Good Words from Parents to Their Children 5

"8 Tools" to help you build a positive parent-child relationship.

The purpose of education is to train children to become real people, specifically, to cultivate children's six personalities: self-esteem, self-confidence, responsibility, enterprising spirit, interest in learning and good habits. Mi Renhai said:

Among them, if the child has the first three personalities, he will definitely not have problems, he will grow up healthily, and if he still has the later personality, he can become an excellent person. ”

In order to cultivate the six personalities of children, a positive parent-child relationship is crucial, how to establish a positive parent-child relationship? Mi Renhai introduced the "Eight Tools": Love, Praise, Encouragement, Affirmation, Understanding, Accompaniment, Rule-making, and Criticism.

As long as parents can use these tools well, they can build a good parent-child relationship. ”

Every parent will say that they love their children, but can children feel your love? "Only by listening, speaking, watching, and doing, and using the tool of 'love' well, can children feel loved. Mi Renhai said, "Listen to children like leaders; If you have something to say to your child, never say something that hurts your child's self-esteem, and don't teach your child in front of others; Look at your child with love and not stare at your child's report card; Do things for your child in moderation and moderation, not too much and too little.

Mi Renhai also explained seven other tools, he said, praise is a good tool for children to build self-esteem and self-confidence, but nearly one-third of parents think that praise will make children proud, "as long as praise is done in the right way, it can play a good positive role, including praising the child's strengths and immediate praise, the specific steps are: state the facts, confirm the reasons for praise, express the happy mood and hope that he (she) will continue to maintain, and finally have physical contact, such as hugging the child, Patting the shoulder and holding the child's hand, etc. ”

No matter when the child fails or succeeds, parents should encourage the child more and give the child the courage to start again and the confidence to keep trying. If parents want their children to do what they want their children to do or what qualities they have, then when they find out that their children have done it sometimes, parents should say it out loud to confirm it, which will make the child remember it deeply, and after a few times, the child will form good habits. Parents should communicate with their children more easily, understand their children's thoughts and reasons for doing something, and truly understand their children.

Parents should stay with their children as much as possible, only when they are together, parents can know what their children say, do, and how they do it, so that they can communicate with them and let each other know and trust each other more. When making rules, you must consult with your child, and only rules that your child agrees to can follow and be useful. When you criticize your child for making a mistake, you should talk about it on the facts, state the facts and point out the consequences, be sure to protect your child's self-esteem, and express positive hopes.

Children are the simplest, least harmless and most vulnerable group in the world. Weak and sensitive, their evaluation of adults can already form a psychological reaction. Yours will definitely make her heart flutter, and your unintentional reproach will also form an indelible shadow in her young heart.

1. "Fools, useless things." ”

2. "You're a piece of trash. ”

3. "You can really do such a thing." ”

4. "Shut up! Why are you just disobedient? ”

5. "If I say no, I can't!" ”

6. "I don't care about you anymore, just let it be." ”

7. "Please, don't do this again?" ”

8. "If you score 100 points, I will buy you ......."”

9. "It's really sad for me to do this kind of thing. ”

10. "You've done something wrong again, it's just bad." ”

Experts believe that children's hearts are fragile, they want to be supported and understood, every word of encouragement, will make children confident, but a rough reprimand is enough to make their dignity be greatly hurt. It is very scary to easily deny one's own children and to doubt their abilities. "Stupid, stupid, stupid, bad" is the harshest sentence in the hearts of children, ruthlessly turning them into an "alternative" to a family or school, and at the same time being out of step with their surroundings, their spiritual world will also become gray.

Edison was listed as a "stupid child" by his teachers as a child, but his mother kept encouraging him, saying that he would succeed, and finally, Edison became a great inventor. In fact, every child is a genius, but many of our parents lack discovery and cultivation methods, so that "geniuses" pass by their children.

In the eyes of your parents, you will always be a good child.

When you grow up, you have to listen to your mother

In the face of setbacks, we must persevere to the end

In short, be brave in the face of everything!!

Assertive. Don't give up on your ideals and stay the course;

Brave. Don't be intimidated by the small setbacks in front of you, and move forward!

In our eyes, you will always be the best child, and we hope that no matter what waves you encounter in the future, you will be strong in the face of success. In the eyes of your parents, you will always be a good child.

When you grow up, you have to listen to your mother

In the face of setbacks, we must persevere to the end

In short, be brave in the face of everything!!

1. Children, you must learn to cook. It's not about serving. When the people who love you are not around, so that you can be kind to yourself - to be able to survive independently.

2. Children, you must learn to drive. It's not about status. This way, at any time, you can go wherever you want, without asking for anyone - freedom.

3. Children, you must go to college, a regular university. It has nothing to do with academic qualifications. In life, you need to go through these years, and you need to live a life that is unrestrained and can be dyed with the fragrance of books - once you enter the society, you will enter the market.

4. Child, do you know? As far as the footprint is, the heart is as wide as it is. If your heart is wide, you will be happy. In case you can't get far, let the books take you away – broaden your horizons, with the help of knowledge.

5. Child, if there are only two bowls of water left in the world, one bowl for drinking, and one bowl for washing your face and underwear - self-esteem has nothing to do with wealth or poverty.

Five words that parents should say to their children 1. Action is the ladder of success, the more actions, the higher you climb.

2. Your bright big eyes, full of intelligence and cuteness, are the "reading master" of our class. However, there is still a lack of steadfastness in learning, and I hope that you can get to know each other in the new semester, and go to the next level!

3. Thank you for the teacher's concern for the children, our family is very happy to meet such an excellent teacher as you. Our parents will work with teachers to ensure the healthy growth of children. 4. Mockery is a kind of power, a negative force. Praise is also a strength, but it is an enterprising force.

5. There is no road longer than the foot, and there is no mountain higher than the man. Always go straight ahead, the road is always at your feet, always go straight ahead, you will always be the highest one, believe in yourself, everything is possible.

Parents can often express your encouragement and love to their children, such as: 1At such a young age, he is so good at doing things, which is really not to be underestimated.

2.Baby, Daddy can't do as well as you at your age. 3.

Dad saw it, you just behaved, I'm proud of you...

Dear children, Thank you for coming to us and choosing us to be your mom and dad We are very happy to have you by your side and add countless laughter and laughter to our lives.

Mom and Dad don't ask you how good or smart you are, we just want you to be healthy, safe, happy, happy, we hope that you will feel sweet when you look back on your life, and you will feel that life is worth it.

For students in difficulty, you will always stretch out your enthusiastic hands, work hard, and a better tomorrow belongs to you! Honest and simple, you have raised the ideal sail. But don't be satisfied with the results you've taken.

You have to be sensible, you have to grow up slowly, and I won't have time to protect you when the time comes!

You want to learn to be self-reliant, to learn to recognize the people of life.

You have to learn to take care of yourself, and when the time comes, you have to go out to work, because your parents can't help you anything, you can only rely on yourself.

You have to keep yourself in a good state, don't be swayed by others, and then let go of your mind, don't think about anything, everything is in the best state.

The girls' families will not be cleaned up.

A college student can't do that.

1. On the road of learning, we should avoid encountering such and such difficulties, but we hope that you will dare to overcome difficulties, study hard, and be sure to get rid of your bad habit of playing. I hope you will improve every day and every month.

2. The sunshine and love bath of the trip to Beijing made me wake up suddenly, and it was time to reflect on myself thoroughly! Family.

The misunderstanding has gone too far, does the power of our minds help the child, or does it hinder the child? You can't wait for a moment, you have to turn back right away while everything is still there! Everything can be done again, but the godson cannot be repeated!

3. Kid, I'm sorry! We forget that this deprives you of the skills to practice self-care, and now makes you look unorganized and unconfident in your life and study.

Parents most want to say to their children, study hard, stay healthy, learn to be self-reliant, and don't trouble others if you can solve difficulties by yourself, which is the best performance.

Well, how do you write what parents want to say to their children? If the child is that kind of introvert, you can encourage the child more, if the child is the kind of person who is particularly proud and hungry, you can praise him if he is cheerful, and then let him guard against arrogance and rashness, and describe it according to the difference of his own children.

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I want to tell a high school kid how to write.

1. Child, remember that when you cry, your mother is here waiting for you.

2. Baby daughter, seeing you grow up happily, we sincerely feel that no matter how many hardships we have experienced, it is worth it.

3. The splendid season greets the splendid you. The world changes because of you, my daughter.

4. Daughter, you have a pair of wings. Fly tenaciously, and don't be succumbed to the wind and rain; Fly sincerely, and don't be intoxicated by the sweet honey. Towards a clear goal, fly towards a better life.

5. With you in life, I feel colorful; Memories of you feel warm; Feel proud to have you on the journey; There is you in the loss, and you feel resolute; There is you in silence, and it feels brilliant; Loved ones have you, my daughter, feel happy!

6. Daughter, remember that your smile is the best concern, and the text message sent to you is the best gift, in the busy days, I hope my greetings are like Sprite and ice cubes to bring you infinite refreshment, so that you can spend every day happily.

7. Mom and Dad saw your smile, no matter how big the troubles were, I forgot them, baby daughter, I am so happy to have you.

8. A warm greeting, a thoughtful hug, a small text message, and an affectionate blessing! To my most concerned friend, I wish my daughter a happy and carefree day on this clear and cloudy day, and happiness is boundless!

1. You are a sensible child, but you don't have to worry about learning, you are naughty, I hope you can focus on learning, and your grades will definitely improve!

2. I hope that I can get better results in the next exam, as parents, we will strengthen supervision, cooperate with teachers, and pay attention to children's trends with teachers in a timely manner!

3. In the past semester, the child has made progress and made certain achievements, as an ordinary party member, parents express their heartfelt thanks to the school leaders and teachers.

4. You are a smart child whose academic performance is constantly improving and your classroom performance is improving day by day. If you take a break to read after doing your homework, you'll be even better!

5. You are a smart and sensible child, polite to your elders, but a little willful and arrogant, unwilling to accept criticism from others, I hope you can correct this shortcoming.

6. XX has made progress in this final exam, and I hope to make persistent efforts, sum up experience, correct deficiencies, win without arrogance, defeat without discouragement, continue to work hard, and strive for better.

7. This semester, under the guidance of the teacher, I have corrected some minor problems, but I still have some willfulness, I hope you will strengthen physical exercise in the future and get along with your classmates, as well as practice good words.

8. Thank you very much to the teachers for their hard work and love for the children, the children have made great progress, performed very well during the holidays, helped the family to do housework, cared for relatives and classmates, and completed homework on time.

9. With confidence, determination, perseverance, and through your own down-to-earth struggle, the ideal in your heart will be realized! Remember, today's efforts will be rewarded tomorrow.

10. The world is fair, and God will not give too much to anyone. It is only a matter of time before what a person gains in some places and is destined to lose something in others.

11. Smart and clever, with strong learning ability, but everything is superficial and lacks perseverance. Most of the time he is more sensible, but sometimes he is more willful. There are principles in doing things, but sometimes there is a lack of flexibility.