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The final outcome varies from person to person.
In the end, there are only three kinds of results: good, bad, bad or bad, and the reasons that affect the final result are:
1. A woman's own mentality;
2. Meet the quality of men's comprehensive quality;
3. Other external factors.
There are often women around me who say that they want to separate the material and love of love, some women just talk about it, and after the other part pays practical actions, I find that they are generally doing well, they not only raise the fish in their pond very well, but also enrich their own cultivation and experience through the material, of course, there are also people who have a bad ending, they are willing to fall, and finally indulge in the material world and cannot extricate themselves, and it is still difficult to withdraw after waking up, and there are also some stupid women who work hard for love, and finally live happily very little, Most end up either breaking up or divorcing.
Depending on my environment, sometimes I also have the idea of separating material and love, which is inspired by my male friends, some men who separate material and love very early in love and marriage, although these men lower their moral bottom line, they can still find their love. Like I have some male and female friends, abide by the moral bottom line, character and other conditions are very good, but always can't meet love, always meet scumbags or scumbags, they (they) have a high IQ, I find it hard to believe that this part of the people is so difficult to meet love, sure enough, IQ and EQ are equally important, maybe really good people have both.
1. As human beings, should we separate material from love?
The concept of love in the family is also changing, some people are in favor of the separation of material and love, and some people are against the separation of material and love, which shows that everyone's choice is different, and this choice will also change with age and psychological changes. At present, I support women to separate material and love, and at the same time pay attention to how individuals choose not to follow the crowd, but to see how they and their other half choose.
2. If a woman separates material from love, will a man do the same?
Separating material from love is not necessarily divided into men and women, as long as someone chooses to separate material from love, it will influence some people to do the same.
III. Conclusion
Everyone has their own choice, and no matter what happens in the end, they will have to bear the consequences, and those who choose to separate material and love will also be responsible for their own choices in the end. I once watched a movie "Permission", which tells the process of experiencing an open relationship, but this film and television drama does not meet the domestic marriage and love situation, so it can only be said that it is for reference only.
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They will be happy in the end, because they all know what they need most in life.
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In the end, it didn't end up particularly well, because they needed more material things in the process of falling in love, so they broke up in the end.
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It must be unhappy, because in a relationship, feelings are important, and material things are also very important, so as to ensure that your relationship goes long-term, if you separate these two things, you will not be happy to have either one.
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I am very happy, I have a very comfortable time, and such a day is also relatively refreshing, which makes people feel very comfortable.
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will be loved by her husband, will be valued by her in-laws, and she will have a place at home and can express her opinions.
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In the end, such women find their own happiness because they know what they want, and it is not materialistic.
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I won't break up because of the subject's family. Because of the ups and downs that my husband and I have come all the way over the years, they have seen it in their eyes. "I'm willing, I've done it, and I'm still working hard with him", for so many years, I have worked hard for love, and I have never cared about whether this person is good or not, not his family background.
My husband is the kind of college student who came out of the countryside, and his parents are very poor, anyway, we both work and live in the city, and we have never been able to get anything from our parents. Because I feel that it is not easy for the elderly, how can the children take another penny from them.
It is also because of this that when my husband and I got married, there was no bride price, and even the wedding was planned to be held later, because I was poor in order to buy a house at that time.
Over the years, there have been a lot of difficult times when we had no money and were worried, but fortunately, we were both very motivated and relatively economical, and we felt that we would spend less if we had no money. After two years of marriage, the difficult married life has gradually come through, and we have never disliked each other's family background, and we still live a life of "treating each other".
Maybe it's because of love, I don't want to miss him as a person, and then I chose to work hard with him without hesitation.
This is my personal relationship between love and materiality, and I choose love because I feel that material things can be earned by myself.
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Some women choose to cry in luxury cars, and some women choose to laugh on their bicycles.
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Everyone has their own outlook on life, and different people have different opinions.
As for material conditions, some people focus on the key points, and some people look at them lightly, which is normal.
There is nothing wrong with a girl pursuing a good life, but for someone who is too materialistic, then she will not get real happiness.
Marriage, not love, not a building in the air, is a real life, there must be a material foundation, a person values what you are, no one will be together just to endure hardships, all for happiness, even if it is hard now, it is also for the future happiness and investment.
Be realistic, marriage should also pay attention to some of the right people, the conditions should not be too different, and the other party must always have something to attract, which is normal, otherwise, the twisted melon is not sweet.
Whether it's life or marriage, you don't have to be too painful for who you have lost, if you lose one, you may have more opportunities to choose, and it will be more exciting.
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It's a shame that you've met a girl who loves money...
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It's not that material things are important to girls, but that things are important to people in need, the more you expect, the greater the weight, a person's ability is limited, when expectations are beyond the ability, where is there a place for love?
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That's the reality. Love is not as important as reality
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This can't be generalized, some people are like this, but some are still very emotional
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If the girl is very self-reliant and very good, she will find a man with good material things, although she doesn't need that man to support her, but good girls appreciate capable boys, and capable people will naturally not be bad materially.
As for the vase type of girls, not to mention, they are looking for people to rely on, and this kind of person is not very qualified, and I feel that money is the deciding factor, and it is sad, because they have no real love.
If you want to keep a woman, you have to be good and try to marry the first kind of girl.
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The key is that two years have passed, you have not worked hard to lay good economic conditions, and you still can't give her the necessary economic foundation to talk about feelings.
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