., because the child will share it with those close to him and like to cling to her.

Look at whoever the child shouts first when he comes home from school every day, and kiss whomever he wants. Most of them are shouting moms. It can also depend on who the child talks more with, and the more he talks is naturally more close.

Look at who the child is more willing to stay with, who he is more willing to find, or who the child listens to more, and who he is happier with when he is together, you can see who he is close to.

You can carefully observe who the child first asks for help when he is in trouble, and generally the first person to be sought is the person the child truly trusts and trusts, that is, the closest person.

When the child is sad and crying, you can see who he is closest to, because the child needs comfort, he needs to vent, then he will find this person, then this person is his dearest person.

Don't look at the newborn child kissing anyone, and everyone laughs at him, but in fact, in his heart, he has already arranged the order of the people close to him, who to kiss and who not to kiss, he understands it in his heart. But when it comes to this, some mothers are about to cry out and accompany their children day and night, but sometimes, the child is closer to his father or grandparents than to himself, which makes people aggrieved to death. Don't worry, there's a reason for this.

First of all, the closest person to the child must be the one who often sleeps with him. Although his intellectual development has not yet reached the point where he can distinguish, but his body touch and senses, has a certain ability to recognize, often accompany him to sleep silver, whether it is body sensation or body odor, is the baby is the most familiar, and naturally socks have become his closest people. Some mothers have no way to sleep with their babies due to work, which is not conducive to the cultivation of parent-child relationship.

Secondly, the closest thing to the baby is the person who can often see and take care of her. Children are different from adults, Dafeng good pedestrians will use some material things to express their feelings, but children will only judge the intimacy most intuitively, the one who often accompanies himself, takes care of himself, feeds and bathes himself, he will naturally feel close from the heart.