My boyfriend was cheated by someone for hundreds of thousands, how can I comfort him?

Updated on society 2024-07-22
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    1.Comfort him.

    The boyfriend was defrauded of more than 100,000 yuan, and as his girlfriend's first reaction, it should not be blame, but comfort. He already blames himself very much, if you make noise and complain about him at this time, it will undoubtedly make up for him. You let him know that you care more about him than about money.

    2.Give advice.

    He may have lost his mind at this time, which requires you to calm down and find a way to solve the problem. You can advise him to go to the police, and also give him an analysis to find clues and find all clues related to the case.

    3.Take over finances.

    If you are planning to marry him, then you can take this opportunity to take the financial power in your hands. Of course, you can't be aggressive, and no one can accept it if you speak too badly. You can use this incident as a starting point and suggest that his funds can be kept with you, and everyone will be a family in the future anyway.

    In this way, at least someone will be responsible for it, and they will not be afraid of similar incidents again. If your boyfriend doesn't want to do this, you should not say anything about it, and follow the first and second points.

    People will always be confused, if your boyfriend has always been so self-conscious, has been so confused, or you are with him for his money, then you have to carefully consider whether to continue walking. If not, then you have to forgive him, after all, in life, everyone will have one or two hurdles, and they should be ruined and prevented from disasters.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can comfort your boyfriend first and tell him to be careful next time. Don't be scammed again. Then tell him that you will always be there for him and be there for him no matter what difficulties he encounters.

    Tell him that difficulties are inevitable and that you will overcome them together, and then tell your boyfriend to be careful in the future, not to be cheated again, and to pay attention. Don't be greedy. Give him a proper reminder.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As a girlfriend, tell him directly, after receiving a lesson, don't be on guard against other people's words in the future, and believe that everything has a good and bad side, and when you have to consider this aspect of everything, it will not be so easy to be pitted, and everything can still be reopened.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The best comfort is to support him behind his back and help him find a way to solve this problem, such as chasing the money back, chatting with him more, seeing what the problem is, and then thinking of countermeasures together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can ask your boyfriend to recoup his losses.

    Because your boyfriend's money was cheated by someone else, then this is an illegal act.

    Let your boyfriend collect evidence and then call the police to deal with it, so that a certain amount of damage can be recovered.

    When you encounter a difficulty, you must find a way to solve it in order to be truly happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell him that money can be made, but learn the lesson from last time, and tell him that he will make money with him, and then come back and see that hundreds of thousands are also small money.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The wife should say something like this: "Dear, don't be sad, it doesn't matter, there must be a cause for the effect, and karma is just a matter of karma, which means that we owe 200,000 yuan to others in our last life, and we should pay it back in this life, and the wealth will go to people's happiness." While saying this, I should also give a few examples of karma to demonstrate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello friend, what's the use of comforting this situation, go to the police with him, it's the right thing to recover the money, good luck.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should be accompanying your boyfriend, you need to have no power at this moment, more than 100,000 is not a small amount, so help him sort out the things at hand and help him make a comeback.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Accompany him out more to relax and enlighten him to pay tuition, as long as he works hard, he will definitely make a comeback, whose road can always be smooth sailing, so pay attention to making friends in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let him comfort himself, no matter how much he says, it's useless!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Experience teaches. This time, we should spend money to buy a lesson, and we must not do it again in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Who can ask this question, I praise him. My boyfriend was cheated by someone for hundreds of thousands, how can I comfort him?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The wife should say something like this: "Dear, don't be sad, it doesn't matter, there must be a cause for the effect, and karma is just a matter of karma, which means that we owe 200,000 yuan to others in our last life, and we should pay it back in this life, and the wealth will go to people's happiness."

    While saying this, I should also give a few examples of karma to demonstrate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to have a good blind date, money is something outside the body, being deceived is experience, let's be careful in the future, take good care of your body, take care of your body is the most important thing, with a body, everything will be there, and your husband just said so, he will think about it, money is earned by people, as long as someone is not afraid of anything, **, let's stay away in the future, this is even if you buy an experience, you just tell him like this, he will definitely figure it out.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You tell your husband that money is something outside the body, and you don't bring it with you in life or in death. No one knows which will come first, tomorrow or the accident, so the most important thing is to be healthy, live well in the moment, as long as there are people in the money, it is not a problem.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no way to comfort this, so you can persuade him o After all, there is no way to get back the money you lost.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You tell him it's okay. The two of you are fine, you can make money when the money is gone, you believe him. And if you are deceived, you can call the police to deal with it. The police will also help you investigate.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell him that if something goes wrong because of this incident, he will lose even more, and he will be deceived into having a better eye next time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, I envy your boyfriend for having such a good girl by his side to share his worries. Money is something outside the body, and you are his true wealth. The girls who answer now are very realistic, and other girls may first accuse their boyfriend of being so careless, but you are putting yourself in his shoes, if it were me, I would be more guilty of your open-mindedness, I think your boyfriend will also have this kind of thought, the so-called eat a trench and grow wise, tell him, just take it as a lesson in life.

    Time will smooth everything out, be by his side, I wish you a sweet love!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't know how much money Bai Dao defrauded, Du We also encountered it, at that time, Zhi was deceived by ** 20,000 dao

    We were also at that time.

    Fall, why do good people have such a situation, but, life always has to go through some trials is the real life, money is a foreign thing, there is no money to find a way to earn again, but as long as you have confidence, you can still earn again, you should spend money to buy experience, now this society is quite complicated, to be a good person, good people will always have good results, take your time, everyone will have this or that experience, as long as you can take it calmly, don't think too much, money can not buy happiness and health! I hope your boyfriend finds happiness again as soon as possible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't need much comfort. Be by his side.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's a blessing or a curse, it's a curse that can't be avoided!!

    Let's take a look ...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When something doesn't happen to him, the more deliberate you are, the more uncomfortable he is about dating. You encourage him a lot and encourage him to cheer him up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, encourage him more, and don't mention his losses too much.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and the key depends on what happened, who it relates to, and what kind of personality your friend has.

    If your friend is cheated and the other party is someone he doesn't know, then call the police, business, if the content of the pit is not enough to call the police, find a reporter**.

    If your friend is cheated, the other person is someone your friend knows. Your friend's personality is still relatively hot, you can help him come up with ideas and let him find the other party's theory by himself; If your friend is a cowardly person, go with him, or find a few more friends.

    If your friend doesn't want to go to the other person himself, say something reassuring to your friend, or be a loyal listener and take your friend for a break, and he will be much better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As a friend, first of all, companionship is the best help, so that he can have a confiding object and an outlet, and then you can also see if there is someone who can help him, you can also come up with ideas, for the facts that can not be changed, as much as possible to comfort the heart of your friend, after all, everything has to look forward, eat a trench and grow a wisdom.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As a good friend, you can comfort him by pressing like this:

    Suffer a loss and learn a lesson, forget it, don't be sad.

    Think of it as spending money to buy lessons.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Money is earned by people, and if you are sick again because of this matter, it will be more unlucky, accompany him to say some comforting words, play with friends, and have fun, let him gradually come out.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can talk to him, there will inevitably be setbacks in life, eat a trench and grow wise, and listen to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No matter how much you can comfort you, no matter how much you can comfort you, it will be in vain. It's hundreds of thousands. It's not just a decimal place!

    Do what you intended, and comfort is to persuade her and encourage her to face the harsh reality. Do everything possible to find a solution to the problem. As long as it is proved that it is not the person who swiped the card, you can appeal.

    If the card is swiped without knowing it, you can call the police to solve it. No matter how you say it, you can't bear it yourself!Not to mention that I can't afford it myself!

    Even if you can't afford it!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Is this a mistake in making friends?If he can't afford to pay off hundreds of thousands of dollars and doesn't call the police, is he going to jail?How to comfort, if it is a friend, help her analyze how to minimize the loss, a few words are useless.

    The society is complicated, and the credit card dares to lend out, and the IQ makes people anxious and don't think about their own affordability, if they go in and stay for a few years, how resentful. If you can't afford it, you can't hide, help the bank find him to call the police, so that you may be able to escape the robbery, and the bank that swiped out his card will definitely look for him, and it is best to find a lawyer, and hundreds of thousands of banks will not be exempted and will not suffer losses.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What is the comfort, the woman who pays so much IQ tax should be pulled down, don't put you in the ditch one day.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why bear it yourself, as long as you prove that you don't use the card, you can plead.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It is useless to comfort her, she can only encourage her to face the reality, find a solution to the problem, and if she is brushed without knowing it, she can call the police to solve it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Poured,Hit the wall,A bai ruined,Don't be afraid,It's normal to take a wrong step or two.,Originally, this thing wasn't 100 percent.,If you dao belongs to that kind of anxious person.,It's still recommended that you don't play for the time being.,Because it's not good to be impatient.,Unconsciously, it's on the brain.,In fact, it's not the book to others but completely defeated in your own mentality.,I used to be like this.,Later, I met a big brother Fa Ge. If it weren't for Fa Ge 8355 fishing, I would have fallen into the abyss 62888 and couldn't extricate myself You have to be patient enough and be very calm and keep a clear head, if you feel that you are very confused now, you can only leave Penguin + Penguin I hope it can help everyone.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Before I touched this, I was not rich and expensive, but also a well-off family, I didn't worry about eating and drinking, I had a house, I had a car, and it all came to naught in a month, I cried, my heart hurt, my family and relatives looked at me differently, but fortunately I met a nobleman, took me out of the abyss, and took me to earn it back, I am really grateful to the nobleman, if you have the same experience as me, you can go to my noble person (fib m8 22) is the same person who has fallen to the end of the world, where do you not know.

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