Emotional issues, is it right or wrong to go on。。。。。。。。。。。。。

In fact, you know it in your heart, but you still can't control your feelings, or are willing to do things for her, this can't help but understand, but after all, your life has to go on, and she can no longer go on with your life, it can only interfere with your life, if you don't let yourself come out, then you will continue to be influenced by her in the future, if you meet a new girlfriend in the future, your ex-girlfriend comes to you again, you go again, even if you don't like her at that time, but that becomes your habit, Your new girlfriend still can't stand it, girls are particularly concerned about this, you must know how to refuse, if you don't refuse, as you said, she will feel that it is your problem, you are voluntary, a person is too good to her, she will feel that she should, not thanks, you should come out and tell yourself that next time if there is something to help, then you can find someone else to help her, and make it clear to her, if you are not very good at knowing how to refuse, you refuse once, twice, she will know your bottom line, and there will be no more things to find you in the futureIf you don't change, then you will also be affected in the future, and what should people do. Isn't it too cost-effective? Be sure to get rid of this sense of dependency.

Dude, all I can say is that men are actually more likely to get hurt sometimes.

I can't say exactly the same situation as you, but it's not much worse, I broke up on October 3rd, the day before was my birthday, but I didn't think there was anything wrong with it, but we broke up, we got along for almost 6 years, although there were many contradictions in the middle, but they were solved by the efforts of the two, but they broke up, the reason is very simple, the goals pursued by the two are different, since going to college, because we are no longer in a school every day we will play **, except for special circumstances, the middle has not been broken, Now that she is about to graduate but broke up, she proposed, there is only one "I'm sorry", the breakup has been until now, and there is contact every day, although it is only a few words "good night".

After looking at my experience and yours, I can say that you don't need to continue, it's true that it's more difficult to be friends after a breakup, but it's not impossible, if you really love her, just bear it silently by yourself, time can definitely dilute everything, I'm very confident, I will always care about her, but I won't disturb her life anymore, she has her own right to choose, maybe I said it lightly, but in fact, it is really uncomfortable.

As for whether you have been used as a tool, is this very important, compared to your breakup, these are actually nothing, there is no need to have a return after loving a person, love is convenient to pay in return They are often disproportionate, what you have to do now is just to get used to the days without her, for whether you need to pretend to be her in your heart, there is no right or wrong, there is no need to be entangled.

If you stand on your side, I think she is using you, I only look for you when there is something, and it doesn't matter who you are when you're fine, don't think about such a girl anymore, go find something that interests you and relax, so that you can forget her temporarily, and after a long time, you will get used to the days without her, and you will treat her like an ordinary person.

She has a hard time, she likes you, you like her, but something is stuck between you. Choose one or the other:

1.Break it, since she doesn't tell you her troubles, you should not know, because she doesn't trust you enough.

2.Go on, but to find the reason for her conflict, the friendly prompt to pry open her friend's mouth may be able to ask something. Or get her drunk, everyone says that she spits the truth after drinking, but you have to make sure that she is really drunk, in case she comes to a trick, you will be miserable...

If you don't let go, stick to what you like. If you find that you don't love her anymore, you talk about breaking up.