My girlfriend is in contact with her former boyfriend and it s late at night, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-24
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's a bit of that, but you can't say this to her directly, and don't question or spy on her all day, you can only use your kindness to her to prove that you are the most important thing to her, and then find a suitable opportunity to say dear to her, I will feel distressed when I see you with other men, and so on. Be sure to find the right opportunity.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's get in touch, that's it, man, be broad-minded, and if you can't stand it, just communicate with her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't care, you ask yourself if you can do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't you have to be so nervous if it's just a general connection?

    Don't quarrel over these things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Dump her, something.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Needless to say? Go to him and settle the score.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What should I do if I find out that my boyfriend is still chatting with his ex-girlfriend late at night?

    1.First of all, what is the reason why your boyfriend met his ex-girlfriend? If it's a good reason, don't break up.

    Maybe he's carrying you behind your back to meet your ex-girlfriend and just doesn't want to upset you. Start by thinking about whether your boyfriend has changed how he feels about himself. Everyone has the right to make friends.

    If your boyfriend is in constant contact with your ex-girlfriend, don't be in a hurry to calm down and think about whether your boyfriend's feelings for him have changed. If the boyfriend is as good as ever about his feelings, then the contact between him and his ex-girlfriend should be a normal communication between ordinary friends; If your boyfriend changes his or her opinion about himself, there should be a lot of changes, just be observant. If you are sure that he is still in contact with his ex-girlfriend and Li Xianhe is still having an extramarital affair, then you must break up with him decisively.

    Such a man is too tasteless.

    2.Is the boyfriend's contact with his ex-girlfriend behind his back, that is to say, is the ** or other form of contact between him and his ex-girlfriend often carried out without his knowledge? If the boyfriend contacts the ex-girlfriend openly and honestly, and what he has to say and what he says is his own love, then the boyfriend and ex-girlfriend should just be normal contact between friends; If the boyfriend is always contacting the ex-girlfriend behind his back, there should be a problem.

    3.If he is innocent, it will only hurt his heart if you ask Pai Huai about him aggressively. He certainly won't contact his ex-girlfriend that way, but neither you nor he wants to.

    You teach him how to fall in love at the cost of losing his boyfriend. What if he still has illicit thoughts about his ex-girlfriend? If you ask him, will he admit it to you directly?

    He will only bite back, saying that you don't trust him and deliberately make trouble with him, which makes him think that his ex-girlfriend is good, so when the time is right, he will push the boat, he will realize his dirty wishes, and you will get the infamy of "doing". Stabilize your emotions and communicate with him calmly. When it's time to be spoiled, you can cast charm on him.

    Instead of getting angry, he will feel guilty and feel that he really didn't take your emotions into account.

    4.Be broad-minded and not too sensitive. If your boyfriend contacts your ex-girlfriend, it could be that your ex-girlfriend is in trouble, asking her boyfriend for help, or something else.

    If you are too sensitive, resolutely opposing or blocking your boyfriend's contact with your ex-girlfriend, it may cause your boyfriend to resent it and create a rift in an otherwise beautiful relationship. So when you encounter such a thing, you should be generous and choose to trust your boyfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then tell him that you either delete your ex-girlfriend or delete me, choose one of the two, why do you want to talk to your ex-girlfriend late at night, you ask him if he wants to get back together, then you get back together, and we'll break up, you say you mind this matter, you don't feel comfortable with this matter, so let him choose one.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you should choose to communicate well with your boyfriend, and Lu told him that this has caused substantial damage to you, and if he continues to choose to break up with his ex-girlfriend, I think you can choose to break up, because this kind of person is not worth it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should express your dissatisfaction with him, ask him to stop his behavior that he has not changed, regulate his actions and ruin the state, and if he thinks that your ideas are superfluous, you can choose to leave.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello, if you still love, then take the initiative to chase it back, to pursue a person you like is not ashamed! But if you have a girlfriend and a new life has begun, but you still think about your ex-girlfriend, this is disrespect for your current girlfriend, and you are a scumbag!

    Hello, if you still love, then take the initiative to chase it back, to pursue a person you like is not ashamed! But if you have a girlfriend and your new life is beginning to be extended, but you still think about your former Sakura girlfriend, this is disrespect for your current girlfriend, and you are a scumbag!

    His ex-girlfriend went out with a few men at nine o'clock, and my boyfriend said that he was completely over with his ex-girlfriend and asked his ex-girlfriend not to look for him again. But in the end, my boyfriend took a taxi to find the ex-girlfriend, took her to dinner, and sent her home. My boyfriend told me that safety is the most important thing, and he was worried about his ex-girlfriend's safety.

    The aftermath is not over. Eating in the bowl and looking into the pot.

    His ex-girlfriend was also unlucky to have a good time with those men, and my boyfriend suddenly went crazy and scolded him for having a good relationship with his former girlfriend in the future. In the end, his ex-girlfriend pretended to be pitiful, and my boyfriend took a taxi to pick up the woman! I'm so angry, what the hell does he mean.

    You're a good man.

    Sister, are you still there, my boyfriend told me that he loves her, but he also likes me, he said that unless his ex-girlfriend does something that makes him particularly sad and sad, they will not separate, saying that he and I may also break up for many reasons because of the fierce pretense, so that I don't stare in front of me. I asked him why he didn't get back together with his ex, and he said that the closer the distance is, the beginning of the distance, and they will always maintain this relationship. Until he graduated from college, let time test him, test his ex-girlfriend, and test me.

    I'm male. Eating in the bowl and looking into the pot.

    I really took it.

    The average person breaks up and doesn't meet.

    Your male ticket is really a double standard.

    Rest early.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your girlfriend refuses neatly, then don't talk to him anymore, or just call the security guard in the middle of the night, and if your girlfriend is always hesitant, then I can only say that your relationship still needs to be tested.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is necessary to have a long talk and do psychological work.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Little brother, let's disperse. Whether she's loyal to you or not, these things at least mean that she doesn't have a brain.

    This stupid woman won't understand your painstaking efforts.

    Don't say that you can give selflessly and endure silently. Life is too short to toss yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whatever she wants, just be yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I should help you more if you don't have wealth, and solving the troubles of life is not for wealth, but to take care of other people's hearts and help her live happily.

    1. It seems that you really don't say much, and you don't say a lot of things. But it's absolutely not okay not to say it. Because as a man, I would never want to be in contact with a woman lying next to me.

    Whatever the reason, it's forgivable. He may not be able to break off contact for his ex-girlfriend if he can't think of anything. But that's not the reason.

    Because before you love another person, you should cut off the previous her, and even change the ** number.

    2. Your grievances come from the fact that you can't guess what he went out to do, so you think about it. It makes sense. Here's how you should do it. It must also be done:

    1) Don't roll the sheets with her anymore. When he asks again, you have to ask clearly: after you have settled the relationship with her, we will begin.

    If you really won't say it, then choose to leave and tell him to wait until he has thought things through before coming to me. You can ask him to ask these questions: Which one do we like best?

    Who do you want to be with? If you want to be with me, will you change your **number now or never pick her **? Do you know how I felt when you picked her up?

    2) If he still contacts her, you can choose to give up. Such a man is unreliable. No matter how good he is, no matter how much you love him, you have to leave him.

    Because if you are married, there is a high chance that such a man will cuckold you. Hesitant men, I look down on them.

    3) If you can't live without him and he promises to take care of it all, be patient and wait for him to give him some time. After all, the previous love is also love. It's not like you can forget it.

    3. Girl, the emotional entanglement in the world is very complicated. As long as he can disconnect from the past and start well with you, he can still accept it. But if he still breaks the thread, you do what the second article says.

    There are many honest people like you, but when your own interests are tolerated, then you don't have to endure it anymore. Love is not a love letter, love is the joint unregrettable contribution of two people.

    You also have to remember that women chase men in compartment paper, and men chase women compartment mountains. Maybe that woman's bombardment will take your husband down. You have to hold on. Don't wait for everything to be lost, even with your body and youth.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A man also has a difficult side, and his struggle is that he doesn't want to hurt his ex-girlfriend or you, but doing so may hurt both of you. I guess he also talked to her ex-girlfriend for a long time. The key point is that you still need to communicate well with your boyfriend, if you choose an ex-girlfriend, you will cut off the relationship with him, if you choose you will give up all contacts with your ex-girlfriend, forcing him to take a responsible attitude to make a statement, the outcome is not the most important, but to have a good statement for all three parties.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This, I think you should say what is in your heart. Talk to him. If it goes on like this, it will only make you more miserable and even break up in the end.

    You can ask him what he's doing. Came back so late. I think you should be sure that what he said is true or false, and if he tells you the truth, it means that he still cares about you in his heart.

    It's just that the woman's entanglement that led to the current situation. If he doesn't tell the truth, then you should think carefully about your relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You two, just break up, I think normal women also think about the problem of men, okay, this thing can't be handled well, it's still a man.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't want that kind of man, you have to give to get it, he doesn't deserve your nostalgia anymore.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    found that the boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are still secretly in contact, you don't need to be with him anymore in this kind of relationship, even if he is together, it is impossible for him to forget his ex-girlfriend, or he will not ruin the contact stupidly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Look at how he treats you, I'm a man myself, and I know that this thing can't be avoided, and if it's a successful man, it's even more impossible to avoid. The key is to your heart. If he has a heart for you, he won't let you find out, but he'll still play.

    You have to pretend that you don't know, but you imply that you know a little bit about it, and he'll be he's going to have some scruples. Otherwise, you're pushing too hard, and you're definitely going to be forced away.

    The key is whether he has a heart for you or not.

    By the way, my friend's dad was a very successful man, but he didn't play, and my friend couldn't figure it out, and then I guessed that he didn't play because he had enough fun when he was younger, and now he thinks his family is more important, so he doesn't play.

    That man of yours probably hasn't reached this point yet.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1.He is dating you and is having an ambiguous relationship with other girls

    2.The girl wanted to hear him. If he really refuses to fight with that girl, he will refuse.

    3.You also know that he is a divorced man. How can a good man divorce his wife? All right. Maybe it's all the woman who is sorry for him.

    4.He may know that you are 6 years younger than him. I don't have much hope for you to live a lifetime at all. At most, it's just playing with my little sister. Or maybe he doesn't believe what you've identified for him, and he wants to go through it for the rest of his life.

    5.Even if you continue to be with him. You can't change the fact that he betrayed you ambiguously with this QQ girl. Is it possible for you to go back to the way before? Have you forgotten that there was no appearance of this QQ girl?

    6.You're still young, and now you know he's not a loyal man. Why not find your own happiness?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Break up, he can get married like this now, and you don't feel good in your own heart, and you don't trust him anymore After this incident, there is a gap between you, while it's still too late to divide it, it's even more uncomfortable to want a divorce after marriage.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's hard to say, there is a saying that I would rather believe that there are ghosts in the world, don't believe in men's broken mouths, although I am also a man But a good man will not hurt his beloved woman, and even say that he will not do it so blatantly, most men like to go to the twilight and twilight Do not deny that this proportion is very large, but fortunately you haven't met a person who loves you, your own feelings are clear, and the decision is in your hands, even if others say more and how good it sounds, maybe you already have the answer in your heart, just don't admit it and find an excuse. Remember one sentence, which is also my life motto, since you choose, don't blame life, since you choose, don't complain and regret.

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