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The child's growth is not all smooth sailing, there will always be some things, some are expected, some are unexpected, no matter what, will make the child continue to improve step by step. In the face of these complex and changeable natural environments, children's minds are not mature enough, and sometimes they don't know how to deal with them, which requires parents to give their children effective and correct guidance, so that children will not lose their way and develop rapidly. Parents often say these words to their children, children are getting better and better, so that their children's future life trajectory will be more successful, and children will be grateful to their parents when they grow up.
So as not to stab the child's sensitive heart and make the child become inferior and introverted. Say more about what is good for your child, so that your child can become better.
1. "I can see your strengths."
Every child has personal advantages, parents can not only see the child's defects, generally look at the child with admiration, find the child's strengths, and assist the child to tap its development potential, so that the child will be more high-quality. Even if the child has a bad personality, don't blame the child, try to look at it from a different angle, and you will find that the child's personality may have its own benefits.
2. "I'm sure of it".
Children's thinking and thinking are not mature enough, when encountering problems and difficulties, it is inevitable to be at a loss, parents must motivate their children, let the children try to be diligent, do not have to look down on the child for no reason, need more children to say "I am detailed to you", then in the child's heart, with their own parents as a strong backing, he will try to be diligent.
3. "You can do this well".
On the road of children's growth, parents should let go of many things and let their children learn to do it on their own, to show children opportunities for self-development, you can find that children are actually very good, therefore, parents should try to let go, and tell children that "you can do this thing well", which will make children more confident to try and struggle.
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The first point is to encourage the child to make the child become better and better, the second point is to say that the child is very smart and cute, which will also make the child like you very much, and the third point often praises the child for being very individual, so that the child will also be very smart.
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If parents often say something positive about their child, motivate their child, and praise their child, then the child will become better and better.
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Don't be afraid, there is one thing you can do that we must make clear, and that is that children will encounter all kinds of hardships when they are young.
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<> "Say these 9 words to your children every day, and your children are getting better and better."
I believe you Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: "The whole secret of educating children is to believe in children and liberate children." And the parents' sentence "I believe in you" will make children full of courage and more confident in the process of growing up.
You are very strong, don't give up on children who are not afraid of difficulties, this is how it is refined. In the process of growing up, children will always encounter various difficulties. What we have to do is to cheer them up and tell them that they are strong enough to give up.
Let children hone themselves in difficulties and overcome obstacles.
How are you doing today? Friend-like parent-child relationships begin with this sentence. Like a friend, ask your child how he or she is doing today. Let them open their hearts to you, share happiness together, and face problems together, which can not only enhance parent-child relationship, but also help children in time.
4.I have always been by your side to tell my children that we are the bottom line of TO. With our support, children will have nothing to fear when they encounter themselves outside:
My parents love me and support me. "He is very grounded and knows that he has an inexhaustible strength to face the whole world.
I am proud of you, and with the appreciation of my parents, children will affirm themselves. Children are not yet mentally mature, and often position themselves according to the evaluation of themselves by others, especially according to the evaluation of their parents. If he is often praised, his heart is full of pride and confidence, and he feels that he is good and special.
6.Washington, who said that everything will be fine, "All the harmony and balance in life, health and fitness, success and happiness, are produced and created by the upward psychology of optimism and hope." If you want to raise an optimistic child, then, start with this sentence!
Thank you for helping me to be respected by others, first of all, I have to learn to respect others. Thank you is a sign of respect for others, and parents often say these two words to their children, which can teach children to always be grateful to anyone.
What are your dreamsDreams are the source of future achievements, the motivation for progress and hard work, and childhood is a season to let your dreams fly. With the cognition of the world, each child gradually has their own value orientation, imagination and expectation for the future. We can use this phrase to guide and inspire our children.
I love you, love needs words. Many parents will say "I love you" to their children when they are very young, but after the child is 3 years old, it will be difficult to speak. Don't be like this, love needs to be expressed in words, a sentence of "I love you" can replace a thousand words, melt the child's heart, and bring warmth to the growth of T.
The power of a child's growth often comes from what his parents say. How many words did you say to your child in the above 9 sentences?
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The first sentence is, if I were you, I think I would do the same, the second sentence is child, you are awesome, I think you did the right thing, and the third sentence is. I don't think it's right for you to do that, but I think it has some point.
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1. "Thank you" When your child helps you, you must say thank you to your child, so that your child knows how to be grateful. 2 "Baby you can, Mom and Dad believe in you" This will increase the child's self-confidence and generosity. It also allows children to feel the love of their parents.
3. Make your own decisions, mothers often tell their children to decide their own things, so that they can cultivate their sense of responsibility.
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During the growth of children, it is best to get attention and positive encouragement, cultivate their optimism and self-confidence, parents often say the following 5 sentences, can make children more and more excellent.
1.Our children will become amazing people!
2.Don't be afraid, you can!
3.As long as you are better today than yesterday!
4.As long as there is a pay, there will be a return.
5.Well done, keep up your good mindset.
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You're awesome, you look so good trying harder, you're doing so well, saying these encouraging words often will make children more and more confident and bold in doing things.
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