What should you do if you want to enlighten a junior high school student who is not good at studying

There is no so-called "enlightenment" of junior high school students, and "enlightenment" is essentially a change in children's attitude towards learning. The top students we see on the Internet or in books about the successful "enlightenment" and "counterattack" also experienced a period of hard perseverance before they became top students. The turning point is actually that the child suddenly wants to learn knowledge, and thinks about learning in his heart, rather than saying that he can suddenly do everything, which is impossible and unrealistic.

Attitude is everything, and a good attitude is also the starting point of "enlightenment".

Don't abuse and blame your child unscrupulously just because you are a parent, although he has done something bad and should be punished accordingly. But on the other hand, we think that since accusation and abuse can't be educated, why don't we try to have a "Buddha nature education." Be friends with your child, put aside his studies, discuss his hobbies and school life, give him advice on the problems he encounters in life, and solve the problems that plague him.

Slowly, we ask for learning, and we know that the child is more righteous towards friendship, so he will slowly change his learning attitude in a way that is grateful to us.

Let the child participate in manual labor, let him know that learning is the easiest thing, Mr. Lu Xun once said: "If you want someone to open a window for you, you have to tell him that I want to open a door." Cleaning, tidying up the housework, take your own children, don't blindly take care of everything.

Some parents even comfort themselves that they should let their children focus on learning, and learning is the most important thing. In fact, this does not help in any way, and can even develop the bad habit of children to avoid and make excuses. Take him to manual labor more often, so that he understands that nothing is as easy as learning.

Then tell him very clearly, if you don't study well, this is your future life.

Play is fun", of course, the saying is true, if you want to do one thing well, you must not use it twice. Then, we can take him to the extreme to educate those children who are "dead skinned". Take your child out of school directly, have fun at home, and go to school when you have had enough.

Most children will be motivated by self-esteem.

And choose to continue to study hard, and some children have no one to care about at home, and they have no sense of accomplishment when they play by themselves. I found that the school days are more fulfilling. In contrast, change your learning attitude and go to school to study hard.

All in all, to let children "open their minds" must be the premise of changing their learning attitudes, coupled with unremitting efforts, quantitative change will eventually determine qualitative change.

The child should be enrolled in a cram school, or the child should be hired a tutor, and at the same time, the child should have a good space to grow up and give the child a certain amount of teaching.

You should have a good talk with your child, let your child know the importance of learning, and you should also take your child to participate in some social activities, so that your child knows that it is very bad not to go to school, so that you can let your child open up.

Children should be made aware of the importance of learning, and then they should also actively guide children, improve children's learning efficiency, let children find their own learning methods, and let children find fun from learning, so as to be helpful to children's learning.

Let a junior high school student who is not good at studying open his mind, and reason with the junior high school student, the junior high school student is more rebellious at this time, and guide the junior high school students more, take the junior high school students to truly experience the hard work of the workers and peasants, and tell them that knowledge is power, and they must study hard.

If a junior high school student does not study, then everyone should guide the student at this time, and we should also adopt appropriate methods, at this time, you must not directly scold the student, because the student is in the adolescent stage at this time. We can encourage this student more, and we can care more about this student in our daily lives.

Everyone hopes that children can study seriously, and also hope that children can really love learning, but in real life, many children are very disgusted with learning, so parents will feel more anxious at this time, but parents must also pay attention to the method at this time, and at this time you must not blame the child, otherwise it will easily lead to a very poor relationship between parents and children. If you want this child to fall in love with school, then we must guide at this time, and we must tell the child the meaning of learning, so that the child can realize the importance of learning.

Everyone also knows that junior high school students are in adolescence, so children are also prone to many emotional problems at this time. We must pay attention to the child's emotions in life, if you find that the child is very anxious. At this time, everyone must guide, and you must pay attention to relevant issues in life, so as to make your child more outstanding.

Therefore, we must learn to guide, and at this time, we must help children face these problems correctly, and we must let children realize the importance of learning.

The reason why children are tired of school may be because they feel that they do not need to study, and they also feel that they are under a lot of pressure. Therefore, parents must guide, and teachers should help the student solve the problem at this time, and everyone must take the initiative to communicate with the child, and must understand them.

In the process of children's growth, we should teach the children well, and we should also tell the children some truths, so that the children understand the importance of learning spring thoughts, and do not put too much pressure on the children, and try to persuade the children.

You can give your child make-up lessons, or you can tell your child about the importance, so that your child can have a good communication and will also have a good grade in the future. More care, more care, more reasoning.

You can communicate more with your child, and you should usually treat your child as your friend, and talk to your child more about the importance of learning, so that your child will understand that learning is really important and can directly affect your future life.

Don't put too much pressure on junior high school students, at this time, you must let junior high school students communicate more with their parents, don't create a generation gap, and parents don't always get angry with their children.

In real life, there may be many children who are still young and do not understand the importance of learning. Especially the younger the children, the less aware they are of the importance of learning, and the less willing they are to learn. So how can we make a second-year junior high school student understand the importance of studying?

First of all, I think that it may be necessary to communicate with a second-year junior high school student to understand the importance of going to him, but often language is actually the most scarce, because purely from the words of parents, the child may not really be able to realize the importance, and he may feel that this is just a way and means for parents to force him to learn, in this case, my parents should give more examples to let children really understand that learning can indeed bring different results to people. Especially from the examples of the people around the children who are easy to understand, such as the distance from the people who are better at learning, what kind of things they can often gain, or whether it is a good job to get a good job, or a good way to deal with people, to give these examples that children are easy to understand, then they may still realize the importance of learning to a certain extent.

The second is that I think parents should let their children go to different schools to have a look, especially some ordinary universities with ruler lead, so that children can really understand that at least at the current stage of their children, their good grades directly affect which university they go to, and the environment in the university is actually quite different from the environment, often children may still be more concerned about the environment of the university they are studying.

Therefore, parents should deliberately take their children to some 985 or 211 universities with better environments and some ordinary schools, under the trend of this environment and this environment, children may be able to understand the importance of learning more easily.

First of all, you need to learn to connect the memory method filial piety. Because the knowledge we learn is scattered, then we need to connect the scattered knowledge points of our ants and beams through processing. This not only helps us memorize, but also allows us to react more quickly during exams.

Secondly, learn to summarize the wrong questions and find the knowledge points and the root of the knowledge points. We need to learn to make wrong problem sets, and at the same time, we also need to learn to reflect. We do the problem sets not to complete the tasks assigned by the teacher, but to better serve our learning.

Therefore, we need to correct our own attitude and let our mistakes play a good role in reflection.