Do I marry someone who loves me or marry someone I love?

My advice is, if you have to choose among them, I suggest you choose to love you, but this person must be kind-hearted and can be trusted, you have to believe that feelings can be cultivated, two people live together for decades, and I have seen couples who live well in marriages without love. I hope you can be happy.

The most annoying thing for people like you, can you please not post such disgusting questions on it, get out of the way!

Why don't you choose someone you love and love you, this is responsible for yourself and others, I believe there will be such a person who likes each other waiting for you somewhere.

It depends on your mental capacity. If you can tolerate that your lover cares more about others than about you, can tolerate that he will always be charming to others, and can tolerate that you have to wait for his return at any time. Then you choose what you love, otherwise choose what you love.

But the best and happiest thing is to look for someone you love and he loves you.

Love is the giving of the heart, you should get rid of all kinds of impurities, ask your heart what you want, and you will know the choice.

I think getting married is a trivial matter, but getting along after marriage is a big thing that cannot be ignored. I think you have, you won't be happy if you choose one of the two, why let yourself be so miserable, it's over.

Either way, remember one thing: love is two-sided.

The world is so big, there is always one for you, so why choose between the two of them?

Don't marry dead and alive love!

How to say, like the story in a fairy tale, it is indeed a very happy thing for the princess and the prince to fall in love and grow old together. But ......But ......Remember to be obsessed with love, the kind that Sun Qihe is still obsessed with dying and living. How?

But there is a type of love that is very dangerous, that is, the love that makes you have a strong heartbeat, a strong impulse, and a strong sense of indulgence, such as the kind of love that desperately wants to break through the shackles and want to be together, or makes you feel like you are in heaven for a while, and you feel like you are in hell for a while. will have that strong feeling, which means that this love is very abnormal. Either it's unethical love, or the other person knows how to control your emotions.

At the same time, you also have very abnormal expectations for this love, and the final disappointment, mourning, and even the feeling of pain in the depths of love will come sooner or later. Being in this kind of emotion for a long time, you can easily become the "emotionally unstable" person; And "emotional instability" is the beginning of all misfortune.

If you can find someone who is in love with you plainly, of course, it is better, but it is happier to find someone who loves you more than to find someone who brings you strong impulses to marry.

If the other party also thinks so, it is the perfect ending, many corrupt people can't do it, so you can meet you is the luckiest.

I'm married far away, so I can be sure that you can marry, but not just because you like it.

I have seen a lot of marriages that are far away and marriages that are not far away, they are all firewood, rice, oil, salt, and trivialities, as for whether there are chickens and dogs, the husband and his family are very important.

For the sake of love, you don't even say love, but like, so subconsciously you don't even realize what it means to marry far away for you....

But whether it's love or liking, it doesn't matter in marriage! Love and liking are just a prerequisite for entering marriage, nothing more!

Therefore, the key to long-distance marriage is not whether you love or not, whether you like it or not, but more importantly, whether your husband and in-laws can meet higher requirements and conditions.

Can your husband promise that he will never let you be wronged? The point of not being wronged includes but is not limited to: never losing your temper with you, standing on your side unconditionally, feeling sorry for you and understanding your hard work, willing to accompany you back to your parents' house, sharing housework without complaining, educating children not perfunctory, respecting your wishes and choices to sell Yuandan, and having enough economic strength and at your disposal, etc

Whether your in-laws are open-minded enough also includes, but is not limited to: not interfering in the lives of their children, respecting the personal space of the younger generation, sparing no effort when they need help, being able to accept new life concepts, listening to suggestions, changing bad habits, being able to tolerate the absence of their sons at home during the Spring Festival, etc

You might think that's too much to ask!

Then let me tell you, for a girl who marries far away, if her husband and in-laws neglect any of the above, it can instantly break your confidence.

Believe me, even if your husband's action of paying for you is half a beat slower, you will become resentful in your heart, and all kinds of measures will weigh whether your original choice was right or wrong...

For ordinary marriages, these conditions are unwanted, but for girls who marry far away, if they want to live well, these conditions are just standard!

When I chose to marry far away, I was also dedicated to love, and I had no experience of the above conditions. But because of the marriage room, I got along with my husband and in-laws for more than two years before getting married. After getting along for a long time, I feel more and more that it is my luck to meet a good person, and I feel that it is very necessary to run in and investigate before marriage!

It is also recommended that girls who marry far away leave time for running-in and inspection, leaving room for their own decisions.

Of course, you can marry the person you like, Sakura trembling love is to follow the feeling, as long as you like it, you should be brave to pursue, don't miss the good fate of God. Otherwise, you will regret it.

Of course, it's quite happy to marry the person you like, so it's best to argue if you're happy.

Of course, if you don't cover that person, forget it, some people will be moved by your sincerity, and they will be very happy after marriage.

If he loves me enough and is willing to take me to progress and become better, then I am willing to choose to marry someone I don't love.

The tragedy of life is to be born as a human being, but I have never experienced the "taste of human being and the defeat of judgment". A person's emotional absence cannot be filled with anything. I advise girls not to believe in nonsense when it comes to marriage, and to marry someone you don't love is like repeating a job you don't like every day, the pain is endless.

Don't make a decision to marry this person just because of the superficial factors such as "he is good to me" and "he seems to be in good condition", you must know that touching is not worth mentioning in the face of love.

I want you to be selfish in your marriage and choose the person who is happy and comfortable with you, and who can get better and better with you. And the most possible situation for a person to change is to become more and more confident and shining in love.

The beginning of marriage must first have love, and then there will be tolerance, understanding, and accommodation...<>