How can you ask others generously, neither lowly nor arrogant?

You have to get along with the number ten on an equal footing, whether you are arrogant or arrogant, it is not the right way to get along with others.

Then you can do an equivalent exchange so that you don't have to go under.

Ask others with peaceful words, just ask for help, don't need to be low-minded, don't be arrogant, then say what happened to me recently and need your help, can you help me? Tell him what is in your heart, and explain to him what happened, so that people will be willing to help you.

In fact, I think what must be done in this matter is to be neither humble nor arrogant in my heart, that is, like your generous request or directly said, I hope you can help me, because you yourself have that kind of value, you can be neither humble nor arrogant.

No one will ruin themselves in order to help others, who will choose to provide help within their ability within the scope of their authority, if your favor will bring trouble or trouble to the other party, then the other party will undoubtedly find a way to reject you, no matter what your relationship is, try not to involve too much money relationship.

Interpersonal communication is maintained by feelings, once too much of the relationship involving monetary interests, it will make the relationship deteriorate, inclined to a labor-management, employment, purchase and other relationships, which is very unfavorable to the relationship between the two parties to maintain and maintain, if the helpless must involve monetary interests and other relationships can also consider the following two options: 1. Split the method, split this busy into a small help, for example, if you need to raise 100,000 yuan, you can find different people to split and borrow.

2. Transformation method, the interest relationship is regarded as a connection of contacts.

When asking for help, it's best to think ahead and make your request concrete, it's hard for anyone to be asked to give a solution when they don't understand a specific situation, and explain your goals and the cost of achieving them simply and clearly, so that others can gauge whether they can help you.

Take advantage of people's compensatory psychology and first put forward a big, higher demand to the other party. When the other party rejects your big and higher request, they will generally accept the small request you make again. In order to let the other party agree to your request, you can first make a big request, for example, if you want to borrow 20,000 yuan from the other party, you can tell him to borrow 50,000 yuan, and the other party is usually embarrassed not to lend you at all, so you will choose to say, "50,000 yuan, it's inconvenient now, you see how about lending you 20,000 yuan first?"

Then you will easily achieve your goal. However, if you start by saying to borrow 20,000 yuan, it is possible that you can only borrow 10,000 yuan.

I was a little happy when I missed you, and I was a little sad when I was happy. You're overwhelmed I can't guess, I'm inconsequential you can't imagine.

When you ask someone for advice, then you can just be more humble and say, "I don't understand this very well, can you explain it to me?"

Other people's requests are not inferior, and they are not arrogant, then you usually get the relationship.

It's not easy for people to live for a lifetime People are group animals, so in this group, what kind of attitude we live in determines what kind of interpersonal relationships we have, what kind of ideas determine what kind of interpersonal relationships we have, so it's really a good thing to be arrogant sometimes, because tall people give people a sense of pride, and people who sue give people a sense of indifference Do you think this is too appropriate? I think that's a bit inappropriate. People live in a group, they must help each other, be friendly with each other, it's not who is the leader, who is the subordinate, so there is no such thing as inferiority, we are friends, we must live in this group If there is anything in the group to help each other, what to say to each other, don't hide it. There is no such thing as a low-level and superior person As long as we show our sincerity, to everyone around us, I think they're all going to win their praise, they're going to think you're a good person, they're going to support you in life, they're going to support you in your work, they're going to be emotional creatures, and as long as everyone's efforts are recognized by others, then they're going to be friendly to you, they're going to be helpful to you at work, and there's not going to be a functional situation.

What people should have is self-esteem, not arrogance, and not inferiority. Win the praise of others with charm and ability.

High-profile work, low-key life, things develop in a good direction, don't care what others say, rely on your own strength to conquer nature, I hope it will help you, welcome to adopt!

Yes, live a little narcissistic and don't grovel to others.

Improve your abilities without pleasing anyone.

1. Don't criticize, blame or complain about others.

2。Genuine appreciation for others.

3。Think first of the needs of others, and arouse the needs that others urgently desire in their hearts (satisfying the self-esteem of others).

4。Genuine concern for others.

5。Keep smiling.

6。Remember the name of someone else, because for that person it is the sweetest and most important sound in the language.

7。Be a good listener and encourage others to talk more about themselves.

8。Talk about topics that interest others.

9。Make others feel important, and you have to do it sincerely.

10。Avoid debates.

11。Show respect for other people's opinions and don't say, "You're wrong." ”

12。If you're wrong, admit it quickly and sincerely.

13。Start in a friendly way.

14。First, let someone say "yes" (because they reacted with "yes").

15。Let the other person talk as much as possible.

16。Make others feel like it's their own idea.

17。Sincerely try to see things from the other person's point of view.

18。Be sympathetic to the other person's thoughts and desires.

19。Inspire others to generate a noble motive.

20。Bring your intentions to life dramatically.

21。Present a challenge (if you are going to get a motivated, fleshly person to agree with you).

22。Start with praise and sincere appreciation.

23。Indirectly pointing out the mistakes of others.

24。Before blaming others, talk about your own mistakes.

25。Ask questions instead of commands.

26。Save the face of others.

27。Praise others for every improvement, even if it is small.

28.Give a good name and let him preserve.

29。The way to encourage is to make what you want the other person to do seems to be easy to do.

30。Make the other person happy to do what you suggest.

31。Try asking him for help.

32。Overcome inner shyness and build the confidence to speak.

33。Give yourself courage, pretend not to be afraid, give yourself the opportunity to make a fool of yourself, and only then can you continue to make progress in practice.

34。Add your own characteristics to your words, and use enthusiasm to impress and infect the audience.

35。Don't try to pretend to be humorous.

People's hearts are mutual, if you play with the eyes of the heart, you have to play routines, no matter how good your friends are, they will be farther and farther away from you, get along with others, be sincere, be attentive.

Distance is a shield that protects our inner world.

See if you want to get along well or badly with others If it's positive, there is a saying that "think about how others treat you, treat people first, don't be too careful, think about things from the perspective of others first, and learn to empathize." However, you must also remember that it is impossible for everyone in this world to like you, and while being kind to others, there is no need to deliberately wronged yourself in order to please the other party, and you must have your own bottom line.

Getting along with others requires giving one's own sincerity, mutual trust and mutual understanding.

In the face of classmates and friends, they are not selfish and hypocritical. Give your sincerity when you get along. Tolerance can make the relationship between you and me more harmonious, and understanding can bring each other closer.

Do your best to help your friend when he needs help.

The most important thing is to treat people with integrity, narrow-mindedness is a disadvantage, to be sincere, to be tolerant, to be appropriate to forbearance, not to be too competitive, not to worry about gains and losses with others (under normal circumstances), and wait until you can bear it again! Also, you have to be confident and smiling, so I think it will be taken care of!

Of course, it's better to be humorous, so that it will be easier to blend in with the group or the individual!

In all conscience.

The meaning of having a clear conscience should be to be worthy of others and wronged yourself. Do things or speak according to other people's requirements, but the most important point is to maintain their own principles in style, a person has lost the original style and personality, it is equivalent to a waste person, only with a unique style can get the respect of others, respect can make a lot of good friends, make friends, know how to deal with others.

Regard others as men above men, and regard yourself as men under men. No matter how you behave, I think the first thing you have to gain is yourself, and if you lose yourself, then everything else will be out of the way. You get yourself, that is, you have your own backbone and self-confidence.

If you are specific, you have to practice, read more books on the philosophy of life. In the real society, the strong will be respected, and the weak are not welcome, but not everyone is strong, so it's good to be yourself.

Treat friends"Treat people with sincerity", to treat scheming people with intentions"When you see people, you talk about people, and when you see ghosts, you talk nonsense"

Every normal person has more or less friends.

If you want to get close to you, others will do whatever they want.

Often, voluntarily suffering, is the first magic method.

In the interaction between people, who can be infallible? Therefore, it is said that people are tolerant, inclusive, tolerant and tolerant when they get along with others. To achieve mental compatibility, attention should be paid to increasing the frequency of communication and finding common ground.

Treat others with your own sincerity.

It's all because of reality and circumstances!

First find the reason from yourself, find the reason in others, and find the key point, and you will know what to do

It's simple, sometimes it's good to be a little more tolerant.

They'll feel it.

Harmony is precious. Empathy. Neither humble nor arrogant. Wait a minute. Alas, life is very big, and only words and words can't be broken, 、、、

It's either intrigue or honesty...

No, it's all about asking someone else.

Of course, you have to be honest with others.

If it's very contrived.

No one else will want to have a real relationship with you.

In fact, getting along with each other is the process of running in with each other, and the reason why there is some friction is because many times we have no intention of speaking and the listener has the heart, and we must have our own small principles under the big principles, not trying to change the surrounding environment, but to adapt to the environment.

We also have it in our class, the teacher's lackey, this kind of person is over if you don't care about him.

If the opponent is strong, be friends with him, the ancients all said so, what can be done?

Self-deception, the market is still soft pinch.

You are a little hesitant, you have to think about so many small things, just tell the truth. People like to hear the truth, and if you make up some lies to send him now, he will think that you are a false person when he knows about it in the future! You have to know that the most important thing for people and things is sincerity, not tactfulness!

There are twists and turns, the willows are bright, and they are nearing the end, so they will not be bothered anymore. Thank you for your attention, the dripping water is unforgettable, and you will be annoyed in the future, please do your best.

You just tell her directly: Thank you, this matter has been resolved, please trouble.

The problem has been solved, thank you Ha for your hard work.

Treat him to a light meal, talk about your problem, and thank him.

Say. Don't bother you, I'll solve the problem, thank you. That's right.

It depends on what's going on, be tactful.

That means why you don't need it.

Truth be told, it really takes a bit of selfishness. There's nothing wrong with loving yourself, just do what you want to do, don't beat you to death if you don't want to, don't wronged yourself. People who have a good relationship to a certain extent can reluctantly agree, and the relationship is generally exempt from talking.

You always think about other people's feelings, so ask yourself, who really thinks about our feelings? Yes, you must not hesitate to take care of yourself when it is time to take care of yourself.

You can put things off indefinitely by telling them, "I can help with this, but I can't do anything at hand right now, I can't do it for a while." Or "I don't really have time right now, but I can introduce you to somebody, who might be good at this."

If you don't like to say no, try to find excuses to excuse them, and when you do it to them, you want to push the torah.

It's to postpone it takes a long time to do it well.

That way they won't beat your mind.

It depends on the situation, the specific situation is analyzed, if those things are relatively small and will not have a big impact on you, just raise your hand to do it, if it really violates your personal principles, then decline politely, or communicate with him or her, more communication can often untie a lot of knots.