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Bad mentality, caring about or magnifying one's own shortcomings. These are all signs of lack of self-confidence. Another way to say that you are not confident is that you have low self-esteem, which can cause communication problems, expression problems, interpersonal problems, etc., and it is very common to be nervous when speaking in public.

Because of the problem of inferiority complex, it will affect their physical and mental health, habitually look down on and belittle themselves, serious people will be anxious, will face pain and suffering like this, instead of mourning and self-complaining, it is better to strive to improve themselves, through continuous learning, hard work, change the inferiority, nervousness and lack of self-confidence.

A lot of times you care about other people's eyes, in fact, if you look carefully, you will find that their eyes do not stay on you, they pay more attention to themselves, so you are the same, don't always look at others, look at yourself more!

Gender? Age? Are there a lot of disadvantages? What's wrong with appearance? Problems first, then they can be solved individually.

If you don't think about it, if you care about it, then improve your shortcomings and take care of your appearance.

Because of what, how much riches enrich oneself?

It's hard to change your appearance, but temperament can be cultivated, and if you have money, you can have a plastic surgery, I think it's feasible, but the most important thing is to enrich yourself. Do you think Jack Ma is handsome? But he has brains, talents, he has personality, he will not be ashamed or panic because of his appearance, in fact, you see the essence clearly, don't care too much about other people's eyes, clean up and tidy, generous and decent, it is very flattering.

A lot of times you have to be comfortable with yourself.

Respect yourself, accept yourself, and accept yourself.

No one is perfect, each of us has more or less advantages or disadvantages, we only accept ourselves, in order to accept ourselves in order to constantly improve themselves, so that they are slowly growing. Take your time, faster.

Don't focus on things you can't change.

Although there are also cosmetic surgery nowadays.

But learn to enrich your inner world and groom yourself.

It's faster, saves money, and gives you a sense of accomplishment.

Only you care about your appearance, others will not mind your appearance because of your appearance, and your inner beauty is what everyone pursues more.

Everyone is unique to themselves in the world. It is impossible to control one's appearance. We have to like how we look. Believe in yourself to be confident.

Self-confidence is the most beautiful, most people in the world are ordinary, but confident people will always make you remember, and confident people are often full of charm.

I suggest that you, since you recognize your own shortcomings, then redouble your efforts to change yourself, like to give an adoption or a like, thank you!

The shortcomings of appearance depend on which aspect, now the medical treatment is also developed, you can improve it through surgery, or learn some makeup skills, dress yourself up to make yourself more confident, and more importantly, combine your own abilities, such as finding confidence at work, combining inside and out, you will definitely be more confident.

Or don't focus too much on your own shortcomings and reality, because the more you pay attention, the more uncomfortable it will be. It's better to open your heart so that you can let go of yourself and strengthen your strengths at the same time, so that you don't feel your own shortcomings and appearances. People will have a happier life.

The first thing you have to do is to avoid this situation, if you have this kind of mentality, you can't overcome this kind of difficulty. First of all, you have to recognize yourself from the heart. In addition, if the friends around you also actively encourage you, there will be no such problems.

Of course, appearance is the beginning of determining the first impression of others, but if you cultivate both inside and outside in an inner form, there will be no such mentality.

So the next thing you have to do is to have a positive mindset to face life.

I think if you are panicking about your shortcomings, you should first figure out what you are good about in your daily life, and then get involved in social activities. Change your introversion and you won't panic about your appearance.

Everyone has the same perception of beauty, incompleteness is the real beauty, find something you are good at, and self-confidence will spontaneously.

Appearance may play a role in the initial process of interacting with people, but over time, the influence of physical appearance on interpersonal communication becomes smaller and less until it reaches zero. So, you have to relax and show your lively nature, God is fair, he gave you a beautiful nature of optimism, liveliness and enthusiasm, and also gave you a little flaw that has little impact, but, no matter how we look at it, life still has to go on, believe me, as long as you are optimistic and natural and generous, the people around you will appreciate you very much, I have a similar experience with you, my teeth have made me feel inferior for a long time, but, I don't believe you ask your friends honestly, they don't care about your appearance at all, What matters is who you are.

You are nothing, but just because of the flaws in your appearance, you become depressed and can't find the joy of life? So, what about those who are born with a disability and have more than one defect compared to normal people? Then they would have died n times earlier!!

Don't be defeated by this little shortcoming, think more about your own good side, pay more attention to your own strengths, forget your own flaws and shortcomings, and believe that your own strengths are always more than your shortcomings. No one is perfect!! Socialize with people a lot, find someone to talk to, and don't hold it in your heart.

Go out and walk often, breathe the air of nature, and feel the beauty of the world. I believe that you can always smile of your own...

Never mind! You can think about people who are very fat, people who have a lot of strange things on their faces and a lot of physical defects, what do they think? Actually, what you are saying is, objectively speaking, not true at all, because chicken breasts (your so-called defects) can be improved by medicine or food.

So you don't have to worry about it, you don't have to be depressed, it will only make you feel troubled and sad, which will make you suffer from more incurable diseases, so if you smile at the world, others will give you the same amount of smiles.

Dear, look away, God is fair to everyone. Isn't there a saying?

When God closes a door, he will open a window for you somewhere.

Be confident, it's nothing, people are flawed, if you are talented, you have the ability A little flaw can't stop you from succeeding, live for yourself, don't always complain about your flaws and imperfections, you can try to find your own strengths, do what you want to do, do what you like to do, don't care too much about what others think of you, think about you, live yourself! Hey! do it ！

guys！Believe in yourself!

What's wrong with the chicken breast, you can't hold your head up? God is not unfair to you! Friend, you look down on yourself Who else can you let look down on you God is fair You said it yourself You have a lively personality Go out in the future Hold your chest up and smile You are the best!

Let me tell you a sentence: it is better to live beautifully than to live beautifully. Be confident, I'm also a chicken breast, but I still have a lot of friends, and I use my heart to communicate with others.

You're fine, only chicken breasts, I'm so bad that my family thinks I'm annoying, and my husband thinks I'm annoying, and I'm tired of taking care of me, so can't I be a man.

Everyone has their flaws. Appearance doesn't matter.

There are more people who are worse than you, what should I do? It still depends on your own mentality. Optimistic and calm.

Be confident and optimistic.

Go learn how to dress and make-up. If you can, you can participate in a dressing training class, or find an image consultant to help, the effect is very obvious. Keep fit.

Regular fitness can not only shape up, but also keep people full of energy, making people look refreshed and more energetic. Read more books. Reading can slowly change a person's temperament, and a good temperament will make people look more charming.

Praise yourself every day. If you have beautiful eyes, you can say to yourself 10 times a day from the bottom of your heart, I am beautiful, my eyes are charming, I am a very attractive girl. Slowly, you will become the kind of person you envy.

I am also very concerned about my appearance, 3 tablets a week**, apply aloe vera gel every day, facial cleanser, face slimming patch, facial massage, pinch nose, it takes a lot of time to do these, even if it affects sleep, affects learning, I will still do it, and then later find that my appearance is still dissatisfied with me, I feel very inferior, I just feel unable to raise my head, I think, everyone has a love for beauty, it is good to be measured, I also use these words to remind myself, there is nothing wrong with making yourself better, but everything has a bottom line, don't care too much, it's not that you don't care, you have to be measured, don't affect your normal life, and it doesn't affect anyone, right, it's good to be happy.

High school**, dieting, losing a few pounds, stomach bad, **. I have a fire-like character in my heart, because of low self-esteem, all they see is me like silt. But they are all good people, they don't call me cowardly, they call me gentle.

You still have a chance, don't learn from me, because of low self-esteem, in order to compensate for the emotional emptiness in my heart, I took a lot of detours. I can't get rid of the defense of apathy. Low self-esteem has benefits, and low self-esteem makes people introspective.

I took the time to see my shortcomings and accept them. I forgive everyone who says I'm ugly, because it's an objective fact. I get a sense of accomplishment from other things, such as academics, hobbies, etc.

It took me a long time to build self-confidence from low self-esteem. It's a complicated and long affair, and it's nowhere near as easy as I described. Moreover, this self-confidence will not always make you strong, you will still be vulnerable, and it will still hurt.

But it's already good. Don't get too caught up in other people's evaluations, because they don't feel like they're hurting you, and sometimes they think you're being hypocritical. My experience has taught me that mental peace is more important than physical change, and that it is best to have both.

I'm also on the road all the time.

If you are not confident in your appearance, you must first change your temperament, dressing up is also very important, and the connotation of conversation is even more important. Put away your skincare thoughts and think about how you can look good from the existing foundation What are you afraid of Life is just this once.

Self-confidence and beauty are the most important, and excellence is always relative. Everyone will chase good, excellent people or things. For example, presumably many girls think that the double eyelids are very beautiful, and the eyes are big and bright, so some girls will choose to cut the double eyelids, but they ignore their own potential, single eyelid girls are also very distinctive, delicate, simple, the well-known Korean actor Kim Gaoyin is like this, she will not deliberately change herself, but retains her original characteristics, giving people a young and lovely temperament, I think no one will say that such a female star is ugly, will only say that she is a very characteristic female star, which deepens everyone's impression of her and makes everyone feel more pity.

If you really want to be entangled in appearance, then **, learn to match, learn makeup, you can become beautiful, but the important thing is that these can bring confidence to girls! (knocking on the blackboard) I used to have low self-esteem because of sudden obesity, I didn't dare to see my classmates, I didn't like to go out, and then I lost about ten pounds, and I was so happy that I flew up all day long, and the whole state of the person was opened.

It's normal for everyone to care more or less about what is bad about them. But have you ever seen those who are fitness, not very handsome, but very manly and attractive, not handsome, and can be made up for by fitness. See if you can hold on.

Single eyelid is good! How special. What you think is your own shortcomings is not necessarily in the eyes of others. Also, Will the person you are talking to to pay you for looking perfect? Why do you want to do so much?

Born from the heart. There is a saying: after thirty, you are responsible for your appearance. If you are kind, your appearance will get better day by day. If you don't have a good heart, it's useless to put on makeup.

Friend, you like Chinese culture too much, I can only say that this is the case, you have been harmed by Chinese aesthetics, and you don't evaluate. Bless you.

A person's face is not good or bad.

Parents must have looked so good when they looked at their bibi.

Love is blind.

If it's a beauty pageant, the judges have a lot of faults.

It is said that inner beauty is true beauty, but the outside is not good, and only look at the inside.

Later, I have a partner or a partner.

When asked if beauty is beautiful, he definitely says beautiful.

Generally speaking, two people have a good personality.

It's generally a sense of complementarity.

Or sincerity between friends.

Finally, take a look at magazines that are a little more personal.

Or find a style that you like, and a smile will come out naturally.

I don't know if you're a man or a woman. If you're a man, I can't help you, because I'm also mentally ill, and I have a strong sense of frustration and feel like I have nothing. If you are a woman, I am responsible to tell you that "every woman is beautiful".

The premise is that you know how to cherish yourself and show off your personality, every woman is beautiful.