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Anonymous users2024-02-12I'm in the opposite situation with 2.
I'll start by saying that the next 2 is not true, college classmates are a very important network of interpersonal relationships in the future, maybe whoever is developed can pull you a hand and save you a lot of trouble, so the friendship of the university must be cherished.
I'm 2 years older this year, 1 year younger than you, in fact, I'm the kind who skips class every day to play games, and my roommates are all in class on time, so it stands to reason that there should be a lot of prejudice between us.
But in fact, our relationship is not bad, and the teacher will tell me what homework he has left and what he says.
I think the relationship between classmates is mutual, you say that your roommate is cold to you and doesn't want to deal with them, but if you think about it the other way, your roommate must also feel that you are cold or unfriendly, so they avoid you, everyone is a flesh and blood person, everyone has trouble sometimes, as long as you try to change your attitude, become more warm and friendly, take the initiative to contact them, to give care and love and accept their response to you.
Trust that you can save your friendship.
good luck
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Anonymous users2024-02-11I have a problem like you, but you also have to empathize, it is possible that you hurt them somewhere, girls are the most sensitive animals, you can talk to them before you go to bed! You can invite them to join you in the student council, and you can make peace first.
I am sure that you will overcome this difficulty.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10It's hard to say this question, in fact, 4 people can get together is a kind of fate, try to get along better, if your personality, the most biased, then you should also maintain a classmate relationship, that is, the kind of relationship that can help each other with small problems!
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Anonymous users2024-02-09To be honest, I have encountered a situation like you now, and I have no choice but to make friends with them, and I have to get along if I can't get along, so that there will be no ......contradictions
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Anonymous users2024-02-08You can't rush either. Find a suitable opportunity to spread it out. Express your thoughts and feelings to them.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07It is better to look for problems in yourself first.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06One step at a time.
You can't win 'em all.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05A few people in my dorm room play every night and don't go to class. I went to bed on time to class, and slowly my roots faded away. College is meant to do your own thing.
Everyone has different goals, different outlooks on life, and if you don't speculate for more than half a sentence, you won't have any dealings in the future. Not to mention the help of others. Just take care of yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Only by taking the initiative to approach others, not counting small gains and losses, and interacting with everyone seriously and sincerely, you will slowly get better.
Let's start with a word: if you want to be good friends with someone, you have to tolerate his shortcomings. So when you face the people in the dormitory, you must first take the initiative to get to know them, you have to understand the topics they like to understand, the things they like, try to talk about these things in front of them, if you really don't like these things, you can keep silent, don't be impatient with their chat. >>>More
Wow, maybe it's like this in universities, but it also has a lot to do with the personality of the recognition. I think you're similar to me, you're a person who is more thoughtful and easier to think about. >>>More
After a long period of contact, contradictions will naturally arise, it cannot be said who does well and who does not do well, everyone has their own habits, their own way of doing things, when they go out, just one word: forbearance. After all, for the time being, everyone lives under the same roof, and they all have to meet, so it's not good to be too stiff. >>>More
If you want to deal with the dormitory relationship, then you should consider each other everywhere in your usual interactions, and you should not be too selfish, so that it is particularly bad for your development, if you have the opportunity, it is best to go out to dinner together.
The next time you ask something he knows, if every time you ask is what he knows, he probably won't be interested, he should treat you as an opponent, he wants to surpass you, so he doesn't know what he doesn't know, he doesn't let you know, in fact, I think it's quite boring, he likes to follow, just follow it, the more you care, the last loss is yourself.