How much love urge do you have? Is love impulsive?

In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate, and everything will be natural and satisfying.

Love is free to give, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since the choice of love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is difficult, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. Loving someone wants him (her) to be happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Let's talk about what love is first, love seems to be different at each stage, your grandparents' time when they held hands was love, your parents' time when they kissed was love, our generation is not necessarily love when they sleep. So does love need to be impulsive? What about after impulse?

Surely reap the rewards? Or is it the beginning of a tragedy for two people?

So love shouldn't be impulsive, but deliberate, IDeepI love you deeply, thinking about our past, present and future, I am familiar with everything about you, thinking about the future life, this is thoughtful, this is love, not that my mind is hot, it is love, that is your irresponsibility. Vigorous love may not last long, and ordinary life is the true face of love.

So, is impulsive love really love? It's the ones who are thoughtful!

Sometimes, yes, when you calm down and think about it, it makes a difference.

Many people will say that they should "fall in love soberly", this is because there are too many factors in the real society that will affect the development of love, such as economy, family, work, etc. Therefore, in order to avoid being disturbed by these factors in love, we need to look at and face love more clearly. However, many people will think that love needs to be irrational and impulsive, so is this view correct?

Below we will analyze it from several aspects.

1.Love requires a combination of reason and impulse.

Love does need an element of irrationality and impulsiveness, because it is an expression of emotion, an affectionate expression of the other half. However, if you only rely on impulsiveness and emotion to face love, it is easy to be affected by emotions and make some radical behaviors. Therefore, love also requires rational thinking and decision-making.

Only under the combination of impulse and reason can we face love more rationally and make it more stable and long-lasting.

2.Love needs to be based on realistic considerations.

In real life, we need to face problems such as work, family, finances, etc., which can affect our lives and emotions. Therefore, in love, we need to consider both people's lives and futures based on realistic considerations. If you just blindly pursue sensuality and impulsiveness, it is easy to ignore these important factors and bring unnecessary distress to yourself and your significant other.

3.Love needs to be based on mutual respect.

Building a stable and long-lasting love relationship needs to be based on mutual respect. Mutual respect includes not only respect for each other's personality, interests, lifestyle, etc., but also respect for each other's opinions and decisions. If you just blindly pursue your own feelings and impulses, and are unwilling to listen to the other person's opinions, then the relationship will not be sustainable.

4.Love requires balance and communication.

In a love relationship, there is a need for balance and communication between the two people. Balance includes the balance of feelings, time, money, etc., and one party should not suffer too much or occupy too many advantages. Communication, on the other hand, refers to the need for communication and expression to solve problems and conflicts between two people, rather than through conflicts and quarrels.

Only with proper balance and communication can a stable and long-lasting love relationship be established.

In short, love needs to be irrational and impulsive, but it also needs rational and sober thinking. It is only with the combination of the two that a stable and long-lasting love relationship can be established. Therefore, we need to "fall in love soberly", not only to pursue sensuality and impulsiveness, but also to pay attention to realistic considerations and mutual respect, balance and communication.

First of all, it is necessary to understand what the concept of impulse is, impulse means to be desperate, and action here can be interpreted as action. Then the "impulsive" explanation is: acting desperately.

Love: It is because of good feelings, likes, and feelings.

Love is based on impulse, when there is a manuscript between two people to light up love, in order to talk about impulse, if there is no good impression of each other, like the component, that is, the element of love, if you are desperate to make a hug, kiss the action, the consequences can be imagined. Film and television dramas or **, there is a so-called "love" after being "strengthened", which is an extreme event and cannot be imitated.

Therefore, if the other party has a liking and liking factor for you, (he) she wants you to do what she expects in her heart, and if you do it at this time, it means that you are smart and empathetic, but this behavior cannot be called "impulsive". If you don't do it, it means that you are a person who does not understand the amorous feelings.

If a man sees a woman, no matter what the occasion, rushes up and hugs, this is called impulsiveness, and the result of impulsiveness may obtain this woman, the condition is: this woman is mediocre, and this man is very handsome, and the man's actions are essentially to give him a hug, of course the woman is willing to accept it, but whether there will be love after that, it is difficult to say.

In love, we must remain sensible, we must not treat it impulsively, we must not ignore it in order to get love, love can be loved, but not blindly, and we must not treat it impulsively, impulsive treatment of feelings not only hurts the other party, but also hurts ourselves.

In fact, this kind of thing, especially think twice before acting, in order to have a stronger emotional foundation, restrain your impulses, treat feelings rationally, don't say what you say is the holy will, you need to think about the other party from a different angle, what can be done, what should not be done, and treat every feeling rationally.

Impulsive love is a necessity for a relationship. When it's cold, you can't help but give each other a hug. When you are sick, someone who travels day and night to take care of you can soothe people's hearts.

Such a small life seems very ordinary. If you don't have an impulse for love, even if you hug for a few seconds, you will feel awkward. Impulsiveness is a negative word most of the time, and it means recklessness and irrationality.

The impulse to love is because of following one's own heart.

Some people say that air-burning true love requires the impulse to know what not to do. For the sake of love, there is no urge to hesitate, in fact, it is courage. Many times, we miss one thing, miss someone, because we don't have enough courage.

In fact, there is no destined love, only a timid mentality.

Many people are trapped in a relationship and have no way to extricate themselves, because every time he pays, he does it without thinking. If his efforts had been weighed and weighed repeatedly, there would have been no subsequent suffering. Of course, such a quick loss of love is not true love.

Impulsive giving, often lose a lot, but it can also make love real. The secret to staying fresh is to be impulsively invested in each other.