Recently, I ve had some trouble, so help me come up with an idea

Marriage in a foreign country sounds beautiful, but huge differences in culture and life are often an important reason for the high divorce rate of transnational marriages!

From your description, you can see that you are an open-looking woman with a traditional heart!

The first thing to say is, why don't Chinese men like you? I think how many good sons and daughters I have in a big country, but can't I find one who is on the same level as you?

It's not that I don't approve of foreign marriages, but I've seen too many sad things, but I also have lingering palpitations! So I advise you to let your heart return to China as soon as possible!

When a man likes a woman, he does everything, and for those outward men in the West, he will even more behave, once they break up, he will say I loved you at that time! I haven't experienced it, but I've watched too much TV, so I guess that's it!

Chinese men are traditional, subtle, and introverted, but they are steady and responsible, and the sense of responsibility is not what every girl values, and it is impossible not to criticize a few black sheep! (Especially now that the so-called supermen are becoming more and more neutral, extremely disgusted)!

Marriage is built on a common foundation, and if you have many differences, think twice!

What's the best of both worlds? If you don't want him to be sad, you have to be sad. Let's talk to him! Big man one is fine!

It's better not to agree, let's be friends, you are still young, and there are good boys in China.

Help you analyze it:

If you read that right, you were born on 1990-9-22, then well, you turned 21 this year. Within two years of graduating from high school, I was in my youth.

You want to take the college entrance examination again, and you see the importance of academic qualifications, which also shows that you are a very self-motivated boy in some ways. Whatever your ideal is in the end and how far it can be achieved, it's secondary.

Your family does not support you, for whatever reason, it should be a one-sided view and thought.

The entanglement in your heart is because you are suffering from gains and losses, and you want to make noodles but you dare not do it. Why do you suffer from it? Because your personality belongs to the indecisive type.

So: what should you do, as a person who has come over, the following is a personal opinion, if there is any similarity, it is pure coincidence:

1: When you are young, be decisive, learn if you want to, insist on learning, and do your best. Around me, there is a classmate who repeats his studies for three years and is finally admitted to Xi'an Jiaotong University, what he needs is courage and determination.

2: Regardless of the opinions of family and friends, don't pay attention to it, do what you want to do, if they don't give you a little financial support, just work by yourself to earn some money first, and then talk to your family after self-study and have good results in the college entrance examination. In fact, they may not support it or be even more angry, and take a school with a full scholarship.

3: After choosing, don't think about the east and the west, work hard and work hard, and persist and persist. Achieve the predetermined goals.

4: Remember that your current decision will affect you for the rest of your life, no matter what disadvantaged conditions, don't give up your dreams easily, including the dream of studying and working!!

Of course, if you want to study, you have to work hard to study, college students are nothing, and if college students are not, it is nothing.

It's a very practical problem, consider the situation at home, if the family is not bad for the money you earn, and you are more than 50% sure that you will be admitted to the university you want, go for it. Successful studies will make up for the few years you spent in college.