Because you have a bad mentality, skills, and bad habits

My former girlfriend was the same person, and then we separated, and time would cover everything up. There must be a process for this, no matter who enlightens well, they will not forget it so quickly, on the contrary, there is no such good feeling, right? The more enlightened, the more guilty you will feel.

What you lack is tolerance, and from the fact that you see that he is better off than you are and that you are unhappy, it shows that you are a person who likes to care about gains and losses.

The so-called contentment and happiness, usually when we feel unhappy, we are comparing what we are not good at with what we are good at.

Think about everything, don't lose your temper at every turn, it's not good for your health, and people who lose their temper casually in the eyes of others are also very ungraceful and quality-oriented. I think when you grow up and mature, you may understand.

Judging from your description, it seems that the more harsh you are with the people you are, the easier it is to attack them. Maybe you can ask yourself why I would treat them the way I did, what would it be like if I didn't, what would happen. Understanding the motivations behind your actions will help you truly manage your behavior.

Two people to consider the world of two sides? Think for yourself, think about each other! Don't always look for his shortcomings and flaws, but don't want to analyze his strengths and highlights?

I think what you need to change in the future is: first put your heart at peace, (that is, don't always put your "goal" in front of you, feel that you have to solve the life, but treat everything peacefully) know how to accept and adapt, (I think the boy who can let himself accept and adapt is a good boy who likes it, otherwise, life will be very boring and bitter!) Tolerant and rational to deal with things, know how to give up and how to pursue, (tolerant heart is always sweet, rational handling is always unrepentant, what kind of person should give up, what kind of person to pursue, must ask your own heart, don't always blame yourself Don't always put your mood at a low point?)

Believe in you, believe in yourself, be optimistic, and life will be much better! I wish you happiness! All right!

It's not that your character is inappropriate, it's that you don't know how to understand and tolerate. He kept putting up with you, and in the end you hurt his self-esteem. Because you keep blaming, the quarrel leads to his departure (a person who endures to a certain extent will explode).

This has nothing to do with a good attitude, it only has to do with the way things are done. This lesson will make a very strong impression on you, and before you know it, you will adjust. The next time you have a relationship, you will have more problems.

It is not until you slowly change it that the other person will think you are "perfect". Look at the emotional skills and principles, and it will grow and change quickly.

Since you don't think he's going to be happy with you, now that you're separated, don't think about it anymore. One of the great weaknesses of a woman is that the more you slander others and prove that you can't let them go. Be a person who is not noisy or noisy, although he is divorced, but he can't use the rest of his life to prove that the original union was a mistake.

It takes your will to stand up, and I believe that your family, as well as your friends, are reasons to be strong. I hope you can come out and find your own happiness.

It's a lot like my temper. Actually, it's because I care too much. Let's open it. Listen**. Do what you want. You will meet someone who is more suitable for you. Believe in happiness.

Looks like you still care about him....Hehe, seeing that he is doing well, although I feel very uncomfortable, but if you still love him, why don't you want him to live better, is it because he abandoned you, you hate him, and want to forget him, it can only mean that you love him too much, because if you don't love him so deeply...It's easy to forget about him. But don't you notice, you've been struggling with yourself, and you've never forgotten...Love is like this, when you give but you don't necessarily get anything, it may just end up being a void...If you regret that you didn't grasp your own happiness, then a good man you didn't hold tightly, and finally lost it to know regret, which means that now you have enriched your experience and perfected your character, which is a kind of progress! Everyone will have such a low point, it feels like the world has abandoned me, everything is not going well, but this is not the whole of life, it will always pass...I can't tell you to look away, that would make me look irresponsible, hehe...I don't want to say that time will dilute everything....Suffice it to say that it was just a dream, a beautiful memory, a forgotten old time....All you can do is forget.

In fact, everyone will be like this, we know some truths, but we still make the same mistakes, let our hearts calm down and think about it, what was once the most beautiful, the best memory. Some things can never come back after the past, what we do now is to cherish the present time, life is just a few decades, and make life more meaningful. You can't win 'em all.

Things have happened, learn to change things, don't always miss the past, look forward, find a way to keep yourself busy, have a skill, make yourself excellent, you will find that you will become more and more confident, success is coming to you, believe me, and believe in yourself, everyone has a period of climbing up from the trough!

Are you an only child? It's your mindset that has changed at the moment. What is your environment.

All around you and at home. You've subconsciously worsened your man. Actually, if you let go of everything, everything will be fine.

When I say letting go, I'm not breaking up, but letting go of what's inside you. Then you're relieved. It is recommended to take a look at the love of oneself method.

We still have a long way to go, and a bad career is only temporary, so believe in yourself. Although it is sad to see him doing so well now, it is because he is no longer his own. Because I have loved so much, what is not worthy of being understood.

What you need to do now is to make good use of the present, work hard, and find your next true love. Some people say that the quickest way to hurt a relationship is to start a new relationship. So go for it .

You will definitely find the true love that belongs to you. But when you're in love, you have to change your temper.

Hello, I think you're pretty good, more sensible, and able to find problems from yourself. You keep emphasizing that your own temper is not very good, it may be relative, everyone has a bad mood, think more about happy things, do something you like, make yourself happy. Having said that, since you care so much about this love, see if there is room for recombination?

Happiness depends on oneself

Everything will pass, want to open a little! You are not suitable! I've been there, so I know how you feel! Be confident, and you'll find a happy life that truly belongs to you!

Arrange a lot of things for yourself, ask friends to play, work hard, and arrange all the time to the full, so that you don't have time to think about it, after a long time, it will be fine.

We must keep a clear head in our mental quality and ideological concepts.

Psychology trivia.

1. Birdcage logic.

Bad habits must be recognized and reformed, and good habits must be cultivated repeatedly.

Faces don't matter.

What matters is a kind heart.

It is also necessary to have firmer principles.

Add a pair of eyes that can tell right from wrong.

Poor mentality can be adjusted from both cognitive and behavioral aspects, first of all, you can think about the problem from a different angle, and look at frustration positively, secondly, encourage yourself to participate in more outdoor activities, go out for a walk, and interact with people, you can adjust your mentality and improve your bad mood, and people's bad mood is often because the psychological scale is out of balance.

If you don't have a good mentality, you mainly have to adjust it yourself.

I don't think your above problem is a bad mentality.

It's that there is no pattern, and I don't know how to review.

I think you should arrange the pace of revision first.

And then step by step.

In short, one step at a time, it will definitely succeed.

Finally, I wish you a good grade

Try to adjust yourself a little bit in different ways. It's good to open everything up.

When I was in my third year of high school, my table mate also had this situation like yours, and when doing homework, the homework efficiency was very low because of the unfamiliar knowledge points.

My table mate took a different approach from you, she started to read books and read some review materials when she was studying at night, which inevitably led to the situation you mentioned, that is, there was not enough time, but the homework had to be handed in, so she often copied me when she was about to hand in the homework. Because the homework is not done by yourself, this is obviously not good, and the grades are still not good.

I think if you are inefficient because you are not familiar with the knowledge points, then you should consider your efficiency in class, whether the teacher understands everything he says, and ask the teacher in time after class as long as you have a little doubt. I don't know what the situation is in your place, I just remember when we were in the third year of high school, there were a lot of people who asked the teacher questions after class, and they still had to queue up, and many times they didn't get you in line for class, and they needed to find another time to ask the teacher. Because many people ask questions, even some students who don't usually like to ask questions will ask, feeling as if everyone else is learning, and they can't fall behind, that's how they feel.

In addition, I myself am fine, I am fine in school, I study at night, because I see that others are serious and studying, so I am also working hard. But when you get home, it's extremely inefficient. Later, I felt that it was too much time to waste, so I bought a book of math study questions by myself, stipulating that I should do at least half a test paper every day, no matter how busy the day must be completed, so sometimes I will hurry up after class, otherwise it will be too late in the evening, and later I found out that in fact, the time between classes is also fully utilized.

But even so, because the teacher does assign a lot of homework, it will be done for more than a little time. But usually I just have a cup of coffee the next morning, and I don't doze off in class.

So this is just my personal experience, and it doesn't apply to everyone, just as a reference suggestion for LZ.

1. The mentality of zeroing. 2. The mentality of learning. 3. Thanksgiving.

4. Entrepreneurial mentality. 5. Investment mentality. 6. Persistence mentality.

7. The mentality of paying. 8. Positive attitude. 9. Sincerity (integrity and loyalty) mentality.

10. Commitment mentality. 11. The mentality of believing. 12.

A cooperative mentality.

Five mindsets that should not be had:

1 .Speculative mentality: 2Fluke mentality: 3Try it out mentality 4Dependency mentality5The mentality of returning to the capital.

Honesty, open-mindedness, eagerness, kindness, law-abiding, giving, learning, ordinary, love karma, love people, patriotism, love dedication, it should be these, maybe the order is wrong.

The mentality of empty cup to zero, the mentality of the boss, the mentality of paying, the mentality of tolerance, the mentality of positivity, the mentality of self-discipline and self-reliance, the mentality of learning, the mentality of desire, the mentality of going to work, the mentality of gratitude, the correct mentality, and the usual mentality.

The mentality of believing, the mentality of using products, the mentality of learning, the mentality of zeroing, the mentality of the boss, the mentality of usual, the mentality of positivity, the mentality of cooperation, the mentality of tolerance, the mentality of giving, the mentality of perseverance.