Why are singles honest people, and why are all men now singles?

The reason why singles are honest people:

When asked why some men do not marry properly, they are "too honest" and "don't associate with girls". "Honest people" singles are mainly born after 1980, and those born before that rarely become singles because they are honest. A common trait of "honest people" singles is:

Honestly, he doesn't associate with girls, and he blushes even when he talks to girls.

"Honest people" are not idle, they generally have their own jobs, and after work, they usually stay at home and rarely go out to socialize with people. From an economic point of view, the economic situation of these "honest people" is not very bad, and some are even in the middle and upper classes in the village, but they just can't find a daughter-in-law.

When asked about their families and the surrounding villagers, no one could find any other reason, it seems that honesty is their biggest shortcoming, and it is also the main reason for their singles. In traditional society, honesty is a positive evaluation of a person, indicating that the person is down-to-earth and responsible.

It is worth dating, and the girl's parents often deliberately find an honest person for their daughter to talk about marriage, thinking that such a person is suitable for life.

Other reasons why singles are honest people:

Many of these people become singles because of poor family conditions, or because of family composition problems, and very few of them can not find a partner due to personal factors.

Since the rise of the part-time economy, free love has become the dominant form of marriage. A large number of young people go out to work, and in the working life in the city, the circle of contacts can be expanded, and they can make a wide range of friends under the introduction of friends and classmates, including friends of the opposite sex.

This provides the basis for free love. Of course, there are also some young people who do not find a partner in the process of going out to work, so they still have to return to their hometowns to make friends with the opposite sex through parental referrals or blind dates.

LightThe reason why the sticks are honest people :The emergence of honest singles, on the surface, is because the society's evaluation of honest people is different from before, but the more essential reason is actually that with the formation of the working economy, free love and the national marriage market, the main body of marriage power and the requirements for marriage matching ability have changed, so that the achievement of marriage has changed from the main responsibility of parents to the joint efforts of parents and children, and the absence of either party may lead to the son not being able to marry a daughter-in-law.

Moreover, as the meaning of marriage changes from "the good of two surnames" to "the pleasure of two lovers", the individual factor in marriage becomes more important.

In addition, marriage opportunities and marriage resources are structural factors that affect men's matchmaking, such as the degree of imbalance in the sex ratio between men and women, and the regional economic situation (whether it is in the "low-lying zone").

The reason why it is difficult for honest people to get rid of singles:

1. Stupid, not good at words, speaking straightforwardly.

Honest people are known to be stupid, many girls don't like stupid boys, stupid is not able to speak, especially not to say things that make girls listen to good and comfortable, civilized is not good at words, or dare not speak, as soon as you talk straight to the point.

2. I don't know how to dress, I look honest.

Girls like boys who can dress the most, as the saying goes, Buddha relies on gold clothes and people rely on clothes, whether it is boys and girls to make themselves decent is one of the best ways to attract the opposite sex, but many honest people will not share themselves.

3. If you don't take the initiative, it's easy to make the scene embarrassing.

It is difficult for honest people to take the initiative to chase girls, even if there is an occasional initiative to date, the future will not take the initiative to meet many times into an embarrassing realm, girls are most afraid of this, embarrassed once or twice may be the previous efforts will be completely lost.

4. A tendon will not come to trouble.

Honest people speak straight to the point, not only do they not understand what girls want, but they don't even know the "hints" that girls deliberately give them! Boys who are more good at things are good at coaxing girls, and when they see girls unhappy, they will comfort girls with all kinds of rhetoric, while honest people not only don't coax girls, but sometimes they annoy girls.

Why are all singles honest? Because honest people have more realistic personalities, their minds are generally slow to react, and they don't talk well, so they don't like girls, but this doesn't prove that honest people have bad hearts, on the contrary, honest people are comfortable and have high ideological awareness, which is very unjust and unfair for honest people.

The reason why singles are honest people is because this type of person is not good at dealing with girls, or they are not good at words, which causes them to delay their marriage!

Because honest people don't speak sweet words, because girls like to listen to some sweet words, so honest people are very unpopular.

Singles are not all honest people, but maybe honest people will suffer a little when they find a partner, because they don't know how to talk nicely, or they don't know how to better express their emotions, so that others will misunderstand them and have no way to better understand their charm.

Because singles don't like to show off in front of others, they are more honest and don't like to show their strengths.

Because the average honest person is very honest, and they will always give the good to others, but anyone who is a little smarter will already have a girlfriend or a boyfriend by now.

Who says that all singles are honest people? Now there are many singles in first-tier cities and big cities, and there are many women, and there are many rich and handsome people left, these people are very independent and very capable, who said they are all honest people.

Because that honest man is more wooden and sluggish, so it's not easy to find a partner.

thinks that singles are honest people, but in fact, it is not possible that there is a way to patronize, there are economies or conditions, or character, so let him be different.

Maybe it's an honest person.,Can't chase girls.,Or it's more difficult to chase girls.,So I became a single.。

Because honest people are deceived, and those honest people are often emotionally dull.

Because many people have a hard time finding a girlfriend, because they rarely talk and can't speak, so it's hard to make girls happy.

Because of this love, they need a certain amount of input, they need rhetoric, so it is the case that they cannot achieve this.

Because the single is an honest person, he can't chase his girlfriend, so he doesn't bother chasing girls.

Because the teacher doesn't know what to do, he becomes a bachelor, so he is an honest person when he reads.

I don't understand this, because honest people are too honest, some things dare not be done, and they are actively in a passive state, how can they find a partner?

Because he may not be able to hurt others, he is also not able to deal with this kind of relationship, and he can beat the love of singles to say that they are needed.

There are many honest people, there are many kinds of honest people, and there are also those who can speak, and there are also fate, luck, and so-and-so are different.

He is a very teacher, he can't have a girlfriend by himself, so he is a very honest person.

Singles are not necessarily honest people, but individuals have little ability to make money to attract girls.

I don't think it's appropriate to say that, how can you call singles honest people? There must be its drawbacks, why?

Because he doesn't know how to flirt with girls, he can't find a girlfriend.

Because the world is developing in bad quality.

At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, parents must not want to bury their daughters in the hope that they will be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions directly retreated.

First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.

Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich.

The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work. The father and son can't save much money for a year, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine.

Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him about matchmaking, and they couldn't say anything about this situation.

I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. In this way, year after year, now the man is in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a willing girl, he may not be able to get such a high bride price now. The stick is also forced to be helpless.

Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.

There are some singles who can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are too lazy to eat, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person?

There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, when he has no money, he goes to find a factory to work, and when he has money in the last few months, he squanders it, and he doesn't report when he leaves, and suddenly he doesn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory nearby that dares to use him. Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.