What happened when I married the poorest man in the village and was ridiculed by the whole village?

Later, this poor man met his own opportunity, and their family finally became rich and became the envy of the whole village. Moreover, this poor man was very kind to his daughter-in-law, and especially respected her after marriage.

Later, he lived a very happy life, and his career was also very successful, and it also made the people in the village look at him differently, and he was also envied by many people in the village.

Later, through the efforts of the husband and wife, they embarked on a well-off life step by step, and now they have become the richest man in the village.

I just broke up with my boyfriend in the countryside, and I have a few things to say to you. It's all my own experience.

1. Rural men actually value material things very much, why do you say that, because my ex-rural boyfriend had a very beautiful girl to choose from before choosing me, and the reason why he chose me. It's because I'm from this city, and that girl is not from this city, and I work in a government agency with good benefits, while that girl doesn't have a stable job and works everywhere. Together with me, I can provide convenient conditions for his parents to go to the city in the future, for no other reason I have a provident fund and it is relatively high, haha.

This is something he didn't mean to say when I was chatting with him.

2. Rural men have low self-esteem in their hearts, and many people from rural areas are very inferior in their hearts, but they look down on people on the surface. Talking very impulsively, good face, machismo, very possessive, I don't believe you are with him, you want to have a friend of the opposite sex you see, see how he will mess with you. He can speak very hard to listen to, and he can curse.

3. Rural men are very selfish and stingy, you don't know how to offend him, and if you take back the things given by others or the company, you will find a way to get them back to your family. Once I went home with him and saw him give his dad a bundle of pens (about 10 pens), and his dad asked him where they were. He said he received it from the company.

I'm dizzy! There are still a lot of problems with living habits, which can be run-in. I think the biggest headache for urban girls is that no matter how educated rural men are, they can't escape something in their bones. I'm not afraid of others slapping me and scolding me, because this is my own experience.

I'm rural, and my girlfriend is urban. It's a bit like you. We also thought a lot about it at that time, and it was impossible not to think about it.

I suggest you communicate with each other a little more. Without communication, we will go more and more into a dead end. My girlfriend and I walked this path.

I also had a lot of worries at the time, one was that my family couldn't afford what my daughter-in-law in the city wanted. Second, the son has to support the family. You also have to support him more and think more.

Let's talk more. I wish you all happiness. Lovers eventually become married!

I'm going to marry her soon, hehe, and bless me and my her.

To be honest, I'm not very optimistic about this relationship.

There is no reason to love someone, and it can be given unconditionally.

But when you live with someone, you have to think about a lot of things.

Problems in your family, problems in his family.

You have these problems, and he knows them, but he doesn't have the confidence to grasp the future with you.

To be honest, I don't care if my loved one or his family has money or not, I care about how he won't give up for these reasons, no matter what the circumstances.

Emotional matters are not something that we outsiders can decide, so we can only put the decision back in your hands.

There is also a piece of advice that love needs to be kept fresh, and reality will accelerate its aging, so it is more important for two people to work together for a goal than anything else.

Talk to him about your feelings, maybe it helps.

I wish you happiness.

Do you love one another? He always mails money home, does he have you in his heart? I know that it is not easy in the countryside now, but I also have to think about your future, his parents didn't say anything, and insisted that their son send the money to the family, what should he do about the marriage in the future?

That's what's wrong with his family being an old man.

Could it be that if all the money is mailed to the family, then you will start a family in the countryside? Won't you go out to work and earn money in the future? If it's the countryside, why don't his parents have any foresight?

You'd better meet his parents and ask what it means. Money can be sent home, but what about the marriage and house in the future?

Family background has a profound impact on people. If you can't accept it, break up with him. If you are together, you will gather, and if you are not together, you will be separated.

Although it may be heart-wrenching and give so much, don't lose a big one because of a small one. Unless you can accept this kind of contradiction, you will not be happy if you are reluctant to be together, and you will probably be entangled until you are silent or collapse.

You should do it, and if you love him, love everything about him, including his family. Marry the chicken with the chicken.

In fact, it can be seen from what you said that this boy is very filial, and on the other hand, the lecturer is very responsible and responsible. In fact, it is not a matter of two people to be together Twenty-two families, after all, everyone's living environment is different, right, so you can sit down and communicate well, and pour out each other's thoughts. See how it goes.

If you can change, then be together, but you can't change, then break up, the initiative is in your hands before you get married and have children, think about it yourself and then make a careful decision, because you live in a socialist society where men and women are equal.

If it doesn't work, just divide it. You're still so young, it's not good to find a better one in the city, and live a happy life.