Life is full of lies, would you rather live in lies?

Let's talk about the results first, I don't want to live in lies. The reason I don't want to live in lies is because living in lies makes me feel stupid.

1. Living in lies will lead you to make some wrong decisions. Living in lies will lead you to do a lot of wrong things. For example, a man doesn't like you in the first place, he has a lot of women outside, and he is still hooking up outside when he marries you.

But his family and the people around you know about it, but they don't tell you about it and keep you in the dark. If you were you, would you be willing to accept something like this?

I don't want to accept it, because when you don't know about it, you will still be good to him as always, treat him as a treasure in the palm of your hand, and treat him as a very important person. And you are nothing in his eyes, he treats you as if you were once worthless, and he is out there and hurts you wantonly. I think it's a bad feeling to be kept in the dark.

If I had known what was really going on, I could have made some good decisions that would have hurt myself.

2. Living in lies will make others think of themselves as fools. If everyone else knows what's going on and you're in the dark, I think people will think you're going to be a fool.

For example, your husband cheated on you, and you are still good to him as always. You don't know that he betrayed you, and when your friends and relatives find out about you, they don't tell you, they still hide it from you. They are hiding from you, in fact, they are treating you as a joke in private, and they may also warn their children, you see who was betrayed by their husband, and they still don't know that they are still so good to him.

This makes myself a joke, so I don't want to live in such a lie. I want to know the truth, and I know the truth and I can make the right decision to live a better life.

I don't want to live in lies, life is full of lies, whether it's lying to myself or the other person lying, there is no trust between two people.

I certainly don't want to live in lies, because lies do me more harm than good, and they make me feel especially painful and sad.

I don't want to live in a lie and tell a lie once, I need 100 or a thousand lies to make a lie, and I will be very tired.

To be honest, I really don't want to live in lies, which will really overwhelm me, and even question the people around me, and it will also bring a lot of pressure to myself.

I simply don't want to live in lies, because lies are a kind of deception for me, and it makes me especially miserable to know the truth.

I don't want to live in a lie, because I find it particularly hypocritical and gives me a particularly uncomfortable feeling.

I think life needs white lies. Sometimes white lies in life can avoid some troubles, and some discordant things, and can also give people motivation.

I don't think there's a right or wrong thing about this. Because this kind of white lie is easy to give people a sense of hope, and if this hope can last, it is of course good.

But once this lie is not sustainable, then the blow it will bring to us will be huge, and it will be a heart-rending feeling. Of course, I'm speaking purely from an emotional point of view. Rationally speaking, our lives are needed.

Sometimes we need some white lies to warm ourselves and comfort our wounded souls, to keep ourselves hopeful that everything is happening for the best and that everything will get better and better. Even if many things can really let us down, if we are disappointed in everything, life starts to get difficult.

The benefits of a white lie:

Lies are well-intentioned and not harmful to everyone. This will not only not cause trouble for yourself, but will be more conducive to solving the problem. White lies are beautiful.

When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and has magical power.

A lie with good intentions cannot be said to be deception, because deception in general is utilitarian. White lies can bring people back to life; It can make people ignite the flame of hope in their hearts; It can make people's beliefs more firm and persistent.