Many people have heard of the good old man, what is going on?

As long as others say they need help, they are willing to do anything for others, and if other people's affairs conflict with their own affairs, then they will even give priority to other people's affairs. From a psychological point of view, what they need is a kind of spiritual feedback, that is, the praise and recognition of others.

Others say, ouch, Brother Wang, thank you, hey, you are really a good person, oops, thanks to you, just such a sentence can make the good man feel satisfied. And if there is no spiritual feedback, then he will feel that he has been let down, and the good man will be lost and wronged, and he may change from a good man to an indifferent person.

So why is such a character formed? During their childhood, they often rarely get the affirmation and approval of their parents, so they especially need a place where they can prove that they are worthy, and the needs of others happen to be their opportunity to prove it. Every good old man who is tired of this often has a cry in his heart, do you see?

I'm a good person, I'm a valuable and useful good person, are you willing to praise me?

Those things that we asked for but did not get in our childhood, we often spend the rest of our lives pursuing. If you yourself are such a good old man, my dear, I want to say to you that you have worked hard. I personally think that it is not that women are getting stronger and stronger, but that men are declining more and more, so if men continue to be absent, maybe ten or 20 years later, they will have to change from small fresh meat to breeding pigs, which is a very shameful thing.

At the same time, you can try to spend part of your time and energy helping others on self-growth and time. When your own ability is getting stronger and stronger, when you can recognize and appreciate yourself from the heart, you will no longer rely so much on what kind of feedback and evaluation others give you. Your self-confidence will be more solid.

Good people just don't know how to say no, they don't get angry no matter what others say or do, and they will often help others.

Mental reminder: All along, good people are warm and generous, and will not reject others and make you easy to be welcomed by everyone in communication, especially in the initial stage. However, human beings have the psychology of bullying the weak and fearing the hard, in this kind of psychology, if you always habitually accept any request from others, often play the role of a "good old man", let people inch in you, then gradually you yourself will be physically and mentally exhausted, sooner or later there will be problems.

These people will not refuse others, they are generally more moderate in everything they encounter, their personalities are more easy-going, and they don't want to offend others.

A good old man is meant to be an easy-tempered and kind-hearted person. This kind of person is, of course, something that people are happy to associate with. Nowadays, however, some people regard those who believe in the doctrine of good people as good people.

This kind of "good old man" does not distinguish between right and wrong, does not pay attention to principles, often does not speak up when encountering problems, does not take criticism seriously, is keen on hello, hello, hello, everyone, and is also everywhere with "harmless heart, have the heart of friendship" self-beauty.

"A good old man" is generous and honest on the surface, and is kind to others, but in fact he damages the principle to protect his feelings, the public welfare to protect his personal interests, and the real good man's motives are completely different. When there are too many "good people" in a society, rules and principles no longer exist, there is no way to talk about truth and justice, unhealthy tendencies will breed and spread, and lawbreakers will run rampant.

Good old man, the definition is: easy-tempered, kind-hearted, and not offending people.

Example sentence: Lao Li is really"Good old guys", always submissive, never insist on their own opinions.

"Good old people" are those who are easy-going and kind, who do not want to offend people, but who lack principle. There is such a story about the three its. During the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a man named Sima Hui, who was very good at identifying talents.

On this day, "Mr. Yes" was learning calligraphy and painting at home, and the house slave came to report: "See you outside Liu Yuan!" When Sima Hui heard this, he said happily:

Good! As soon as Liu Yuanwai entered the door, he cried with a sad face, and Sima Hui asked: "Liu Yuanwai, how are you doing today?"

Liu Yuanwai's son was caught by the government and put on death row because he was doing mischief outside, and he was beheaded by the queen. He heard that Sima Hui was a good person and had many friends, so he asked him to think of a way, so he said to Sima Hui: "My son is not filial and has violated the royal law."

Sima Hui didn't finish listening to the words and said, "Okay." ”

When Liu Yuanwai heard this, he suppressed his anger and continued: "Now I am on death row, and I will be beheaded after the autumn." ”

Sima Hui said: "Very good. Liu Yuanwai was so angry that he turned around and left.

At this time, Mrs. Sima stepped forward and persuaded: "It's okay to say something else, but someone's son is going to die, how can you say good?" ”

Sima Hui slapped his thigh: "Madam, you couldn't have said this better." ”

Don't be a "good old man", when you should have a black face, you should have a black face. Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that to be a man, you must have bottom-line thinking.

Answer kiss, hello In response to your question, Mr. Mao has sorted out the answers as follows: A person with a good personality belongs to the kind of person who often suffers losses and is not flattering, and has to laugh everywhere, not because others bully and squeeze him, but because his character is easy to cause these bad situations for himself.

1. Introverted personality and not good at words.

2. Colleagues throw the blame, the first to bear the blame.

3. Please others and wronged yourself.

4. Refuse in your heart and promise in your mouth.

5. Reject others and feel uneasy.

6. When the opportunity comes, I dare not fight for it.

Docile personality, very good temper, good to speak and communicate;

Be good to everyone, hope to strive for everyone's respect, feel that if you respect others, others will respect you;

Peacemaker old style, don't want to offend anyone.

These are actually the survival methods of the weak.

Avoid being a good old man.

It's all my fault, and I'm responsible.

I can't decide anything. Exalt others and degrade yourself.

I'm scared to say no. Not daring to make a request, it is difficult to refuse others.

1. Our respect for others should be a natural manifestation of self-cultivation, rather than inner hopes and plans.

2. This world is very complicated, it is impossible for everyone to like you, and you don't need to please everyone, we must have a bottom line and principles, to become "strong", we don't have to be a good person, he is strong, and the moon shines on the river.

3. Capable people have a "temper", and the stronger the ability, the greater the "temper".

2. This society respects the "strong", and this respect is highly positively correlated with the "strongness" of the person, but not highly positively correlated with his "temper, character, good or bad".

3. The stronger the "ability", the clearer the bottom line or standard for dealing with the world, and the more "hard" it is.

What are the performances of the "good old people" we often say?

Nowadays, there are many kinds of good people in life, one is to say that people are old, and the other is to focus on age.

In a pejorative sense, it is a person who has no principles. From another point of view, it is a person who is very popular, who can tap the strengths of all kinds of people, can master the psychological activities of all kinds of people, can solve problems in a way that is acceptable to everyone, and can be exquisite.

Easy-going and kind-hearted, unwilling to offend people, and unprincipled people. The source is Ba Jin's [Cold Night].

A person who has no self-interest and only benefits others.

The people who worry about the worries of the world first and enjoy the joys of the world later.

Those who do not do unto others as they would have them do unto themselves.

Generosity can tolerate the intolerable things in the world, and smile at the ridiculous people in the world" people who respect others and bring a sense of security to others.

Good old guy as the name suggests.

First of all, you have to be honest.

Secondly, treat people sincerely, without a hint of pretense.

Such a person is called a good old man.

It can also be said to be a person who treats people sincerely.

In general: a good person is a person who often suffers losses, and the benefits are taken away by others.

Easy-going, kind-hearted, unprincipled person.

is a good person, a kind-hearted person, and a good person who does not change his dead nature.

I have been deceived for a long time, and I still enjoy it!

Easy-going and kind-hearted, unwilling to offend people, and unprincipled people.

It's not bad to anyone, it's unprincipled, and it's not to offend anyone.

What are the performances of the "good old people" we often say?

A good man can be a compliment, but it can also be a derogatory in disguise The key depends on what occasion it is used On what occasion it was used If it was a good couple, the woman said that the man was a good man, and it was likely that she was a little dissatisfied with the man at first.

Always be so good to others for a long time''Good old guys''I'm an old bad guy, hehe.