For a second marriage, do you have to have a child to be happy?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-27
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Generally speaking, couples have their own children in common, and the marriage is relatively stable. This is relatively speaking. Couples who are united because of a second marriage have no children to maintain the relationship between the two, and when the husband and wife have conflicts, they can choose to divorce without any scruples.

    That's a sign that you've been through a failed marriage. Yes, failed. Divorce means that this marriage starts to ends, and I believe that everyone wants to grow old forever when they get married.

    But now divorced and married again. Since then, you have entered another stage in your life.

    In real life, there are a lot of second-married couples around me, but I know a few pairs of second-married women who remarry with children, women who do not have children together, and in the end either the relationship between husband and wife is broken, or they have divorced again. Not having children will inevitably make one of them careless, and they will break up if they don't get along. But if you have given birth to a child, it is highly recommended not to marry, unless she marries far away, otherwise the ex-husband's family and children's affairs will make you turn from a normal person to a wasted person.

    If you don't contact me for a short time after giving birth to a child, it's impossible not to contact me for a long time.

    If children are a bargaining chip for happiness, why do so many children go to divorce, children are not a bargaining chip for marital happiness, but a reason for emotional discord to make do, if both parties have children, and the conditions are average, there is really no need to have another child, the original sweet words have become evil words, and the face is not short to show you. Therefore, if you have money, you will have love, if you have a house, you will have marriage, so let's have a snack!

    This is reality, this is the law of immutability. No one can get past it. Even if there are individual ones, they will not be happy.

    That first marriage. Isn't it common for divorces with children to abound? Whether the second marriage is happy or not, I think it depends on the IQ and compatibility of both parties, the mutual communication of the soul, the matching of the height of thought, and whether they put each other in the most important position in their lives.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, children are not a bond that maintains marriage, and the same is true for second marriage, as long as the two truly love each other, it is okay to have no children, and they will be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, because only in this way can the stability of the couple's love life be better guaranteed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think for a second marriage, you don't have to have a child to be happy, and children are not the only criterion for marital happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily, it mainly depends on what the relationship between the two people is. Some people are okay even if they are married for the second time and have no children.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes. Because there is a crystallization of love between the two of you, so that the two of you will cherish marriage very much.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    For the second marriage, it is necessary to have a child to be happy, and with a child, two people can be heart-to-heart and not distracted, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Not necessarily, as long as two people truly love each other, it doesn't matter whether they have children or not, what matters is how you both feel.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, no, as long as the relationship between two people is very good, it doesn't matter if they have children or not, the happiness standard of the second marriage does not mean that they have children.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it is a second marriage, I don't think you have to have a child to be happy, as long as two people truly love each other, they can also live their own lives.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not necessarily, children are just a bond between the husband and wife to maintain a happy relationship, and without children, as long as the relationship between the husband and wife is harmonious, even if the second marriage will be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For second marriages, having a child as a blood relationship to maintain the relationship between two people can make the whole family happier. And the more intimate it is, the happier it will be.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It will be better, because if you two don't have children, you will definitely quarrel because of children in the future, and besides, the woman will have no one to support her when she is old.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. If both partners have children, it is higher, almost 70 percent. If both of them have children, they will not be particularly partial, after all, they have to be well supported, and the relationship can be maintained better. It is very likely that there is only one person unilaterally, and there are many problems.

    If both parties have children, it is relatively high, and the infiltration is almost 70 percent. Both of them have children Duan Zao will not be particularly partial to shouting and tearing apart, after all, they all have to be well supported, and the relationship can be maintained relatively well. It is very likely that there is only one person unilaterally, and there are many problems.

    This is the case with men? Is there any ability to raise.

    I don't know if the temporary external debt in the future is more than 1 million, and the woman is one year older than the man.

    With so many foreign debts, what is the man's character, to be honest, if it is not particularly good, it will be difficult to believe him.

    There is no self-motivation and room for development.

    Will this situation be happy in the future?

    If his feelings for you are very flat now, then he will not be happy in marriage. Coupled with the fact that he is stressed, it is easy to vent his suppressed feelings on you.

    In addition to being particularly good, you're pretty sure it's only him. This situation is okay, and other mediocre love is not necessary. I'm like this, and how can I bring a good one to my home.

    People are diligent, even if it is difficult to make money in society now! My family is well-off, and I am a year older than him, what about you? Are you sure that he loves you very seriously, not to make do with you, or to take a fancy to your family background.

    For example, in his situation, if he goes out to eat together, can he take the initiative to pay for it, and will he have a preparation for his birthday. There are also some things that will be paid attention to during the period of life and trembling.

    He and his wife have just divorced, and he compensates her for 80,000 yuan every year for 5 years.

    The compensation is 8w a year, and now the foreign debt is 100w, and the three children have to be raised. This...

    He washed all the dishes at home, and a few days ago I found out that she brought food to her ex-wife.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    For families who remarry and have children, it depends on how the parties maintain such a relationship. Many conflicts in remarried families focus on the children of both parties, which means that the other party always thinks that you are not paying enough, and even thinks that you are too partial to your own children.

    People are like this, in the face of remarried families, they will definitely want to protect their children. If there is anything delicious and delicious at home, I will think of my children first. If you do this, then the other half will definitely feel uncomfortable, and over time, the other person will do the same.

    Although you have become husband and wife, although you are a family, you are separated from each other. In this way, it is also very bad for the child, and the child does not feel the love and warmth from both parties.

    Those who remarry happily and happily are most likely people who can manage relationships. They are not only good to their children, but also to their other half. This means that they are able to treat their children fairly, even if they are not their own.

    If both husband and wife have such thoughts, then such a family is full of warmth and love. Children growing up in such a family do not feel that there is anything wrong with it.

    The remarried family depends on the tolerance of the parties and whether they can be fair. However, many couples who remarry now seem to find it difficult to do this, for fear that they will suffer a loss, for fear that their children will suffer. The more you have this mentality, the more you will reject each other's children, and the more you will be unable to treat them fairly.

    In fact, remarriage also hurts children, and parents still have to be aware of this. If divorce makes children feel the warmth of losing their family, then remarriage will make children experience this feeling again.

    Therefore, when choosing to get married, it is still necessary to reach an agreement with the remarried partner, that is, to be good to the child, and not to hurt the child. At the same time, you should also put yourself in the right position, and you should also treat the other half of the children with the same mentality. I believe that when you do this, then remarriage can also be happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is indeed very happy, if the two parties can be harmonious together, then the family will be happy, and this kind of life is also what many people want to have.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If two people can reflect on their marriage, be able to get along with each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, they will be very happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course not. Because such a halfway couple will not end well, both parties will always quarrel over each other's children.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    will not live happily, because two people think about it more, each for their own children, there will be a gap in their hearts, so it is better not to get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is based on people, if there was still a relationship when they were separated, and if they got back together, nothing could stop them from being happy.

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