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The first thing to do depends on whether the person you want to marry is widowed or divorced.
First, if you are widowed:
Pros: 1. Finally with the person you like. 2. Widowed, it means that his two daughters have lost their mothers, as a stepmother, you may transfer the need for maternal love to you, and it will not be difficult to have his two daughters for a long time.
Disadvantages: When you have your own baby with him, will you love his two daughters as if they were his own, if not, as a biological father, he will definitely cause dissatisfaction with you. If you say yes, one is difficult to do, and the other is that your baby will have a natural sense of superiority in front of his two sisters.
Then there will be difficulties between them, and then there will be conflicts between your husband and wife.
Second, let's talk about it if it's divorced:
Leigh: Finally with someone you like.
Disadvantages: 1. Divorce, which means that the mother of his two daughters is still there, as a stepmother, you will always be second, no matter how good it is, it is not as good as your biological mother, and the relationship is difficult to get along with. 2. After you get married, his ex-wife will definitely go to see his daughter, so there is still a chance to meet your current husband, and if you meet more times, you will think about what will happen to yourself, there is no certainty, only uncertain possibility.
To sum up the above, the biggest advantage is that you and the person you want to marry finally live together, but one thing has changed, there is no more romantic dating, but living at home. The disadvantage is that there are many troubles, and there are more relationships to deal with than ordinary couples.
In addition, let's talk about the question of whether to marry, if you want to marry, what is your motive, if it is pure love, then you have to think more, married love will slowly fade. If it's money, it doesn't matter, everyone takes what they need.
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I was also widowed by my boyfriend, leaving two daughters, my boyfriend had no money, and I invested in opening a barbershop. Now it's been a year and the business is okay, but I feel that he is a little floating, he is not as good to me as before, he is angry and now he is never coaxed, now I buy a house, he wants to decorate him, the house is married and the names of the two people are written, I don't know what to do?
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I have a daughter with my current husband in my second marriage, but he still gives all the money to my ex-wife, should I get a divorce? Let's talk about this topic together!
1. You shouldn't get a divorce now, what you should do is talk to your current husband and talk about your feelings.
You and your husband are married for the second time, which is also a kind of fate, marriage is not as simple as falling in love, and there are many things to face, so you must not easily talk about divorce. As a wife. You should communicate more with your husband and tell him that you would mind giving all the money to your ex-wife, after all, you and him are the real couple.
As someone who has come over, I believe your husband will understand.
2. If your husband's ex-wife has something unspeakable and needs your husband's help, I think you can support your husband, and of course you should not divorce your husband.
Although your husband and his ex-wife are divorced, but everyone is still friends, if his ex-wife is in trouble and needs your husband's help, I think your husband's approach is not wrong, which shows that your husband is a person who values love and righteousness, and your choice is not wrong, you should fully support him, and the two of you should work together to do one thing.
3. If your husband insists on going his own way, I think there is still no need to live with him, and divorce is a good choice.
If your husband's ex-wife doesn't have anything special, and your husband just wants to help his ex-wife and children treat you as an outsider, I don't think there is any need to continue such a marriage, he may not have a heart-to-heart relationship with you, and he doesn't treat you as a wife, then divorce is a good choice at this time, otherwise it is you who are wronged, and the marriage is unhappy, which is a particularly depressing thing.
Regarding "I have a daughter with my current husband in my second marriage, but he still gives all the money to his ex-wife, should I get a divorce?" That's my point of view, what do you think? Welcome to the comment area to leave a message.
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You should divorce because the money between you and his money belongs to the joint property of both of you, and he has no right to give it to his ex-wife.
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Divorce is too much and doesn't make any sense. If you continue, you will only suffer more damage.
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Let's leave, if your husband still misses his ex-wife, then you should get acquainted and choose to quit yourself.
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It depends on the property if it is your husband's pre-marital property. Then this property has nothing to do with you, it belongs to your husband himself, and only his children have the right to inherit. If this property is your property after marriage.
Then it can be divided among you. If you're with kids, I'll give you a little more. As for the children of him and his ex-wife, they cannot inherit the property between you.
Unless your husband dies, his children can exercise their inheritance rights. Otherwise, there is no way to get a share of the property that you and your husband and wife have in common. However, if it is a pre-marital property.
It belongs to your husband, and he will inherit it to whomever he wants. No one can interfere with him.
The new matrimonial law protects pre-marital property from being threatened. Because some people choose to be with others because they fancy other people's property. Such a person will not have a chance in the future.
And people nowadays aren't stupid. If you are afraid that the other party will get a share of the property, you will definitely notarize your property before marriage. Others should not think about getting a point by marriage.
Even though your husband has a son with his ex-wife, he is not allowed to share in your marital property. Because this is your husband and wife's hard-earned earnings, and they have nothing to do with anyone else. If you want to divorce and divide, it should also be divided between your husband and wife.
Although some husbands may earn more. But girls also pay a lot at home. All the housework in the house is the girl's business.
Cooking is also a girl's business. Therefore, these should be converted into labor remuneration. And the cost of childbirth for women is even greater.
Now even a stay-at-home wife is also protected. Because there are already such precedents. Stay-at-home wives also give a lot of things in their own homes.
Fortunately, the law is fair.
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If the two sons are raised in their own names, then after the divorce, the property will be divided equally, and this part of the property belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, so after the divorce, the property will be divided jointly between the husband and wife.
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After the divorce, there will be an equal division and both children have the corresponding right to divide, and these children belong to the biological flesh and blood.
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Under normal circumstances, the two sons should be divided equally, but the specific situation should also be analyzed specifically, and the results may change somewhat.
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Summary. Kiss <>
Thank you very much for your patience and inquiry: you can't accept the second husband and daughter to get married and your ex-wife comes over, you need to think carefully about your own feelings and needs, and whether the relationship and commitment between you and your husband are acceptable to this decision. This requires a certain amount of time and mental preparation, including the management of one's own emotional and communication skills.
I can't accept the second husband's daughter getting married and my ex-wife coming over.
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Thank you very much for your patience and inquiry: you can't accept the second husband and daughter to get married and your ex-wife comes over, you need to think carefully about your own feelings and needs, and whether the relationship and commitment between you and your husband are acceptable to this decision. This requires a certain amount of time and psychological preparation, and Bao Zai lacks the management of his own emotions and communication skills.
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You need to have a good talk with your husband and tell him how you feel and how confused and worried you are about this arrangement. To express himself rationally, and to respect his choices and family relationships, together a more acceptable solution.
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No, can you describe your problem in detail? I can make this according to your specific situation.
His daughter took the initiative to invite.
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That is, when you get married, you also need to be on stage in the early stage. Is it equivalent to the three of you who are hot?
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That is, when you get married, you also need to be on stage in the early stage. Is it equivalent to all three of you?
Oh, yes. Kiss <>
That's a bit embarrassing. And she said she must have come.
Yes, my daughter told me.
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Then you can't drive people away. I can only face it with a smile.
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It's usually your home field, and then his mother will do it himself.
He knew that he should go, but he still wanted to consult on the side<> after all, he gave birth to one by one.
Thank you for your patient answer, the answer is also to let yourself make a decision<> kiss, <>
Yes, people are also mothers. My daughter must have wanted him to come, too.
Thank you. Uh-huh, that's okay.
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The husband has two daughters, one is divided among his ex-wife, the other is divided among his husband, and another is born in the second marriage, how should the property be divided: Generally speaking, the custody of children and the distribution of property after divorce are negotiated or resolved by the parties themselves. If the parties are unable to negotiate, they can apply to the court for arbitration, and the court will be responsible for the decision.
If both the ex-wife and the husband have property, you can consider dividing the ex-wife's property among the two daughters, and the husband's property among his children. If neither the ex-wife nor the husband have property, consider dividing the husband's property among the two daughters, while the ex-wife's property is divided among her children. In addition, the parties can also negotiate to divide the property into three parts, one for the ex-wife, one for the husband and the other for the newborn child.
My husband has two daughters, one is given to his ex-wife, one is given to his husband, and another is born in the second marriage, how should the property be divided.
Generally speaking, child custody and property distribution after divorce are resolved by the parties through negotiation or at their own banquet. If the parties are unable to negotiate, they can apply to the court for arbitration, and the court will be responsible for the decision. If both the ex-wife and the husband have property, you can consider dividing the ex-wife's property among the two daughters, and the husband's property among his children.
If both the ex-wife and the husband have no property, they can consider dividing the husband's property among the two daughters, and the ex-wife's property among their children. In addition, the parties can also negotiate to divide the property into three parts, one for the ex-wife, one for the husband and the other for the newborn child. <>
My husband has two daughters, and he is divorced, and I have a son with my husband in my first marriage.
According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, in the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be divided equally in accordance with the law. Therefore, all the joint property of the husband and wife should be divided equally, whether the husband has two daughters, or you and your husband have a son, they must be divided equally. Thank you.
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