An emotional problem that is knowingly wrong

One day, Plato asked the teacher Socrates what love was. The teacher told him to go to the wheat field first, and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field, during which he could only pick it once, and he could only walk forward, not turn back.

Plato did as his teacher said. As a result, he walked out of the field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it.

He said: Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see the biggest and most golden one during the period, I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I don't pick it; When I went to the front, I was never as good as I had seen before, and the largest and most golden ears of wheat had long been missed; So I didn't pick anything.

The teacher said: This is "love".

Then one day, Plato asked his teacher what marriage was, and his teacher told him to go into the woods and cut down the largest and most luxuriant tree in the woods, which was the most suitable for a Christmas tree at home. Again, you can only cut it once, and you can only go forward without looking back.

Plato did as his teacher said. This time, he came back with an ordinary, not very lush, not too bad tree. The teacher asked him how he brought this ordinary tree back, and he said

With my last experience, when I was halfway to the distance and empty-handed, I saw that the tree was not too bad, so I cut it down, so as not to miss it and end up with nothing. ”

The teacher said, "This is marriage!" ”

Life is like walking through wheat fields and woods, you only walk once, and you can't turn back. To find your own best ears of wheat and trees, you have to have a lot of courage and a lot of effort.

For you, I think, you should try to find a girlfriend who is suitable for you, you and her, you may just be able to talk, and thus have a good feeling, you take this feeling as love, but it's not, you have to think about it, think about it, if she doesn't have a boyfriend, you can't get married in October, you can't be together, you can't think about her, you can't think about it, your family can't agree with it, my own opinion, decide the person or you, think about it.

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It depends on what type of person you are.

1.If you're a career-oriented person, it's best to stay the way you are;

2.If you are an emotional type, go for your own happiness.

This kind of thing should be solved quickly, and everyone may be hurt in the end.

I'm just suggesting that you'll be the one who comes up with the idea in the end

"It's very easy to talk about, and it has a very tacit sense of understanding"It's hard to find. But after all, she is already getting married.

I think you should choose the third one, at least you can be good friends forever. Friendships can also last a lifetime!

My opinion: let go of this relationship and find your own feelings.

Does your friend matter? If you want to be born, choose 3. If you generally choose 1, if it is just a business exchange, you can also think about the possible consequences, and another point: friends and wives should not be bullied. Do what you can.

Women are everywhere, but friends are not easy to make, don't rob them, you will meet many such girls in the future!

A gentleman doesn't win people's love, and the second thing to talk about may not be able to talk about it for a lifetime, think about it yourself.

Do you feel like that, after all, he's your friend.

3 aWhy should we be suffering?

You'll still come across good ones.